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3 ni ooo If God wills, 4 at most

Lucky me, I already have 2 kids; a girl & a boy.

My wife has since done 'family planning' and we're on a knacking spree.

oyeb15:
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I want to be a father of many nations.

Amen

I have a boy and a girl... I done hang boot ooh, make God just keep providing to take care of them..

4,5 children 3kids down already. With God all things are possible

4,5 children. 3kids down already. With God all things are possible

9 by the Grace and Mercy ofGod

3-4 kids is my ideal.

Jewessgratitud3:
Considering the harsh economic conditions, if you happen to marry today, how many children will you have knowing the current istration is still going to last for the another four years. Will you plan the number of children you're having around the tenure or are you going to just have them as they come with hope for a better economy in the future?

This also applies to the newly married who just had one. How far? Una wan go for second one in this regime? Why?

Im not talking now based on your current financial status. Just looking at the economy, which would you go for A or B?

Share your sincere thoughts on this.


Let me set the ball rolling.
If I happen to marry today, hubby and I will have to reach a solid agreement to have only one child for now then wait and see what happens after four years to decide if we are having more or closing shop. . This is my honest opinion.

I go born wetin i won born 4 even as old as i am ...my dream no go go like that but I advise born small pikin naija dey go hotter every year

Jewessgratitud3:

I my faith with yours and say amen.

It is well.

BE CAREFUL OF WHAT YOU WISH YOURSELF O
THAT GIRL YOU QUOTED IS FROM THE MARINE KINGDOM

SHE IS LOOKING FOR PEOPLE TO CONCUR TO WHAT SHE TYPED AND THEY WOULD NEVER GET MARRIED

BIBLE SAYS , AS YOU HAVE SPOKEN/TYPED TO GOD HEARING, SO WILL HE (GOD) DO


YOU BETTER REJECT IT WHEN YOU PRAY 🙏 OOO

YOU SHALL GET MARRIED TO YOUR GOD GIVING HUSBAND IN NIGERIA 🇳🇬 WHO WILL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU OK 👌

I WANTED NOT TO COMMENT, BUT I DID because MY SPIRIT TOLD ME TO

Same people telling you " Born am finish and rest" are same folks that will mock you tomorrow when you can't provide for the kids.

Avoid the urge to proove to your village people that you are potent. 1 or 2 kids should be enough in this economy.

Omo

maasoap:

I have four too. that economy was better than this, generally. Though, I'm not on a salary or fixed income, larger percentage of income are now going into keeping the same number of family than before. That's all with me

Even when the economy was better than this, why 4 kids?

From the answers…it’s clear we are not ready for this question yet. Nigerians like suffering!

Jeon:
None, my kid[s] will not be a citizen of this nation or smell it sand.


Amen!!
☺

I can assist you to make it a reality

Zonefree:
Marriage with a Nigerian girl is vain!

this 1 strong oo

May God bring a Rich lady to me, so I can be rescued from the bad life....

maybe 1

TheMostComplex1:

Four
2 boys & 2 girls

u r not a lady....would have said u fit in my plans

maasoap:
Two is okay for intending couple who are not superbly rich. And probably on monthly fixed salary. Nigeria has never remain the same since after year 2020 covid-19.

After Covid 19 or after May 29, 2023 when one slowpoke said subsidy is gone?
Goat…. Say the truth for once.

Lemme marry fess, but at most, 2 kids is ok by me with proper planning and beta treatment Dan I received

Just two (2)

3 normal and substitutes

Children are Baba God's Ambassadors .. so you must ensure there age in this earth goes smooth.. I think one is Okay but because everyone needs a broda or sista two is the very maximum ...Economy or no Economy

2.4 is always the Ideal number........ But economically and financially challenged people, love to have too many children.........😜

3.
1 girl
2 boys

Prettygirl200 come let's answer this question together

If my first is a boy then its only one child but if its a girl and my second is a girl, I will just accept my fate so in summary 2 if my first is a girl and 1 if my first is a boy.

tensazangetsu20:
If my first is a boy then its only one child but if its a girl and my second is a girl, I will just accept my fate so in summary 2 if my first is a girl and 1 if my first is a boy.

Kwakwakwa

Programming on top child birth? Omo

Any "else if" ?

lastkingsman:



Kwakwakwa

Programming on top child birth? Omo

Any "else if" ?

3 will be OKay.

I plan having 2kids
after my first daughter
the next stage came as twins
a boy and a girl
as I dey like this...I don hang boot

jamesversion:


I just need 1 child, preferably a son and I'm OK. [b]All the small small girls around me are fantasising about having 4 & 5 kid[/b]s. I no blame dem sha, especially as they demand for something, I give ASAP.

I had female friend who said many years ago that she would have minimum 4 kids. She had no steady bf. Although she claimed no bf but you know ladies are not honest in such matters.
I advised that she should wait and agree that with her future hubby. She insisted it must be minimum 4 kids by fire by force. I just siddon look.

She married some years later.
She knack one pikin fiam! Like another 18 months, another pikin fiam!

Nor do nor do, a third pikin fiam!

Well, the hubby insisted on not having a third child but she did everything to have it. I only found out when the hubby began to avoid coming home until very late at night and marital problems started.

She is a single mother now.