NewStats: 3,265,115 , 8,185,712 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 02:17 PM 1z4gl

Lifeinlight:
is 200k a well good paid job for a 34 years old man in this your Tinubu government?

Please don't be angry with me. Thanks.

My brother japa immediately, but dont go the UK because the UK is filled with old people and old buildings, i swear if you give me a free visa to the UK I wont go. Go to the US or canada instead! Because if a man comes to this world and maybe lived 90 years and died without seeing the white man land, that person soul will definately not rest in peace, his soul will roam from generation to generation.

tyinfinity:
Marry first .build a house and travel with your family if you desperately desire to leave Nigeria

Lol, kuku kill him

Kloenboi:
UK don full o!

Just pray for God's direction.

Which UK full?

😂

warrifinest1985:
My brother japa immediately, but dont go the UK because the UK is filled with old people and old buildings, i swear if you give me a free visa to the UK I wont go. Go to the US or canada instead! Because if a man comes to this world and maybe lived 90 years and died without seeing the white man land, that person soul will definately not rest in peace, his soul will roam from generation to generation.

What a depressing statement

warrifinest1985:
My brother japa immediately, but dont go the UK because the UK is filled with old people and old buildings, i swear if you give me a free visa to the UK I wont go. Go to the US or canada instead! Because if a man comes to this world and maybe lived 90 years and died without seeing the white man land, that person soul will definately not rest in peace, his soul will roam from generation to generation.

Country wey u never visit or experience you they bouth.

Equity15:
you guys just like to talk without facts. Which proffessor earns less than or a little above 100k?

Lol 😂
Na wetin hin village professor dey earn be that

They just churn out figures without thinking 😂

Inspirer1:
Keep your job, start a side business till it can fetch you what you earn from your job or more, get married in between, then later come back for advice...my 2cents

Wickedness, side hustle dey crash like sosoliso

Domainer1999:
Don't keep your job and don't travel to the UK.

Emma1Oj:
of course he will be one of the cabals or was connected by one of the cabals. Because, only connection will give a 34yrs(if true) above 200k federal job when their are federal professors, medical and teachers etc in their 50's , 60's still earning less than 100k or a little abv 100k.

Bro ,.. if you see as i Shock... You no go believe am?.... And yet still plans to relocate.

Earning above ₦200k in Nigeria... You are already living abroad life...

Lifeinlight:
make i bend if he connect you

..
This is why Nigeria is backwards.
We don't like ourselves or want others to progress.
If we can help one another then Nigeria will be a better place to be.

Namaster:
Forget marriage. Marriage is NEVER late for men.

If you have the money, LEAVE Nigeria. Don't even think twice.

There's no reason to stay in Nigeria unless you are part of the cabals.

People wey no reach you dey make money with online skill .. cus you no wan take responsibility you sha wan slave for white people yeye dey smell for all of una body ... Make una go hang for the system... Your mate are milking the financial market but una Sha want money Una no wan work for ... West dey humble many of you at the end

Namaster:
Forget marriage. Marriage is NEVER late for men.

If you have the money, LEAVE Nigeria. Don't even think twice.

There's no reason to stay in Nigeria unless you are part of the cabals.

best advice, if you begin to plan marriage with 200k, it may not carry you and your wife alone talk more of when children starts coming in. If you're able to fund your travel, please move, you can marry anytime.

captaininiobong:
Brother, go for your studies, you can marry when you are through. It's not easy to marry, keep the woman lonely here and go there studying.

And it's not also easy securing visa for her when she isn't coming to do anything there. Or packing your family down there. More expenses and workload.


Take your time with studies, study a hot course, get employed there. If you see a white girl, impregnate her and get double citizenship.

$ will never stop running in your

Naso e easy

You go just open mouth waaa, off point every time, tueh

tyinfinity:
Marry first .build a house and travel with your family if you desperately desire to leave Nigeria

Sirchiboy:
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This is why Nigeria is backwards.
We don't like ourselves or want others to progress.
If we can help one another then Nigeria will be a better place to be.

OP must be related or know one of those cabals to have gotten a FG Job that pays 200k+ monthly. He won't want to connect you because he doesn't want you to be comfortable like him

tyinfinity:
Marry first .build a house and travel with your family if you desperately desire to leave Nigeria

Am against this though, cos it's far more easier and cheaper to travel as a bachelor than as a family.

UK school fees is huge, except u want to pay a substantial amount before leaving naija. But I would advise u give a try if you have the finances and ability to endure the first one year of struggle and staggering in the UK. Because obviously your salary in naija does not encourage me to advise u to stay back, except u are already looking forward to a progression in rank and salary.

Good luck in whatever u decide.

mistacoco2:
Hello guys,

For some days now I have been on a serious dilemma whether to resign from my federal government job that pays me above N200k for my current position and migrate to the UK or stay in naija and set up a business to augment my salary. I will be 34 years next year, I feel traveling to the uk for studies next year September will delay my chances of getting married, as I have planned not exceeding 34 years without getting married.

I belong to the school of thought that believes can make it in Nigeria despite all odds. However, considering the economic realities of the country, I have recently contemplating of japa and maybe get a Nigerian lady for marriage after my studies.

Please I earnestly need matured advice from you guys to know how to start the coming year.

Lifeinlight:
is 200k a well good paid job for a 34 years old man in this your Tinubu government?

What will you then say about people who are unemployed in this same tinubu government?

Lol, this one is obviously chatting from one local village in the bush, it's clear you haven't been to anywhere aside your village, to think this way, chai

captaininiobong:
Brother, go for your studies, you can marry when you are through. It's not easy to marry, keep the woman lonely here and go there studying.

And it's not also easy securing visa for her when she isn't coming to do anything there. Or packing your family down there. More expenses and workload.


Take your time with studies, study a hot course, get employed there. If you see a white girl, impregnate her and get double citizenship.

$ will never stop running in your

In a similar situation ship have a fully funded scholarship with living costs (MSc computer science ) vs have a job that pays about 200k tech remotely

I’m about to accept the scholarship and leave the job

Lifeinlight:
LoL

Ignorance at his highest peak

Yet, naija top the ladder of unemployment and poverty in the world
Naija top the ladder of weak and worthless currency in the world
Naija leaders are one of the highest paid in the world while their subjects are so poor that they can't afford ordinary 3 square meal daily

If you think this country will ever get better then you're either a politician, Yahoo Yahoo or ritualist

Losers talk

Oga travel to UK and see first na... stop crying over your personal failure and frustration

You can grow rich in Nigeria if you know the cues... it's not by ritual or fraud... am a living testimony

Life is a game of chess(risk), you risk it, you might lose, you don't take risk, you might still lose. Take a greater calculated risk with much future gain and not temporary comfort. In 10 years from now, do not start regretting , how you wish you had travelled out. You are still young, youthfulness is for risk taking and adventures, and not for comfort zone. Every great man today has left good for better and better for best!! Think wise!!

Keep the job and travel to UK, when you come back you take it back. Just make sure you keep it safe. . Na wisdom I cap so o

UK is trash and not worth it, despite all this clueless people telling you to run to the UK. With the hostility the natives are expressing all over social media with the unending influx of migrants changing the country's demographic, you are better of staying back in Nigeria and build your career like someone suggested over time.

1950Mack:


Losers talk

Oga travel to UK and see first na... stop crying over your personal failure and frustration

You can grow rich in Nigeria if you know the cues... it's not by ritual or fraud... am a living testimony

Mr Ronu

We're still saying the same thing. Your country top the ladder of poverty, unemployment, weak and worthless currency in the world? Abi na lie? Statistics doesn't lie

Allow people to relocate in peace and stop discouraging them with your epistle

joebeckz:
This is what I think.

Every ing istration in Nigeria have only worsened the state of the country.
Do you wanna remain in this situation?

Do you have job satisfaction and do you earn enough after deduction monthly expenses from your salary to save at least 300- 500k?

If not.. Leave Nigeria.
Marrying will make your savings dip further every month. You will be under pressure and that wouldn't be nice. Plan to leave Nigeria to Australia or Canada or even the USA..
I don't like UK but it's a matter of choice.

One thing is certain, after you gain stability in these countries and you know what you are doing. You will save at least 1k dollars monthly after expense.

You can pick a wife from Nigeria, try to get a nice woman for yourself now. So she go through the phase with you in prayers and to you with words of encouragement.

My reason for choosing Canada especially is because it is easier to gain stability and immigration documents faster.

UK and Australia ain't bad either.

When you finally finish your one or two year program. Come back to Nigeria and marry your fiancee that would have been with you during this phase and begin to process her papers.
She will you as dependant.
She will also work and add to your savings as one family.
While she is in Nigeria waiting for you to get done with school. She should enrol in programs that would prepare her for the new country in relevant trade.
Hair making, etc.

If you happen to get a medically inclined lady, it is an advantage to your progress.

Age shouldn't rush you into marrying now.
Proper plan and execution will be worth your wait.

May God direct you.

Balanced.

And you are right about Canada.

mistacoco2:
Hello guys,

For some days now I have been on a serious dilemma whether to resign from my federal government job that pays me above N200k for my current position and migrate to the UK or stay in naija and set up a business to augment my salary. I will be 34 years next year, I feel traveling to the uk for studies next year September will delay my chances of getting married, as I have planned not exceeding 34 years without getting married.

I belong to the school of thought that believes can make it in Nigeria despite all odds. However, considering the economic realities of the country, I have recently contemplating of japa and maybe get a Nigerian lady for marriage after my studies.

Please I earnestly need matured advice from you guys to know how to start the coming year.

Travel to the UK o. We were like you those years and now we wished we left.

Lifeinlight:
Mr Ronu

We're still saying the same thing. Your country top the ladder of poverty, unemployment, weak and worthless currency in the world? Abi na lie? Statistics doesn't lie

Allow people to relocate in peace and stop discouraging them with your epistle

See dis obydiot... oya de go na

Sha don't come back to wail again

Obydiots been wailing since last year's general elections

Keep hoping on government before you make it in life

Now this is an epistle, bedroom taught graduate goofing upandan

Oloshi. Anunpama

Aremson14:
In a similar situation ship have a fully funded scholarship with living costs (MSc computer science )and have a job that pays about 200 tech remotely

I’m about to accept the scholarship

biko which country and how did you get it? Your Cgpa and all that

Please don't think about it twice before leaving o

1950Mack:


See dis obydiot... oya de go na

Sha don't come back to wail again

Obydiots been wailing since last year's general elections

Keep hoping on government before you make it in life

Now this is an epistle, bedroom taught graduate goofing upandan

Oloshi. Anunpama

Ebi Npa Wa Mr Ronu

Namaster:
Forget marriage. Marriage is NEVER late for men.

If you have the money, LEAVE Nigeria. Don't even think twice.

There's no reason to stay in Nigeria unless you are part of the cabals.

100% true for me.....