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Na u go open drink and serve food

The number one god in Nigeria is Mammon the god of money.

This is absolutely rubbish, imagine advise like this from a supposed adult

money121:
If you are the poorest amongst your siblings or not doing well financially, avoid family gatherings until you have money - Nigerian lady says

Lolo Nneka Obani Wrote on her Wall:


If you know you are the poorest amongst yoursiblings or you aren't doing well financially, l recommend that you avoid family occasions or gatherings until you have money. If you must attend, kindly sit at a corner like a visitor.
Let the people that are serving the food and souvenir serve you like one of the guests, so you don't end up embarrassing yourself.
Do not go close to where the food and drinks are being served, sit at a corner and observe. Stop setting yourself up for insults.

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/if-you-are-the-poorest-amongst-your-siblings-or-not-doing-well-financially-avoid-family-gatherings-until-you-have-money-nigerian-lady-says/

This is why I don't travel home for new year!!!

I can relate. You're even lucky your dad is by your side. What if your parents are on the side of your siblings who they feel are better than you today. God no go shame us this year.

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

This is common in African homes. They start to make decisions without involving you. My advice to you is detach yourself and contribute from far. Humans are wird

That is in Igbo land predominantly, though it happens in other states but not as strong as that of Igbo land.

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

God Abeg ooo

Or if you are the only unmarried among them.

In Igboland, I have seen a father being told to stand up for his son to sit, simply because the boy has money.

But you see this issue of money and respect, it wrong to say it is Igbos. Na everywhere.

Davido claim is he was the poorest among his siblings... but niigaa be holding over 30b in is

IjebuWarrior:
She be Igbo as expected... To them, money be everything. No morals, values or norms.

Retrogressive mentality.

So,you still carry dis demon enter dis year?

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

So sorry. It does happen. I have seen lots of it. If you are the first son and not able to provide, respect will just vanish. I am not talking from the angle where younger siblings are richer than you. It is different. They may be richer but you are still doing well yourself, no problem....your respect remains. It becomes a problem when you are struggling and you are depending on handouts from younger siblings, my brother, na Oyo.

When I saw the heading I knew the op must be from the South East

I knew it would come from a biafran child.

TO THEM,MONEY IS EVERYTHING.

In my own tribe.Money is the last reason to respect you.we have
1.KNOWLEDGE AND GOOD CONDUCT-BE IT ISLAMIC,BIBLICAL OR WESTERN
2.YOUR LEVEL OF EDUCATION
3.SOCIETAL TITLE
4.AGE
5.INTELLIGENCE
6.ELOQUENCE
7.WEALTH-ITS THE LAST!----Infact,instead of worshiping you they will start by questioning your wealth especially if their are similar people in your same line of business and profession that are still struggling!.....


Among BIAFRANS ...WEALTH is number one

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

I pray God will lift ur head up and bless ur pocket but ur mom is doing the wrong thing tides do change

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

My mama did worst. You just have to endure

It depends on the family

Well..

She actually meant: “if you're really poor, whereas others are rich and doing very well”.



Because, if all the persons in the family are all doing very well, and I happen to be the person whom other relatives are doing better than,, and yet I am not poor in actual sense,, (though considered the poorest in the family of well-to-do persons),, then she's telling a big lie,, and I don't agree with her.

Unless she's actually referring to a family where the persons there are all averagely on the lower financial doings-and-makings,, then, the poorest of them is actually not sitting well financially,, and thus, she might be correct in that regards.

IjebuWarrior:
She be Igbo as expected... To them, money be everything. No morals, values or norms.

Retrogressive mentality.

It's their way of life no respect for anyone poor or financially not balanced.

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

Stop wasting money on drinking and chasing women then before you know you get back to your feet

Kay25:

I pray God will lift ur head up and bless ur pocket but ur mom is doing the wrong thing tides do change

Amin and you too

owolabi5:

Money 121 hitting fp back to back like ping pong.

There’s no need for all these

I am actually the poorest and I don't avoid the gathering. The are lifting me up really. Many thanks to them

money121:
If you are the poorest amongst your siblings or not doing well financially, avoid family gatherings until you have money - Nigerian lady says

Lolo Nneka Obani Wrote on her Wall:


If you know you are the poorest amongst yoursiblings or you aren't doing well financially, l recommend that you avoid family occasions or gatherings until you have money. If you must attend, kindly sit at a corner like a visitor.
Let the people that are serving the food and souvenir serve you like one of the guests, so you don't end up embarrassing yourself.
Do not go close to where the food and drinks are being served, sit at a corner and observe. Stop setting yourself up for insults.

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/if-you-are-the-poorest-amongst-your-siblings-or-not-doing-well-financially-avoid-family-gatherings-until-you-have-money-nigerian-lady-says/

There is no love in your family then.

Stop thinking that money is the only grace we have, we have so many blessings to be proud of be happy with your self were ever you find yourself, may be you more happier,healthier , educated than them

iuni:
Just do your best to make money legitimately and pretend you don't have. Nobody go reason you. You self will have peace


Abeg make person do small thing for my family. Make we fit chop better for new year. Xmas was too dull for us. We will appreciate anything. Happy new year

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Same for me too, Xmas was nothing to write home about, this new year celebration is the same, my baby boy is soaking gari in front of me as I'm typing. I pray that people to share festive to us so he can enjoy. Things is extremely rough and tough. I'm happy we are alive. All hopes is not lost.

I don't mind any from nairalanders to. Thanks God will replenish your pockets in multiple folds.

0049126874, GT bank. Olarewaju Moses tosin.
Palmpay

victorDanladi:
I knew it would come from a biafran child.

TO THEM,MONEY IS EVERYTHING.

In my own tribe.Money is the last reason to respect you.we have
1.KNOWLEDGE AND GOOD CONDUCT-BE IT ISLAMIC,BIBLICAL OR WESTERN
2.YOUR LEVEL OF EDUCATION
3.SOCIETAL TITLE
4.AGE
5.INTELLIGENCE
6.ELOQUENCE
7.WEALTH-ITS THE LAST!

Among BIAFRANS ...WEALTH is number one

Especially that Number 4 is well-respected among us.

I’m the poorest, na my mouth still loud .