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If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. (23385 Views)
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money121(m): 10:34am On Jan 01, 2024 |
If you are the poorest amongst your siblings or not doing well financially, avoid family gatherings until you have money - Nigerian lady says Lolo Nneka Obani Wrote on her Wall: If you know you are the poorest amongst yoursiblings or you aren't doing well financially, l recommend that you avoid family occasions or gatherings until you have money. If you must attend, kindly sit at a corner like a visitor. Let the people that are serving the food and souvenir serve you like one of the guests, so you don't end up embarrassing yourself. Do not go close to where the food and drinks are being served, sit at a corner and observe. Stop setting yourself up for insults. Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/if-you-are-the-poorest-amongst-your-siblings-or-not-doing-well-financially-avoid-family-gatherings-until-you-have-money-nigerian-lady-says/ 34 Likes 5 Shares |
money121(m): 10:34am On Jan 01, 2024 |
May God enrich our pocket
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Nackzy: 10:37am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight
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tommy589(m): 10:44am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Very very rare here. Neighbors won't even see the family in a good light if they get to know the eldest,even any of the siblings got disrespected because of poor status
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egopersonified(f): 11:06am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Not all families please.
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Chikel20000(m): 11:38am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Dis is wrong
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tym92(m): 11:38am On Jan 01, 2024 |
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NwaNimo1(m): 11:39am On Jan 01, 2024 |
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adioolayi(m): 11:39am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Avoid and remain poor na.. You think anything on earth beats human resource and quality of relationships you have with other people ![]() You think someone that is termed "poor" because he or she doesn't have money don't have other ways they are indispensable ![]() There are problems money cannot and won't solve..quality relationship can do. If you think you are poor...make sure you are useful in other ways...with that, luck and fortune can smile on you 168 Likes 12 Shares |
franconian: 11:39am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Which kin family be that?
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chidiakwari: 11:39am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Women always want to make everything about money.
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JASONjnr(m): 11:39am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Some people will be surprised that there are families that would treat their siblings this bad... But we all this to be true and some siblings compete within themselves. Especially homes where a mother would love one child against the other. This also happens amongst uncles and aunts. I was opportune to meet a family where these guys live like a family. The guy's uncle stays abroad and he visits the man's house from school and the other cousins where there. This uncle returned and dashed them dollars. Omo the uncle wasn't bossy at all... But I know people who's uncles will use police to arrest their nieces and nephews for being too free around them. 16 Likes 5 Shares |
tutudesz: 11:40am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Than you no get siblings be that O! You can hardly tell who is rich or poor among some siblings during family events. The senior will always be the senior and the junior will always be the junior ![]() 104 Likes 7 Shares |
ibrutex(m): 11:40am On Jan 01, 2024 |
No condition is permanent as long as you don't quit moving , if na to crawl ,just don't stop moving.....
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simp4rebel: 11:40am On Jan 01, 2024 |
If you no get money, hide your face
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PrincessofDSS(f): 11:40am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Lmao Happy New Year Everyone! Back on the topic Call me a Taurus! Its not personal. As a Taurean, been around people a lot is too stimulating. We like to stay on our own & in what we define as a luxurious comfort. We believe if you know everything , where lies the mystery or the rarity of our being! You see 💁💁💁 11 Likes 3 Shares |
callmevirus(m): 11:40am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Nothing concern me but E dey mind Happy new year Nairalanders |
ATEAMS: 11:40am On Jan 01, 2024 |
LoL
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PerfectStranger(m): 11:41am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Na who no get hope of making it go dey hide face. Some families got good morals, everything isnt abt money
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Nicepoker(m): 11:41am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Only from a dysfunctional home. We each other to progress.
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Vifx: 11:41am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Lol
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mrjojo: 11:42am On Jan 01, 2024 |
if you can't be vulnerable, poor in peace among your own family then maybe you need a new family.
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DamnnNiggarr: 11:42am On Jan 01, 2024 |
![]() This is arrant nonsense! this clearly shows the type of family that Nneka of a lady is coming from, and this also shows the reason some people engage in some dubious activities in order to make it and make the family proud. 46 Likes 5 Shares |
Starboytwo(m): 11:42am On Jan 01, 2024 |
speak for your family alone pls.
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Natbrowny: 11:43am On Jan 01, 2024 |
egopersonified: No mind am.. Just because hers or some1 she knws ain't perfect. She just drop bullshit call am advice. Everything you read on the Internet na manipulation Find out now.. Na inside film or inside one quote she read am decide to post. Thats what people do. Dey wont drop all d quote dey stole. Dey will pick the ones dey wanna use to drop points like preachers do 16 Likes |
hookupagent1: 11:43am On Jan 01, 2024 |
True talk
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Focusmind: 11:43am On Jan 01, 2024 |
So true, especially in the SE. Not just among siblings but cousins and extended families. The intimidation no be here o from the super rich siblings. The competition and show-offs too much. I pity those struggling in the midst of their wealthy siblings and cousins. To talk or contribute in family gatherings is always difficult. For the married ones, the pressure from their wives increases when the wife sees what Oga's siblings and cousins are doing for their wives and children. May God prosper all men struggling legitimately.
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tiswell(m): 11:43am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Sad,but true
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robinfemi: 11:44am On Jan 01, 2024 |
Even if you are the poorest and you still maintain your dignity but not begging from them, or calling them every minute like a beggar. Your yes is yes Your no is no They will always fear and respect you ![]() 42 Likes 5 Shares |
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