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Hello,

A friend is in love with this lady who apparently has a low libido and mostly refuses sex or conditions him to a once-a-week sex routine.

He loves her so much and wants to know from people with similar experiences.

Can this be managed and if it can, how?

Thank you

It's glaring they're not compatible. And by the way, sex before marriage is illegal.

I am sorry to say this

But my sex life is at the top notch

Like I can’t even go a week without sex unless say I dey prison

I love sex so much I can even have sex on empty stomach

So I can’t deal with a lady with low sex drive

80% of what we call low libido in women na lie.
1. Maybe she don't like you
2. Maybe she is never deep in the sex business
3. She is using u as an option
4. She is fighting depression or stress

TemplarLandry:
It's glaring they're not compatible. And by the way, sex before marriage is illegal.

Sex before marriage is wrong, yes. You can't say it's illegal.

lalabrother:
Hello,
A friend is in love with this lady who apparently has a low libido and mostly refuses sex or conditions him to a once-a-week sex routine. He loves her so much and wants to know from people with similar experiences.
Can this be managed and if it can, how? Thank you

How did your friend work out this low-libido diagnosis for her partner? Na doctor tell am this story abi she think say because he no fit control him urges that means he don become a sexual health expert put?

If one of his major goals in the relationship is sex, the best bet would be to find himself someone whose current sexual appetite syncs up with hers. That doesn't mean it will always be that way though.

Dididrumz:
■ Sex before marriage is wrong, yes. You can't say it's illegal.

Wrong based on standards set by whom?

Lol.. Let her teach her about it... Sexual act doesn't start and ends with penetration....
He should coach her in the art of seduction...
If she isn't willing, then they cut of relationship....
Going ahead to marry, the marriage will be taimed with this issue of husband having high libido... something that has been existing before marriage!!!

Teach her

Puss360:
■ Lol.. Let her teach her about it... Sexual act doesn't start and ends with penetration....
He should coach her in the art of seduction...If she isn't willing, then they cut of relationship.... Going ahead to marry, the marriage will be taimed with this issue of husband having high libido... something that has been existing before marriage!!!

So your advice is that he train her— like you train a dog— to want sex more than once a week in order that he can have his sexual urges satisfied at a cost to her? If the friend in question had been a woman, would you have also given the same advice... basically asked her to train the man to want sex more than once a week?

Op, why ever would your friend love a girl that won't meet up with his sexual demands?

The first thing is to identify the cause of her low libido with that their might be a solution..
Many factors causes low libido in women
*parimenopause/menopause
*aging
*stress
*sexual trauma
*relationship stress
*underlying medical issues e.g cancer, bladder, bowel issues and vice versa
* some women during pregnancy and after pregnancy, weight..
Learn about medical lifestyle that can boast her libido...

Also apply this methods...
*have a better communication with her and know her weakness
*stress reduction
*marriage counselling
*exercise, weight loss
*stop altering bad habits.
If this method don't work
*inject her with O-shot
*use clitoral therapy
*you can also use addji (flibaserin) on her....
But the best way is to communicate with her and know her weakness.....

Op btw the woman don marry'... Pls tell her she is my spec if she is still available.... I hate too much sex.....

Kobojunkiee:
Wrong based on standards set by whom?

Let's just say, by standards set by 'RELIGION'. I don't really care.

The word, "illegal", that the other person used just me off.

Dididrumz:
■Let's just say, by standards set by 'RELIGION'. I don't really care. The word, "illegal", that the other person used just me off.

Which religion? Does everyone subscribe to this religion or are we pretending it is right to impose religious ideas and beliefs on those who will have none of it?

Yes, it isn't illegal but it is clearly not "wrong" since we do not subscribe to the same religious ideals you hold.

Kobojunkiee:
Wrong based on standards set by whom?

Good question!

You and your friend should stay away from fornication and sinning.

fyzaila:
You and your friend should stay away from fornication and sinning.

Because he told you they practice and hold the same religious beliefs you do, abi?

lalabrother:
Hello,

A friend is in love with this lady who apparently has a low libido and mostly refuses sex or conditions him to a once-a-week sex routine.

He loves her so much and wants to know from people with similar experiences.

Can this be managed and if it can, how?

Thank you

assist her by getting an assistant girlfriend wey go dey empty your tank..

The question is made for my partner

They should have an extensive discussion on this. If they can't reach a meaningful conclusion, they can go their separate ways.

Cocaine helps

Organize a "summit" with a view of discussing your options:

1. Fix the root cause of the low libido (therapy, methodology, nutrition etc)
2. Alternative partner
3. Compromise
4. Walk away if your life and/or happiness depends on the volume of segz you need

What's tha business?

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They'll find a meeting point. He agreed with her , right? All he has to do is fine tune them once again.

Dididrumz:


Sex before marriage is wrong, yes. You can't say it's illegal.

Sex outside marriage is not illegal neither is it wrong. As long as you have a willing partner that is not of the same sex, it is not wrong.

just tell her u want to buy sex-toy , and watch how she will change immediately and be giving u any how...some girls just have bad orientation or perceptions about sex that's all.... girls/woman are generally created to have higher libido and ever ready for sex than men..

@Op .if you know you have high sex drive, avoid her but if you can manage it and see reason with her ,then go ahead
Make girls wey loyal chop sugar cane

Much needed

blessed are those who expect nothing for they shall never be disappointed.

let him reduce his expectations