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I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

theInfinity:
Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction .

Why the heavy emphasis on NIGERIN WOMEN as if they invented this behaviour and it is exclusive to only them? Do you sincerely think it is any different with ALL THE WOMEN from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

theInfinity

I wanted to post something similar to this. This mentality needs to come to an end.

A desperate man can give you all the world to get your attention but not love.

Unfortunately, most women nowadays marry or get into a relationship for money and not love. Reason we have a lot of broken relationships and marriage.

Any place there is poverty or want, love and sex are transactional. It applies everywhere, NOT only in Nigeria. Go to any ghetto it is same. Among people who have money it doesn't apply - including among Nigerians with money

Broke girls with entitlement mentality everywhere

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring". Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you. Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care. Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional. A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you. Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

Are You a Learner?
Prostitute are About The Most Honest Woman You Will Ever Meet, Because They Will Tell You The Price Upfront.
Know This, and Know Peace!!!

DaddyCoool:
Any place there is poverty or want love and sex are transactional. It applies everywhere, NOT only in Nigeria. Go to any ghetto it is same. Among people who have money it doesn't apply - including among Nigerians with money

it is EVERYWHERE. Even in the wealthiest area codes in the world. Some women hardly ask while some keep asking for prada, holiday tickets, diamonds, stocks & shares, shopping trips. It has been like that since the first day women came to this earth and it will not change.

Happens everywhere

AllBlack:


it is EVERYWHERE. Even in the wealthiest area codes in the world. Some women hardly ask while some keep asking for prada, holiday tickets, diamonds, stocks & shares, shopping trips. It has been like that since the first day women came to this earth and it will not change.

Not true. Among people with money love and sex are NOT transactional (for the most part) unless one of them is from the poorer population. In other words, a "rich" woman will not give you sex/love for money, while in the ghetto that's the normal practice!

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring". Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you. Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care. Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional. A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you. Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

What does a man want from a woman that his fellow man can't give him and what does a woman want from a man, that her fellow woman can't give her?

DaddyCoool:
Not true. Among people with money love and sex are NOT transactional (for the most part) unless one of them is from the poorer population. In other words, a "rich" woman will not give you sex/love for money, while in the ghetto that's the normal practice!

And let me tell you again. Even rich babes & guys look into prospects, social & financial status, social benefits and other factors when relationship or even sex is involved. The demand might be indirect or bit-by-bit but it will happen.
You think wealth equivocal to behaviour? think again. It is just like saying kids from rich homes don't steal or lie. It is a behavioural trait.

Like I said before, not all females (and even males) are so materialistic or focused on benefits in relationships. It all depends. And if you find yourself with a demanding person and it doesn't work for you, then there is option to leave rather than complain.

Case closed.

For God so love the world, HE gave😁 c'est fini.

Na those brokes ones nah.

Poverty don turn them to leeches.


My advice to simps, coz I know main Gs know this:

NEVER DATE A GIRL FROM A POOR BACKGROUND WITH HIGH TASTE.


If una like, no hear.

ok If money grew on trees, girls would date monkeys.

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

Oga, go and make money...

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

Not all women.

Relationship is not for the broke 😂

You mean like the way Zooposki does

Local

This guy must be a learner

In USA there are 2000 type of humans

They have to benefit in some way, from being with the smelly gender.

one man's meat is another man's poison

Third world country issues

When a Nigerian woman complains that she doesn't get good men as suitors, what they're saying in effect is that they're not getting rich suitors.
They are all able-bodied parasites.

truth is, it's not even about poverty or anything.
girl will visit you, you'll spend 30k for feeding in a week and the moment she spends 5h on bike to the market, she'll be on your neck.

when you complain they'll be like, 'are you not sleeping with me', 'am I not bearing children for you'?

just accommodate them my man and pray to have enough to take care of your children and wife (adult child).

Was driving back home and decided to get something from a shop close by and Behold these two young adults probably in their 24/25years with the lady heavy, Obviously they're married or maybe got plans to

Now they both manage this small shop but if you see the way they both were playing with joy on both faces and the pregnant lady helping him out. Mehnn my bones weak and I asked myself how was this guy lucky?? Like finding a young beautiful lady to you even in your low state. Infact the way I was smiling like a Ram in the car while watching them both shocked me.

Told myself I have to buy something from this people either I need it or not. Bought some #1,200 something, gave her 2k and asked she keep the change for my baby that's coming, she smiled, thanked me and prayed for me

Entered again and asked me, how did this guy got lucky?? Most guys like us whose level increased without finding love in our broke state finds it very hard to trust women. As for me, if we're still in talking stage and I figure out you're after money i instant ghost and totally ignore you