NewStats: 3,262,559 , 8,177,479 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 05:55 PM 4k622h

To all the men out there that are married and blessed with kids..... How are you coping?

How are you surviving with no job?

How are you surviving with low source of income?

How is your home? How do u keep going despite the hardness?

My experience today seeing a family man is not good ....

I feel so bad that I am so helpless to help forever......

Your sadness will be over... Every difficult thing in your life will be solved... You and ur family will smile......

God bless all struggling married men with responsibilities....

Have a godly home and an understanding woman who loves you dearly and not all this olosho/parasites that are all over naira land.


Then you have peace.


Be focus on achieving your goals.


That's all.

My Name na Denrele David. Career people, business people and good people of Nairaland should put in mind

Toktee:
Have a godly home and an understanding woman who loves you dearly and not all this olosho/parasites that are all over naira land. Then you have peace.
Be focus on achieving your goals.
That's all.

Are you married with kids?

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

Now your sister is cheating and no longer faithful to her marital vows

DenreleDave:


Are you married with kids?

2.

Choice of decent words is a confirmation. "Home", "godly woman" are words mostly used by responsible married men.

Well, my take anyway.

Always explore village shopping by calling trusted relatives to buy and send via transporters. There is phone everywhere and it is easy to do.
Go outskirt of town and farm 1 acre, that can save you 100k.
Sell your vote to highest bidder. That's logical because the primaries are a mess and the candidate were indirectly imposed on you.

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My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

DenreleDave:
To all the men out there that are married and blessed with kids..... How are you coping?

How are you surviving with no job?

How are you surviving with low source of income?

How is your home? How do u keep going despite the hardness?

My experience today seeing a family man is not good ....

I feel so bad that I am so helpless to help forever......

Your sadness will be over... Every difficult thing in your life will be solved... You and ur family will smile......

God bless all struggling married men with responsibilities....

Love without money is dead on arrival

No erection

They are planning to kidnap Buhari and send him to Niger Republic for ransom

Hmmm

EmmaLege:
No be small shege banza 🤕

You said you would have preferred Atiku, a reminder for you.

The only advice I can give to them is to stop having kids and consolidate on the ones they have for now.

Married or Single! Low income or High income.

Everyone should have principle of spending not more than ur income and having responsibilities that are not too much for ur income to bear.



Naija becomes poverty capita today, not because she is low income nation but spending recklessly.

No be small shege banza 🤕

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

It may sound harsh, but you have no business going into marriage and starting a family without multiple streams of income and stability to some extent.

Except something happened after the marriage, maybe a loss of a job or setbacks in business, I see no reason why you’re jumping into a marriage when you’re not stable.

But some no go hear, carry wishful thinking dy start family

A ive woman is all you need to avoid depression in this trying times. I am married with a kid. Biz is being shitty, but my woman keeps assuring me that the storm would be over soon .

OP says he needs help.....




Wittyness

RepoMan007:
Always explore village shopping by calling trusted relatives to buy and send via transporters. There is phone everywhere and it is easy to do.
Go outskirt of town and farm 1 acre, that can save you 100k.
Sell your vote to highest bidder. That's logical because the primaries are a mess and the candidate were indirectly imposed on you.

where will they get fund to farm? I want to farm. O have land but no money to farm.

Since he who finds a wife finds a good thing, married men will not be complaining because they have a good thing to appreciate even when economy hard

To the ones who voted Buhari and Tinubu and your are finding it difficult to feed your family, MAKE THUNDERCLAPS FIR3 YOU THERE!

Na God de help horse wey nor get tail pursue housefly.

Then men:

6am resume at newspaper t and argue about premiership and state of the nation

8am: Storm paraga t and take shekpe at Iya Kamilu t till 12pm

12pm: go home to eat or abuse and beat the wife if she doesn’t provide a meal even though the man didn’t drop 1naira

2pm: Take a nap to go and cause kasala in town later

5pm: resume at beer parlour hoping one taxi driver or a frustrated access bank staff will come after work (avoiding traffic or going home early to his nagging wife) and buy him free shayo

10pm: Get back home to nack his wife and sleep (belle don full from awoof peppered ponmo and 33 at the beer parlour)

Next day: Repeat again.

Unmarried fellows gat to think well before delving into the matter now oo...

We are on shege pro-max now oo...

Renewed shege ulcer promax