NewStats: 3,262,085 , 8,176,031 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 06:11 PM v1j6h

Are u telling me if i am dating u for instance within the same city and i want to bleep u'' you can't visit me with ur own transport fare?
What do u mean by it is left for those who engage s in the stuff. Don't u visit guys.

IconicR:
The person complaining is cheaper, if you don't have money stop asking for a visit. It's also an entitlement mentality to ask a lady to visit you with her own money.Anyways that's for people who do all these visits whatever

saphiere:
Any man who invites a ladyto his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

omo eh what kind of mentality do you have, where you force to go there. When you go to see your ladies friends do they pay your bill for tp or during hanging out, why then should he pay your transport bills.

Even if you end up having sex, it's a two way agreement and both parties benefit from it. even commercial sex worker no the charge for tp.

Omo eh the level of entitlement with you Nigeria ladies is appalling.

saphiere:
Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

Hello mama, my girlfriend visit me yesterday night and she left to her office this morning without asking me for kobo ….. let how you be responsible, there’s no law that say men have to do everything

IconicR:
All

Why should you be entitled to a guy's money? Is he your father? Madam go and Hustle and make your own money nobody owes you a dime

GO0DHardDick:


Why should you be entitled to a guy's money? Is he your father? Madam go and Hustle and make your own money nobody owes you a dime

Agreed, nobody owes him free something too. All

saphiere:
Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

one of them is here AShawoooo number one

Well in as much as I like this comment as a guy, it's also important for a guy not to invite a girl if you don't have any means of paying for her transport fare back, unless she understands that you don't have the money and on her own decides to come . Then you have to do your best to give her that attention and be her personal comedian until she leaves. But you see those girls that ask for transport fare before coming and end up not coming,you are hurting yourselves and your fellow ladies indirectly without knowing. Such a guy can never take a genuine girl who asked for transport fare before coming serious.

Madam tell them they are many in this forum

saphiere:
Let's everyone stay in their houses. STOP THE INVITE!!!

Stay in your house and Starve to death.

Nobody forced you to visit him, na you carry your two legs go meet the guy for his house. So why yarning dust like he pointed a guñ at you to visit him? Rubbish!

Ordinary tfare u don't have. No go hustle.

saphiere:
Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

Liability girl don drop advice.

Look, a girl have visited me without me sending her transport fare from another state, when she was leaving, I booked executive bus for her and also gave far beyond her expectation

Thank you Ma.

saphiere:
Seun lalasticlala nlfpmod Dominique justwise
Insulting a nairalander.
Rule 2.
Please mods I beg of you do something.

Do what? He made a valid point. If sex is all you think a guy is inviting you over for then your life don baje

She is right to say so, some women used it to exploit Men shouldn't be tolerated,

una wahala

saphiere:
If you don't have a transport to give to a girl you're dating, stop inviting her to your house. Stay in your space.
After all, there's no tangible thing you're inviting her for aside seex

Saphiere your own sef dey your body, anyways you are right but there are more tangible things aside sex.

saphiere:
Stay in your hole and seex starve to death

Be fooling yourself..who told you he cant call another sharply to come over to his house without even paying her transport go and cry in your pillow then sleep off. You ladies overestimate your value

Thank you ma for coming to our rescue! They have finished us! How can a grown up girl rely on a man for everything she needs in life especially Nigerian girls. That's why I like the whites, you will be working, I will be working and not leaving everything for the man! No wonder men die here and there before even reaching the age of 50. One single mother here said "men had made women to age easily ." I just no wan start answering her because if I do she might end up being depressed for days. Men are not a Central Bank!

Very useless.

Candidlady:


Same way your mum won't stop defending her market ba ?

Exactly!

IconicR:
Agreed, nobody owes him free something too. All

What exactly do you mean by free something?

If you're talking about kpekpus, then be rest assured that any girl who put her pussy on sales in exchange for money is a prostitute. Are you one?

Are you trying to tell us that "the only thing a Nigerian girl can offer a man in a relationship is her pussy? " And this is done in exchange for money? Is this not prostitution and hookup? What then is the difference between you and those oloshos in the club and hotels?

GO0DHardDick:


What exactly do you mean by free something?

If you're talking about kpekpus, then be rest assured that any girl who put her pussy on sales in exchange for money is a prostitute. Are you one?

Mtcheww any man who ask for free something is a brostitute. Stop applying husband and wife rules ontop boyfriend and girlfriend fornication matters.

IconicR:
Mtcheww any man who ask for free something is a brostitute. Stop applying husband and wife rules ontop boyfriend and girlfriend fornication matters.

A man can get sex anyday anytime anywhere but a girl can't get money anyday anytime nor anywhere except of course she worked for it. So wtf are you saying again?

Are you trying to tell us you're using your kpekpus as "free something" for commercial monetary purposes?

Sigh... No true devine doctrine... So, anybody who calls himself/herself pastor can just generate his/her own.

GO0DHardDick:


A man can get sex anyday anytime anywhere but a girl can't get money anyday anytime nor anywhere except of course she worked for it. So wtf are you saying again?

Are you trying to tell us you're using your kpekpus as "free something" for commercial monetary purposes?

You can get my message wrong for all I care. A man can get sex they buy with money , if you all buy sex with money then why complain about transport fare

saphiere:
Seun lalasticlala nlfpmod Dominique justwise
Insulting a nairalander.
Rule 2.
Please mods I beg of you do something.

saphiere:
Rapist spotted

Seun lalasticlala nlfpmod Dominique justwise
Insulting a nairalander.
Rule 2.
Please mods I beg of you do something.

saphiere:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wjx1HTblKoI


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvJ-tm0pZ1W/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Though, I don’t date ladies born n bred in Nigeria or ladies with Nigerian mentality. But if I do, I will definitely give her transport money. Imagine giving my British gf tp. She will definitely breakup with me, Bcus she will think I don’t value her for paying her to come.it’s symbolises she’s a hooker or low-life, she would not want that.

BoldBrainz:


Na here you dey sabi answer present.. .

Where people gather to discuss delicate matters of societal importance and economic significance, your two left legs go dey face the opposite direction.

This my friend sef!

I'm women advocate

IconicR:
You can get my message wrong for all I care. A man can get sex they buy with money , if you all buy sex with money then why complain about transport fare

You mean a man having a girlfriend pays his gf for having sex with him? Are you a prostitute or what because you talk and behave like one.

Why would an adult be expecting another adult to provide her tfare? Why become a liability and a parasite to a man? Why can't you take up your own responsibility?

tonytony208:


If you don't have transport to visit someone you are dating, what you need is a job and not a relationship.

A full grown adult expecting another adult to pay her transport fare. Rubbish

It's funny

I think it's only in Nigeria that such nonsense happens between bf and gf

If a woman likes you, she can buy her plane ticket and fly from USA or anywhere in the world to see you.

I dey happen.

Babe wey no like you na im go dey tax you Caesar.

saphiere:
Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

HAVE YOU EVER INITIATED SUCH AN ACTION BEFORE? A BASIC UNDERSTANDING OF HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY WILL TEACH YOU THAT MOST WOMEN ARE IVE AND THEY BELIEVE THAT IT IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE MAN TO INITIATE AN ACTION THAT THEY DESIRE. IF HE DOESN'T, THEY REVENGE BY SNUBBING HIM OR GETTING MAD AT HIM. WHY THEN SHOULD A MAN BEAR THE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY OF FULFILLING YOUR MUTUAL DESIRE? IF YOU DON'T WANT IT, YOU SIMPLY REJECT IT.