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I just clocked 40 year old and I feel as if I have not done well for myself. May be because I had always set a standard, hence my high taste and expectations.


Now goes the question,as a Nigerian,what achievement do one expects from a 40years old man irrespective of his education?

Okay Mr. Oppressor. Kuku come out and brag openly.

What and what have you achieved at 40. Let's rephrase your hypocrisy abit

Peace of mind.

DeeBaDan:
Okay Mr. Oppressor. Kuku come out and brag openly.

What and what have you achieved at 40. Let's rephrase your hypocrisy abit

U are indeed intimidated and weak.


Highly unmotivated and that is why u have nothing to contribute but quarrel which is also a product of where u reside.

Poor soul,everything shouldn't be fight.

Sorry,if I have just intimidated u.

Nice2023:





U are indeed intimidated and weak.


Highly unmotivated and that is why u have nothing to contribute but quarrel which is also a product of where u reside.

Poor soul,everything shouldn't be fight.

Sorry,if I have just intimidated u.

Trust me. Ive been creating jobs since eight years and oga. Your 10 Million doesn't intimidate me


You created this thread with a motive to brag. Hence I'm asking you to come out fully to say what you think you've achieved that's alot.

Surviving buhari's 8 years is an achievement

Nice2023:
I just clocked 40 year old and I feel as if I have not done well for myself. May be because I had always set a standard, hence my high taste and expectations.


Now goes the question,as a Nigerian,what achievement do one expects from a 40years old man irrespective of his education?

A good wife and cute kids.

A good job or a thriving business or both.

A property either in the city or village or both.

An balance of not less than 1m

Must have built a network of connections with the right people.

Must have a voice in your family.

Must have a port.

Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria.

Nazgul:

A good wife and cute kids.

A good job or a thriving business or both.

A property either in the city or village or both.

An balance of not less than 1m

Must have built a network of connections with the right people.

Must have a voice in your family.

Must have a port.

Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria.

how old are u?

Sharpsharp00123:
how old are u?

I'm less than 40.

Nazgul:

I'm less than 40.

how many of those things have u achieved?

Sharpsharp00123:
how many of those things have u achieved?

Nazgul:

A good wife and cute kids. ❌

A good job or a thriving business or both. ✔️

A property either in the city or village or both. ✔️

An balance of not less than 1m. (I'll prefer to remain mute on this)

Must have built a network of connections with the right people. (Work in progress).

Must have a voice in your family. ✔️

Must have a port. ✔️

Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria. ❌

Nazgul:

I wish u well my brother but at times life isn’t how we see it


We d fortunate ones should just thank God in our closet n not rob it on d less privileged face

Bless up

Sharpsharp00123:
I wish u well my brother but at times life isn’t how we see it


We d fortunate ones should just thank God in our closet n not rob it on d less privileged face

Bless up

Yea...

To have bleeped at least 50 olosho with smelly pussy.

Have a pvc and vote wisely.

Stop putting yaself under pressure. No manual to life in Nigeria

For still being alive. U have achieve alot. Rest

Nice2023

A good wife and cute kids.
A good job or a thriving business or both.
A property either in the city or village or both.
An balance of not less than 1m
Must have built a network of connections with the right people.
Must have a voice in your family.
Must have a port.
Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria.

Trade all of this in for peace of mind, and contentment OP, and you have more than achieved a lot at 40.

Nazgul:

A good wife and cute kids.

A good job or a thriving business or both.

A property either in the city or village or both.

An balance of not less than 1m

Must have built a network of connections with the right people.

Must have a voice in your family.

Must have a port.

Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria.

Why a port?

Nazgul:

A good wife and cute kids.

A good job or a thriving business or both.

A property either in the city or village or both.

An balance of not less than 1m

Must have built a network of connections with the right people.


Must have a voice in your family.

Must have a port.

Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria.

Beautiful points here.

Nazgul:

A good wife and cute kids.

A good job or a thriving business or both.

A property either in the city or village or both.

An balance of not less than 1m

Must have built a network of connections with the right people.

Must have a voice in your family.

Must have a port.

Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria.

Yes I totally agree.

Do your best.
Whatever little or much of what you have achieved so far is nice.
Work harder and harder and be doing things in more wiser ways.

There is no guideline or general rule comparing achievement to age.
There are some that in their twenties, they already achieved most of their target in life.
So do your best.
Comparing yourself to others has advantages and disadvantages.
Be happy and work harder.

There are people living in their village, but they are happy with their life.
They live good life even better than those struggling in the city.
I uncles that moved back to village and did better in the village and lived much more happy lives.

tensazangetsu20:
To have bleeped at least 50 olosho with smelly pussy.

ednut1:
Stop putting yaself under pressure. No manual to life in Nigeria

Exactly...
I see someone up there writing 'must have' at the beginning of his sentences and I just shook my head... Thinks like is ABC

Achọghị m ihe kpatara na unu ji etinye onwe gị nnukwu nsogbu na Nigeria. Ọtụtụ ndị ọgbọ gị na mba ofesi nwere ike bi n'ụlọ nne na nna ha

At 38, I was losing interest in my job as a carpenter and my back hurt. At 40, I had my first child, a girl. At 42, my first son. At 45, I entered university. At 50, I had two bachelors degrees: computer science and applied mathematics. But something called the dot-com crash had happened while I was studying and computer work was hard to find, even for the young kids I was at university with. I spent another year at school, training to be a math teacher, then had a semester as a supply/substitute teacher, called in when someone was sick. I was called in twice in four months. Meanwhile, I was working as a carpenter again, actually enjoying it after a long break. Then I was offered a temporary job teaching residential construction and math-based engineering courses to young adults at a polytechnic. The students were great: good people with varied backgrounds. The job became permanent until I retired a few months ago at 66. I could have continued but have plans, interests, which will only become more difficult to achieve.

Have I achieved much in life? It depends on your value system, I suppose. I am certainly not wealthy in financial but, with a small pension and some investment income, I have all I need. (Certainly, if I'd started earlier, I'd have more money but I have no regrets.) I have a beautiful wife whom I love even more than the day I married her 30+ years ago. I have two wonderful adult children. I am fairly healthy. I am happy. I have achieved all I could wish for. I am very lucky.

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At the age of 40, you should have killed at least 3 lions

There’s no manual for this thing called life.
One day at a time.

Nigerialy and Africanismly, you are expected to be married with dozens of children.

At 40, you must be more concern about humanity than being selfish and constituting nuisance in the society.

Anything aside that is a mere waste of energy because life has no manual or special procedure. As long as you are happy with your life, you have nothing to worry about.

Nazgul:

A good wife and cute kids.

A good job or a thriving business or both.

A property either in the city or village or both.

An balance of not less than 1m

Must have built a network of connections with the right people.

Must have a voice in your family.

Must have a port.

Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria.

Good evening ma, please can you assist me with 1k