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kokaiye: 3:56pm On Jun 03, 2023
Funky123:
Where is my Cappo @kokoiye and other March 2022 mummies

Come see your 11-03-2022 baby
We are big ONE today 😍


In other news, who is back for another missionary journey (me I’m still resting lol)
@layomii how are you and hope 4th trimester is treating you well
hello dear... You didnt pronounce my name well... Reason i didnt see this on time... You LO is so cute!!!
UmuMuhsinah(f): 4:38pm On Jun 03, 2023
yumyogo:
MY BIRTH STORY

I honestly do not know where to start but I hope I'll be able to make some sense at the end of this story tho.

I figured out I was pregnant in October when we travelled for a function in Lagos. And as a result of the challenges my husband and I were facing we agreed we wouldn't keep it. We had concluded we weren't ready for a second child and so.. I visited our doctor there for an abortion. It was successful (IMO) and when we returned to Abuja we carried on with our lives.

Fast forward to November, I didn't see my monthly visitor (he wasnt even in town so i wasn't sexually active) I went for a scan and I was Pregnant!!!! Okay... I accepted it in good fate.

Then in December my husband and I were having a discussion, he mentioned some of the issues he was currently facing with his car and inability to sell our house in Kuje. He needed money to fix the car so he could work and be able to cater for me and the kids. He wanted me to borrow some money from fairmoney for him and he'd pay back in February when the house is sold. I had concerns, first the money was a lot and the interest rate was high but he wasn't bothered. I proceeded and then wired it to his .

December 26th, I found out my husband was preparing to go settle down with someone else, A girl he had denied knowing. I was devastated. This was where my depression set in. I was suicidal from the 3rd month of this pregnancy till the 6th month. I somehow got a Job when I was 5 months gone but stopped 2 months later.

I wasn't feeding well, I couldn't concentrate, taking my routine tabs was an issue, Living was hard and all I wanted was Death. I would question God, why me? I would starve the whole day, I fed once a day Sometimes.. Nothing seemed interesting but my son.. He was always looking out for Mummy.

Third trimester, I was getting used to being strong. Everything else was going well till we arrived the month of May. I wanted to give birth at 37 weeks for some reasons. That week came, ed, nothing! So did 38 week to 40 weeks. I was becoming depressed all over again. How do I tell this baby that I had a ton of bills and responsibilities on my shoulders, remaining in my stomach wasn't helping at all.

I resolved to seeking measures to induce labour. I did the little I could,yet nothing happened. Sunday morning, I woke up crying. I was tired, and fed up. My mums caretaker had called to say he was out of Patience and won't be giving any more grace and my mum was already tired of having me and my son. I knew what she was going through and didn't want to keep staying at home and so I went to church with my son. I got back feeling better, 12pm contractions started. And because I was used to them I didn't take it seriously but it persisted till 3pm so I went to the hospital and pleaded with them to check me. They did, and I was 4cm dilated!

I was super excited! Little did I know it was going to be a longgggggggg ride.. I was alone, and in pains πŸ₯Ί till 7pm when my sister came then mum came later. Indeed not all pregnancies are same. Long story cut short, I gave birth around 3am after a long fight. It wasn't easy but we give Glory to God.

I've burnt my boots tho.. Safe delivery to every preggy mama! God will see y'all through
This is why some women fail to assist their husbands in difficult time. Anyways it's well with you and the kids. God shall always be your strength

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Iyajelili(f): 6:44pm On Jun 03, 2023
yumyogo:
MY BIRTH STORY

I honestly do not know where to start but I hope I'll be able to make some sense at the end of this story tho.

I figured out I was pregnant in October when we travelled for a function in Lagos. And as a result of the challenges my husband and I were facing we agreed we wouldn't keep it. We had concluded we weren't ready for a second child and so.. I visited our doctor there for an abortion. It was successful (IMO) and when we returned to Abuja we carried on with our lives.

Fast forward to November, I didn't see my monthly visitor (he wasnt even in town so i wasn't sexually active) I went for a scan and I was Pregnant!!!! Okay... I accepted it in good fate.

Then in December my husband and I were having a discussion, he mentioned some of the issues he was currently facing with his car and inability to sell our house in Kuje. He needed money to fix the car so he could work and be able to cater for me and the kids. He wanted me to borrow some money from fairmoney for him and he'd pay back in February when the house is sold. I had concerns, first the money was a lot and the interest rate was high but he wasn't bothered. I proceeded and then wired it to his .

December 26th, I found out my husband was preparing to go settle down with someone else, A girl he had denied knowing. I was devastated. This was where my depression set in. I was suicidal from the 3rd month of this pregnancy till the 6th month. I somehow got a Job when I was 5 months gone but stopped 2 months later.

I wasn't feeding well, I couldn't concentrate, taking my routine tabs was an issue, Living was hard and all I wanted was Death. I would question God, why me? I would starve the whole day, I fed once a day Sometimes.. Nothing seemed interesting but my son.. He was always looking out for Mummy.

Third trimester, I was getting used to being strong. Everything else was going well till we arrived the month of May. I wanted to give birth at 37 weeks for some reasons. That week came, ed, nothing! So did 38 week to 40 weeks. I was becoming depressed all over again. How do I tell this baby that I had a ton of bills and responsibilities on my shoulders, remaining in my stomach wasn't helping at all.

I resolved to seeking measures to induce labour. I did the little I could,yet nothing happened. Sunday morning, I woke up crying. I was tired, and fed up. My mums caretaker had called to say he was out of Patience and won't be giving any more grace and my mum was already tired of having me and my son. I knew what she was going through and didn't want to keep staying at home and so I went to church with my son. I got back feeling better, 12pm contractions started. And because I was used to them I didn't take it seriously but it persisted till 3pm so I went to the hospital and pleaded with them to check me. They did, and I was 4cm dilated!

I was super excited! Little did I know it was going to be a longgggggggg ride.. I was alone, and in pains πŸ₯Ί till 7pm when my sister came then mum came later. Indeed not all pregnancies are same. Long story cut short, I gave birth around 3am after a long fight. It wasn't easy but we give Glory to God.

I've burnt my boots tho.. Safe delivery to every preggy mama! God will see y'all through
I fear Abuja women(single,divorcee and widowed women) more than anything, very desperate and inconsiderate lots. May God meet you at the point of your need.

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Boliboli760: 8:12pm On Jun 03, 2023
yumyogo:
MY BIRTH STORY

I honestly do not know where to start but I hope I'll be able to make some sense at the end of this story tho.

I figured out I was pregnant in October when we travelled for a function in Lagos. And as a result of the challenges my husband and I were facing we agreed we wouldn't keep it. We had concluded we weren't ready for a second child and so.. I visited our doctor there for an abortion. It was successful (IMO) and when we returned to Abuja we carried on with our lives.

Fast forward to November, I didn't see my monthly visitor (he wasnt even in town so i wasn't sexually active) I went for a scan and I was Pregnant!!!! Okay... I accepted it in good fate.

Then in December my husband and I were having a discussion, he mentioned some of the issues he was currently facing with his car and inability to sell our house in Kuje. He needed money to fix the car so he could work and be able to cater for me and the kids. He wanted me to borrow some money from fairmoney for him and he'd pay back in February when the house is sold. I had concerns, first the money was a lot and the interest rate was high but he wasn't bothered. I proceeded and then wired it to his .

December 26th, I found out my husband was preparing to go settle down with someone else, A girl he had denied knowing. I was devastated. This was where my depression set in. I was suicidal from the 3rd month of this pregnancy till the 6th month. I somehow got a Job when I was 5 months gone but stopped 2 months later.

I wasn't feeding well, I couldn't concentrate, taking my routine tabs was an issue, Living was hard and all I wanted was Death. I would question God, why me? I would starve the whole day, I fed once a day Sometimes.. Nothing seemed interesting but my son.. He was always looking out for Mummy.

Third trimester, I was getting used to being strong. Everything else was going well till we arrived the month of May. I wanted to give birth at 37 weeks for some reasons. That week came, ed, nothing! So did 38 week to 40 weeks. I was becoming depressed all over again. How do I tell this baby that I had a ton of bills and responsibilities on my shoulders, remaining in my stomach wasn't helping at all.

I resolved to seeking measures to induce labour. I did the little I could,yet nothing happened. Sunday morning, I woke up crying. I was tired, and fed up. My mums caretaker had called to say he was out of Patience and won't be giving any more grace and my mum was already tired of having me and my son. I knew what she was going through and didn't want to keep staying at home and so I went to church with my son. I got back feeling better, 12pm contractions started. And because I was used to them I didn't take it seriously but it persisted till 3pm so I went to the hospital and pleaded with them to check me. They did, and I was 4cm dilated!

I was super excited! Little did I know it was going to be a longgggggggg ride.. I was alone, and in pains πŸ₯Ί till 7pm when my sister came then mum came later. Indeed not all pregnancies are same. Long story cut short, I gave birth around 3am after a long fight. It wasn't easy but we give Glory to God.

I've burnt my boots tho.. Safe delivery to every preggy mama! God will see y'all through

You are truly strong , may God be with you and your children. Congratulations.

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Goldengold2(f): 10:45pm On Jun 03, 2023
Missfree:

Am fine ma o just battling with high blood pressure may God make it easy for us ijn
So sorry ma. It is well with you in Jesus name. Safe delivery is our portion all by His grace.

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Funky123(f): 6:23am On Jun 04, 2023
kokaiye:
hello dear... You didnt pronounce my name well... Reason i didnt see this on time... You LO is so cute!!!
Oh, I see
Thank you, how are you and the family?
Missfree: 10:26am On Jun 04, 2023
Goldengold2:
So sorry ma. It is well with you in Jesus name. Safe delivery is our portion all by His grace.
Amen ijn thank you so much

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ananne: 3:23pm On Jun 04, 2023
Team August(Team Grace)..Roll call for May.

name. E.D.D. Gender

Ananne_____________________August 15th.....XY

Thejourney200.____________August 30th____XX

Bluevy_____________________________August 4th

Senorita___________________________August 24th

TemmyB18________________________August 21st

Olorilolo___________________________August 30th.

Iyabetajos_________________________August 17th.

Michelle55________________________August 22nd.

August Mamas make una show o

How are you all doing? Hope you are enjoying the third trimester.

Please check in with your doctor if you notice anything that isn't normal.

I know some of us will start checking our baby's gender soonest.

Keep us updated

Have a wonderful month!

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nky4success(f): 6:40pm On Jun 04, 2023
Please how do I get rid of insomnia, it's been four months I put to birth, and it's affecting my BP. I HV gone to hospital, tried many medication to help restore back sleep all to no avail, still making use of sleeping tablet before I could sleep, pls who have experienced it. Any remedy. It all started d day I gave birth. Even when baby is sleeping still sleep will not come
UnApologeTic1: 9:56pm On Jun 04, 2023
Good Evening mamas. Please I need your advise on what to use for my baby.

Attached is a picture of her back. She is 3 months old.
What can I use to cure it and any idea what it is. Please.

Thank you mothers.
Opedolapo: 6:37am On Jun 05, 2023
UnApologeTic1:
Good Evening mamas. Please I need your advise on what to use for my baby.

Attached is a picture of her back. She is 3 months old.
What can I use to cure it and any idea what it is. Please.

Thank you mothers.
Have you tried baby tribotan or cacatin?
Boliboli760: 8:24am On Jun 05, 2023
nky4success:
Please how do I get rid of insomnia, it's been four months I put to birth, and it's affecting my BP. I HV gone to hospital, tried many medication to help restore back sleep all to no avail, still making use of sleeping tablet before I could sleep, pls who have experienced it. Any remedy. It all started d day I gave birth. Even when baby is sleeping still sleep will not come

I think stress , having a lot to do and on your mind can contribute to this. If you don't already, try to let someone take care of the baby more often if it is possible. Also let someone else help with your chores. I believe if you have less to worry about, your body will relax. I know it is not easy but try it. Express milk in bottles if breastfeeding, so anyone around can feed the baby.Play soothing sleeping music, there are lot on YouTube to help set the mood whenever you want to sleep be it morning, afternoon or night. Since you have tried medication, then I believe you need help and from your partner/friends/family.

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nky4success(f): 9:12am On Jun 05, 2023
I think stress , having a lot to do and on your mind can contribute to this. If you don't already, try to let someone take care of the baby more often if it is possible. Also let someone else help with your chores. I believe if you have less to worry about, your body will relax. I know it is not easy but try it. Express milk in bottles if breastfeeding, so anyone around can feed the baby.Play soothing sleeping music, there are lot on YouTube to help set the mood whenever you want to sleep be it morning, afternoon or night. Since you have tried medication, then I believe you need help and from your partner/frien. Thanks dear for your response, I will give it a trial.
nky4success(f): 9:17am On Jun 05, 2023
Thanks dear for your response, I will give it a trial.
UnApologeTic1: 10:50am On Jun 05, 2023
Opedolapo:

Have you tried baby tribotan or cacatin?

Good morning Ma. Yes I have. It's just lightening it. More are even coming out.

Tribotan I mean. Not tried cacatin.
estilo(f): 11:08am On Jun 05, 2023
UnApologeTic1:


Good morning Ma. Yes I have. It's just lightening it. More are even coming out.

Tribotan I mean. Not tried cacatin.

Try Sudocreme
sunbestie(f): 12:15pm On Jun 05, 2023
Team October 2023

Welcome to the month of JUNE. Protocols shall be broken because of us.. we will flourish and prosper, our families will encounter great turn around. Amen

Hope we are fully enjoying the honeymoon stage.. my DH no dey allow me rest for the oza room oo, d knack don reach to dey collect money like this ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ€£πŸ€£
The pressure down my lower abdomen is much and is make me walk like a pigeon 🀣🀣

Hope we are enjoying the small small kicks and quickening wey follow this stage😍😍

Be serious with your routine drugs, intake of water, fruits and vegetables.

If you have not ed for antenatal, I think is time to do that....I have ed and I'm enjoying the class.

Feel free to ask any questions bothering you... We will be right here to help.

Answer your roll call and tell us how you are doing.
1. sunbestie -------- 30th Oct
2. Fineire ---------- 31st Oct
3. jjaney --------- 10th Oct
4. ableGoddidit22 -------- 5th Oct
5. samieea28 ------------ 25th Oct
6. misskenny --------- 10th Oct
7. treasuree95 ---------- 15th Oct
8. kinkybabie11 --------- 8th Oct
9. Oyovwi --------- 31st Oct
10. Hanzee ------- 27th Oct
11. Veracious12 --------
12. Anna20 --------- 30th Oct
13. Keeky08 ---------


If you are team October and you are hiding just come out now and before we start collecting fine for lateness ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Team God gat us
Team happy Mamas
Team easy pregnancy and delivery

Let's go MamasπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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Auntyabbey: 2:47pm On Jun 05, 2023
Good afternoon mummies in the house.
This is my first pregnancy and am in my first trimester.
Nauseous feeling,vomiting,purging,loss of appetite,weak, I feel cold and warm at the same time and been crying because I don’t like how am feeling.
😭😭

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sunbestie(f): 5:08pm On Jun 05, 2023
Auntyabbey:
Good afternoon mummies in the house.
This is my first pregnancy and am in my first trimester.
Nauseous feeling,vomiting,purging,loss of appetite,weak, I feel cold and warm at the same time and been crying because I don’t like how am feeling.
😭😭
Hang in there.. it will be over soon.
If you think is much, you see your doctor.
E-hug

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treasuree95(f): 5:17pm On Jun 05, 2023
sunbestie:
Team October 2023

Welcome to the month of JUNE. Protocols shall be broken because of us.. we will flourish and prosper, our families will encounter great turn around. Amen

Hope we are fully enjoying the honeymoon stage.. my DH no dey allow me rest for the oza room oo, d knack don reach to dey collect money like this ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ€£πŸ€£
The pressure down my lower abdomen is much and is make me walk like a pigeon 🀣🀣

Be serious with your routine drugs, intake of water, fruits and vegetables.

If you have not ed for antenatal, I think is time to do that....I have ed and I'm enjoying the class.

Feel free to ask any questions bothering you... We will be right here to help.

Answer your roll call and tell us how you are doing.
1. sunbestie -------- 30th Oct
2. Fineire ---------- 31st Oct
3. jjaney --------- 10th Oct
4. ableGoddidit22 -------- 5th Oct
5. samieea28 ------------ 25th Oct
6. misskenny --------- 10th Oct


If you are team October and you are hiding just come out now and before we start collecting fine for lateness ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Team God gat us
Team happy Mamas
Team easy pregnancy and delivery

Let's go MamasπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

Add me to the list, team October 15

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UnApologeTic1: 5:32pm On Jun 05, 2023
estilo:


Try Sudocreme

Okay ma. Thank you. I will try it out
kokaiye: 6:19pm On Jun 05, 2023
Funky123:

Oh, I see
Thank you, how are you and the family?
we r good my dear.
kinkybabie11(f): 7:11pm On Jun 05, 2023
sunbestie:
Team October 2023

Welcome to the month of JUNE. Protocols shall be broken because of us.. we will flourish and prosper, our families will encounter great turn around. Amen

Hope we are fully enjoying the honeymoon stage.. my DH no dey allow me rest for the oza room oo, d knack don reach to dey collect money like this ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ€£πŸ€£
The pressure down my lower abdomen is much and is make me walk like a pigeon 🀣🀣

Be serious with your routine drugs, intake of water, fruits and vegetables.

If you have not ed for antenatal, I think is time to do that....I have ed and I'm enjoying the class.

Feel free to ask any questions bothering you... We will be right here to help.

Answer your roll call and tell us how you are doing.
1. sunbestie -------- 30th Oct
2. Fineire ---------- 31st Oct
3. jjaney --------- 10th Oct
4. ableGoddidit22 -------- 5th Oct
5. samieea28 ------------ 25th Oct
6. misskenny --------- 10th Oct


If you are team October and you are hiding just come out now and before we start collecting fine for lateness ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Team God gat us
Team happy Mamas
Team easy pregnancy and delivery

Let's go MamasπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ


Good evening…please add me to the list…I’m October 8th

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Fineire(f): 9:03pm On Jun 05, 2023
sunbestie:
Team October 2023

Welcome to the month of JUNE. Protocols shall be broken because of us.. we will flourish and prosper, our families will encounter great turn around. Amen

Hope we are fully enjoying the honeymoon stage.. my DH no dey allow me rest for the oza room oo, d knack don reach to dey collect money like this ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ€£πŸ€£
The pressure down my lower abdomen is much and is make me walk like a pigeon 🀣🀣

Be serious with your routine drugs, intake of water, fruits and vegetables.

If you have not ed for antenatal, I think is time to do that....I have ed and I'm enjoying the class.

Feel free to ask any questions bothering you... We will be right here to help.

Answer your roll call and tell us how you are doing.
1. sunbestie -------- 30th Oct
2. Fineire ---------- 31st Oct
3. jjaney --------- 10th Oct
4. ableGoddidit22 -------- 5th Oct
5. samieea28 ------------ 25th Oct
6. misskenny --------- 10th Oct


If you are team October and you are hiding just come out now and before we start collecting fine for lateness ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Team God gat us
Team happy Mamas
Team easy pregnancy and delivery

Let's go MamasπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

Amen mama. You wan carry another belle on top this one abi?😜
I am waxing stronger and have made up my mind to enjoy every package as it unfolds. Last last everybody go dy alright. October is just by the corner 🀣🀣

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sunbestie(f): 10:51am On Jun 06, 2023
treasuree95:


Add me to the list, team October 15

Welcome mama... Please don't leave us and runoo😊😊

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sunbestie(f): 10:58am On Jun 06, 2023
kinkybabie11:



Good evening…please add me to the list…I’m October 8th
Welcome mama... Let's make here fun and lively

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sunbestie(f): 10:59am On Jun 06, 2023
Fineire:


Amen mama. You wan carry another belle on top this one abi?😜
I am waxing stronger and have made up my mind to enjoy every package as it unfolds. Last last everybody go dy alright. October is just by the corner 🀣🀣
Aswear teamie 🀣🀣🀣 make we dey enjoy am dey go nah.
E-hug
sunbestie(f): 11:02am On Jun 06, 2023
June mamas no bumpy Tuesday for us ?
June cappo this is una month oo... Ginger your teammates well well make them participate for activities here.

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jjaney: 7:00pm On Jun 06, 2023
sunbestie:
Team October 2023

Welcome to the month of JUNE. Protocols shall be broken because of us.. we will flourish and prosper, our families will encounter great turn around. Amen

Hope we are fully enjoying the honeymoon stage.. my DH no dey allow me rest for the oza room oo, d knack don reach to dey collect money like this ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ€£πŸ€£
The pressure down my lower abdomen is much and is make me walk like a pigeon 🀣🀣

Hope we are enjoying the small small kicks and quickening wey follow this stage😍😍

Be serious with your routine drugs, intake of water, fruits and vegetables.

If you have not ed for antenatal, I think is time to do that....I have ed and I'm enjoying the class.

Feel free to ask any questions bothering you... We will be right here to help.

Answer your roll call and tell us how you are doing.
1. sunbestie -------- 30th Oct
2. Fineire ---------- 31st Oct
3. jjaney --------- 10th Oct
4. ableGoddidit22 -------- 5th Oct
5. samieea28 ------------ 25th Oct
6. misskenny --------- 10th Oct
7. treasuree95 ---------- 15th Oct
8. kinkybabie11 --------- 8th Oct


If you are team October and you are hiding just come out now and before we start collecting fine for lateness ooπŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Team God gat us
Team happy Mamas
Team easy pregnancy and delivery

Let's go MamasπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

We are fine o, cappo. Thanks for checking up. Taking it one day at a time.

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treasuree95(f): 8:01pm On Jun 06, 2023
sunbestie:

Welcome mama... Please don't leave us and runoo😊😊

Thanks

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Jenny855(f): 8:54pm On Jun 06, 2023
Where my September teamie’s at ooo
We are getting closer grin
Laughter4eva: 9:25pm On Jun 06, 2023
Good to be back
Huge congratulations to all mothers so far
We thank God for safe deliveries and preservation
Team December is registration on going grin grin
I want to

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