NewStats: 3,263,469 , 8,180,227 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 05:20 AM 5h6170

Baba wan come collect hin investment babe nor like am ...Now I see clearly, if baba de come as someone else's dependent then it means he must have a good tie with that person, so this one wan con divorce person wen nor tie to them ....omo na we de use our hand destroy ourselves shaa

abuhusna1:

I am smelling foul play from your side as well. Probably you blocked him from coming and he wants to use other means to come but you wish it doesn't work out. Imagine someone you said wasn't coming suddenly wanted to come with a new person. Na you and the guy cross sha but I am sure the villain will be vindicated.
He didn't come because he doesn't have your documents to come

And if the primary key side mistakenly gets denoted by an infinity ♾️
#JustSayingNio

bigtt76:
... ... On a lighter note, In database istration we call this kind of connect - One-to-Many

[collation] YouKay rent guarantor

jblesn:
... Please someone requested for rent guarantor details a while back and I am trying to get the web address. Can someone point me to that post? I can't find it and I need to make use of it now.
Thanks

For those that are students, I'll advise you go through your university service (if they have one). Although, they'll most likely use one of the following, who provide their services to professionals and students alike:
- https://www.rentguarantor.com/
- https://housinghand.co.uk/
- https://ukguarantor.com/
Not mentioned before
- https://www.homeppl.com/tenant/guarantid/

From Student thread: page 751 (see also page 841 on Living in the UK part 2)

mimilyrics:
https://rentguarantor.com/
https://housinghand.co.uk/university-guarantor-service/
https://amberstudent.com/plus/service/student-guarantor

Part 2: page 284 Feb 2022

mimilyrics:
https://ukguarantor.com/

Part 2: page 585 Aug 28 2022

Santa2:

housinghand (dot) co (dot) uk offer guarantor services , for a fee I believe

Part 2: page 585

Semmyk:
This is #gold. You've done a noble cause that might assist many coming onboard. Not aware of 'em b4 now.
... ...
I did a bit of digging. Apparently, it's a well known, accepted service offering!
** https://housinghand.co.uk/
www.rentguarantor.com/
PS: these seemly have 'good' ratings. Pls, anyone using rent guarantors service, kindly do robust DYOR, to avoid stories that might touch sore: cos some might spring up to tap into this service!
[Updated] https://ukguarantor.com/

Other approaches to note:
https://england.shelter.org.uk/housing_advice/private_renting/guarantors_for_private_renters

Gets more interesting. Apparently, some universities offer assist. A {hidden} gem to tap into!!
PS: some uni services might come with bureaucracy, while most piggyback on the rent guarantors above.
- www.gold.ac.uk/students/financial-/rent-guarantor-service/
- www.ucl.ac.uk/accommodation/returning-residents/ucl-rent-guarantor-scheme
- www.lse.ac.uk/student-life/accommodation/private-housing/rent-guarantor-scheme
- www.ed.ac.uk/student-funding/current-students/guarantor

Well, apart from the demand-supply, there're other #factors. See one from landlords viewpoint: www.landlordzone.co.uk/news/fraudulent-tenancy-applications-surge-as-criminals-switch-to-illegal-sub-letting/

bigtt76:
It shouldn't but it could raise issues for him as his name would appear as dependent under two different main applicant profile as a 'husband'

On a lighter note, In database istration we call this kind of connect - One-to-Many

One-to-many relationship

babajeje123:

One-to-many relationship

You gerrit

Baba wan show up with a new Primary Key and downgrade the former Primary Key to Foreign Key ...Key nor de gree Key because the old Primary Key never acknowledge the entity exist sef as in it wasn't a part of the Schema

semmyk:
And if the primary key side mistakenly gets denoted by an infinity ♾️
#JustSayingNio

Adebayo82:
Please does anyone have Idea of bank that is more suitable for cryptocurrency/Binance wallet for transaction for both deposit and withdrawal. Currently, I have Monzo acount. I don't know if I need to open revolut or Loyds bank .

Boss. Revolut is more Liberal and from there , you fut send am go Yr conventional bank.

me and over 28 million s who love Revolut. Sign up with my link below: https://revolut.com/referral/?referral-code=samueldp99!JUN1-23-VR-GB

If you use my link , we go share the referral bonus 50/50. 😉

Good afternoon House.
please I need the best of advice/ideas to solving this problem before someone does what he no suppose.
An ex patient or service raised a sexual complaint against her previous carer since last year August and he has been suspended from work ever since. We first thought it would be over soon that its just to do investigation and come up with findings which will either proof guilt or innocence. But loo and behold up till now the issue is still on the table. The last action that sparked outrage was during one session he was asked some questions in which he mentioned hes schooling in a university, so they now went ahead to write the Uni to inform them hes under investigation so the uni asked him to stay away until he is cleared. I cant stomach this injustice anymore. Please how does someone fight this kind of battle. It took months for the details of the so called offence that led to safeguard was even known o. the police have been invited and they couldnt find any evidence of misbehavior. Yet these people are hell bent in destroying a mans life. the only thing was that the girl was given a lift and the discussion was going intimate and he claimed he stopped it and dropped her off at the hospital and went his way. that very week wahala started and up till now na on top of the matter we still dey. No work since last year and the small consolation traing hes trying to do they blocked it without any formal conviction. this BS has to stop.

Please any great advice will be welcomed
Thanks.

ojtopsy:
Good afternoon House.
please I need the best of advice/ideas to solving this problem before someone does what he no suppose.
An ex patient or service raised a sexual complaint against her previous carer since last year August and he has been suspended from work ever since. We first thought it would be over soon that its just to do investigation and come up with findings which will either proof guilt or innocence. But loo and behold up till now the issue is still on the table. The last action that sparked outrage was during one session he was asked some questions in which he mentioned hes schooling in a university, so they now went ahead to write the Uni to inform them hes under investigation so the uni asked him to stay away until he is cleared. I cant stomach this injustice anymore. Please how does someone fight this kind of battle. It took months for the details of the so called offence that led to safeguard was even known o. the police have been invited and they couldnt find any evidence of misbehavior. Yet these people are hell bent in destroying a mans life. the only thing was that the girl was given a lift and the discussion was going intimate and he claimed he stopped it and dropped her off at the hospital and went his way. that very week wahala started and up till now na on top of the matter we still dey. No work since last year and the small consolation traing hes trying to do they blocked it without any formal conviction. this BS has to stop.

Please any great advice will be welcomed
Thanks.

Nah the genesis of his wahala be that. Make una dey careful with all this oyinbos. Don't be surprised that lady get all the recordings for hand and has tendered it for the work place. The fear of all this oyinbo is the beginning of wisdom . Next time , if he won do the do, make he follow fellow black lady talk.
Make him go start to dey find another job o cos those people might not likely call him back.


Updated. Am against any firm of secual harassment in any firm be it any colour or race. But am only saying that what the guy must have told the lady in question, An average fellow Nigerian lady would have cut the bluff of the guy straight up in the car and warn him never to try such again. But all this woke ladies forming I to know on my mention , Una wan count how many guys wey don see u for street toast u and u cut it off ? Or u fellow worker toasting u and nothing happened at the end.?

bigtt76:
It shouldn't but it could raise issues for him as his name would appear as dependent under two different main applicant profile as a 'husband'

On a lighter note, In database istration we call this kind of connect - One-to-Many

Hahaha. It's sure one to many.

abuhusna1:

I am smelling foul play from your side as well. Probably you blocked him from coming and he wants to use other means to come but you wish it doesn't work out. Imagine someone you said wasn't coming suddenly wanted to come with a new person. Na you and the guy cross sha but I am sure the villain will be vindicated.
He didn't come because he doesn't have your documents to come

I want to give you a piece of my mind but I will exercise restrain. You don't know me nor him and then you jump into conclusion that I blocked him from coming.

Was I not the one who initially filled him as my dependent? Things happen and people fall apart, people's circumstances change and circumstances influences people's decisions.

Next time use your brain before typing.

ELff:


I want to give you a piece of my mind but I will exercise restrain. You don't know me nor him and then you jump into conclusion that I blocked him from coming.

Was I not the one who initially filled him as my dependent? Things happen and people fall apart, people's circumstances change and circumstances influences people's decisions.

Next time use your brain before typing.

I agree. The fellow definitely wasn't using it.

I wonder how he felt comfortable coming up with all that conjecture without anything to substantiate it other than 'women are bad.'

Wild.

AirBay:


Definitely it would affect it, he cannot be married to 2 individuals, he has to divorce you first. Once embassy sees that application, na straight to denial bin that if he doesn't get 5-10years ban but if he has a divorce letter already, otilo

Thank you. I intend to start the divorce process asap but divorce in Nigeriq takes time the reason I'm asking if there's anything else I need to do to enable him be with whoever he wants as a dependent.

Should I inform the HO of my current circumstance?

abuhusna1:

Many things girls do when they get abroad. Read back you will see another gentle man whose wife ran away immediately they got to the uk. Mat God not let us marry a devilish Partner that wil turn our life upside down.
May God not let us marry a devilish Partner that wil turn our life upside down. She soent a whole one year in the uk without bringing the partner also applied as single for post study but was only worried when she knew about his plan to come eith snother woman. Learn to see evil from writeup as well my bro

Your senses are not in the right places. Obviously some nuts have been unscrewed. I pity your partner or whoever marries you.

How do you jump to conclusions about my situation when you don't even have the full story. Just wow.

If I was so much of a bad person as you have painted me, would I care if my initial application would affect his? Would I be here asking questions just so his application goes without any hindrances.

Oga use your brain when typing.

Drey1:


Nah the genesis of his wahala be that. Make una dey careful with all this oyinbos. Don't be surprised that lady get all the recordings for hand and has tendered it for the work place. The fear of all this oyinbo is the beginning of wisdom . Next time , if he won do the do, make he follow fellow black lady talk.
Make him go start to dey find another job o cos those people might not likely call him back.

No be Oyinbo o Na Naija girl run the matter.

@abuhusna1
I will advice that you start doing away with your type of mindset. Do not jump into conclusions. You can ask questions but do not speak authoritatively on a matter you do not have enough details on. I know a lot of young Nigerians display this atitude but try and shake it off, you will be better for it, trust me.

ojtopsy:

No be Oyinbo o Na Naija girl run the matter.

Eleyi gbenutan o. Maybe nah one of those akata

Drey1:


Nah the genesis of his wahala be that. Make una dey careful with all this oyinbos. Don't be surprised that lady get all the recordings for hand and has tendered it for the work place. The fear of all this oyinbo is the beginning of wisdom . Next time , if he won do the do, make he follow fellow black lady talk.
Make him go start to dey find another job o cos those people might not likely call him back.

Bad advice. How about just being careful in general and not tressing when relating with the other gender? You think black ladies don't understand consent? Dey there o.

lightnlife:
Interesting!

I'm currently in the market shopping for an entry-level BA role, and mehn, it's been a tough ride.

As a BCS-certified foundational BA, the interest is to apply the knowledge and leverage my transferable skills to improve my BA proficiencies/practice but the entry roles are not there. Daily, you'll see adverts for medium and senior level BAs but it seems no one is interested in grooming the next generation of BAs.

Could you please share some insight into getting entry-level BA roles or how to access learning environments that's not influenced by profiteering as with most of the course sellers...Thanks

I believe Business Analysts require soft skills which are transferable. With self-motivation and drive to learn and development opportunities, people should be able to transit into BA abilities.

Sorry chief, I don’t know anything about BA but Goke has given sound advise. Just look for graduate BA roles.

Drey1:


Eleyi gbenutan o. Maybe nah one of those akata

Abeg make una no dey make we men look bad. Them accuse person of sexual harassment and na the race dey bother you. Instead of the person wey commit the offence with a PATIENT. Abeg check yourself

SamReinvented:

Bad advice. How about just being careful in general and not tressing when relating with the other gender? You think black ladies don't understand consent? Dey there o.

Like I no even understand him kind mindset.

His comment was absolutely disgusting, insinuating on gross assumption.

He must have a very dark mind to think of such and come on a public domain to spill it as well.

Plus, he's got little or no emotional intelligence to have typed that rubbish. Some people sha!

God bless your soul, my dear.

ELff:


I want to give you a piece of my mind but I will exercise restrain. You don't know me nor him and then you jump into conclusion that I blocked him from coming.

Was I not the one who initially filled him as my dependent? Things happen and people fall apart, people's circumstances change and circumstances influences people's decisions.

Next time use your brain before typing.

ELff:


Thank you. I intend to start the divorce process asap but divorce in Nigeriq takes time the reason I'm asking if there's anything else I need to do to enable him be with whoever he wants as a dependent.

Should I inform the HO of my current circumstance?

You want to help him by rushing the divorce so he can travel with another person as a dependant?

I don't understand this your matter. You are the one dragging divorce, he should be the one rushing for divorce not you abi there is another thing to this matter.. e get kleg

Why not let him do the damage control himself? That is filing for the divorce, why you? He needs the movement more than you do now

ELff:


Thank you. I intend to start the divorce process asap but divorce in Nigeriq takes time the reason I'm asking if there's anything else I need to do to enable him be with whoever he wants as a dependent.

Should I inform the HO of my current circumstance?

SamReinvented:

Bad advice. How about just being careful in general and not tressing when relating with the other gender? You think black ladies don't understand consent? Dey there o.

Leave am make pant dey wear am.

Op don kuku tell am say na naija woman run the matter.

I say nothing wey musa no go see for this nairaland se

bigtt76:
Why not let him do the damage control himself? That is filing for the divorce, why you? He needs the movement more than you do now

...Wonders shall never end

Gosh!

This is absolutely bad.

Black, brown or white, sexual harassment/assault is wrong.

Where Una dey get all this kain mindset sef?

Drey1:


Nah the genesis of his wahala be that. Make una dey careful with all this oyinbos. Don't be surprised that lady get all the recordings for hand and has tendered it for the work place. The fear of all this oyinbo is the beginning of wisdom . Next time , if he won do the do, make he follow fellow black lady talk.
Make him go start to dey find another job o cos those people might not likely call him back.

which wonders again naa ...must women be the ones to file a divorce?

AirBay:


...Wonders shall never end

Just in case there happened to be a recording, Who initiated the intimate discussions? The guy or lady?

ojtopsy:
Good afternoon House.
please I need the best of advice/ideas to solving this problem before someone does what he no suppose.
An ex patient or service raised a sexual complaint against her previous carer since last year August and he has been suspended from work ever since. We first thought it would be over soon that its just to do investigation and come up with findings which will either proof guilt or innocence. But loo and behold up till now the issue is still on the table. The last action that sparked outrage was during one session he was asked some questions in which he mentioned hes schooling in a university, so they now went ahead to write the Uni to inform them hes under investigation so the uni asked him to stay away until he is cleared. I cant stomach this injustice anymore. Please how does someone fight this kind of battle. It took months for the details of the so called offence that led to safeguard was even known o. the police have been invited and they couldnt find any evidence of misbehavior. Yet these people are hell bent in destroying a mans life. the only thing was that the girl was given a lift and the discussion was going intimate and he claimed he stopped it and dropped her off at the hospital and went his way. that very week wahala started and up till now na on top of the matter we still dey. No work since last year and the small consolation traing hes trying to do they blocked it without any formal conviction. this BS has to stop.

Please any great advice will be welcomed
Thanks.

tolajay:
Gosh!

This is absolutely bad.

Black, brown or white, sexual harassment/assault is wrong.

Where Una dey get all this kain mindset sef?

Don't mind the shameless people.

The same place they get the mindset that women are bad and many choose to leave because they are wicked.

They don't see the connection between their archaic mindsets that justify propositioning a patient (as a carer who is supposed to be on safeguarding duties) or suggest that another person should feel free to harass a black woman anytime he wants to 'do the do', and how that relates to the way many women feel uncomfortable or oppressed around/with them, to the point of wanting to escape by any means.

bigtt76:
which wonders again naa ...must women be the ones to file a divorce?

Not at all, I meant why is she rushing to file a divorce so the person can run come with another person

koonbey:


Don't mind the shameless people.

The same place they get the mindset that women are bad and many choose to leave because they are wicked.

They don't see the connection between their archaic mindsets that justify propositioning a patient (as a carer who is supposed to be on safeguarding duties) or suggest that another person should feel free to harass a black woman anytime he wants to 'do the do', and how that relates to the way many women feel uncomfortable or oppressed around/with them, to the point of wanting to escape by any means.

Like, I’m perplexed and irritated at the same time. Disgusting mindsets in plain view.