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It was last week Thursday, before my journey to Ekiti for my sister's budgeted wedding, ..couldn't even what took my mind to Dammy my Ex girlfriend, the last time we talked was almost one and a half yr ago...after trying 2 to 3 numbers offhand, I got the right to her and we talked mostly about life and location,...to my surprised last night when I returned home , we chatted and she asked me if I could afford to impregnate her even without being responsible for the pregnancy and the child, she said "I don't need husband or sugar daddy but I need a baby"
Apart from the fact that she's older than me , I have a 12yr old daughter already, and I have my girlfriend currently (not the mother of my child) so it's obvious I won't marry her, But should I help her? but I'm scared she wouldn't stop on a child , she will need more sooner or later..
Advice me my people, what do I do ?? I know what she's feeling, she's 38yrs old now.

It's a trap to tie you down. Don't fall for it, run as far as ur legs can carry you

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AsomStructures:
It's a trap to tie you down. Don't fall for it, run as far as ur legs can carry you

He is even tying himself down..see him forming responsible that he wont allow her take his child away.......

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Why are you still in communication with your ex gf when you already have a girlfriend?

She must have some kinda hold over you to even be asking you such a foolish question. She really must take you to be a fool.

Go ahead and do it and get trapped with child , baby mama whala and what’s not.

Smh boys in men skin. Nonsense!

Run o

You are a foolish man
You think she loves you?
Or your having butterflies in ur tummy just cos your ex say make una Bleep make she bear your seed
Do you have an idea what your seed is?

You’re a foolish man

Run o.. if women won useless you them go useless you well.. na few men get sense to counter.

E blike say the sweet life u dey enjoy u no like am
An ex? Okay dey play

She has used you
She still wan use you
She say she wan born make una no meet again , first that ain’t even possible cos women don’t keep to their end of the bargain , they lie too damn much to be taking seriously

If una no pade again can u handle the thought of your seed beings with an ex u will never see again or hear from??

Men are really foolish sha that’s why the ladies keep having upper hands and dealing with you all

Abi na the persistent sex dey burst your brain or weti
When u no use ur head u go suffer ehn you’ll regret your actions, opportunistic ladies spits

This one is obviously trying to manipulate you bro
You’ll see the REAL her when she get what she wants

If you must have sex with her or impregnate her ask her to pay you for the SERVICE, if she can’t u forget it

Or u give her a child and you pay the price HEAVILY later!

Una matta attimes just de give me headache you guys should just continue

The end is near


Run o

Kingsley123456:
It was last week Thursday, before my journey to Ekiti for my sister's budgeted wedding, ..couldn't even what took my mind to Dammy my Ex girlfriend, the last time we talked was almost one and a half yr ago...after trying 2 to 3 numbers offhand, I got the right to her and we talked mostly about life and location,...to my surprised last night when I returned home , we chatted and she asked me if I could afford to impregnate her even without being responsible for the pregnancy and the child, she said "I don't need husband or sugar daddy but I need a baby"
Apart from the fact that she's older than me , I have a 12yr old daughter already, and I have my girlfriend currently (not the mother of my child) so it's obvious I won't marry her, But should I help her? but I'm scared she wouldn't stop on a child , she will need more sooner or later..
Advice me my people, what do I do ?? I know what she's feeling, she's 38yrs old now.

Oju imale e ko kuro ninu Oti. This conversation showed clearly you wanna continue from where you stopped with her. I am not in right pos to tell you what to do but pls Cut ties with your ex. Now bak to the real discussion

OP, she wanna use you and you accepting this ridiculous offer will bounce back on you in future.

Ka ma pade mon phrase she used is a big big red flag 🚩. Don't be unfortunate pls.

youngreva:
You are a foolish man
You think she loves you?
Or your having butterflies in ur tummy just cos your ex say make una Bleep make she bear your seed
Do you have an idea what your seed is?

You’re a foolish man

Bro, take am easy nah

Kingsley123456:


Bro, take am easy nah

HNNMM

You go pay child till you die be that.. Seems you don't like your peace of mind.

AsomStructures:
It's a trap to tie you down. Don't fall for it, run as far as ur legs can carry you

Not everything is a trap,u need to understand life

Kingsley123456:


Bro, take am easy nah

Be a good Samaritan and help the lady so she will not die childless

Help the Childless now,but women ehn,she will show you pepper no matter the agreement.


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after trying 2 to 3 numbers offhand, I got the right to her and we talked mostly about life and location


You have a child of 12years and you've got a girlfriend but you still go the extra length to get in touch with an ex of 18 months ago...

Your stupidity is top-notch...

You didn't state if she's financially stable..

She should be able to take care of the baby and give it a quality life.

Additionally, regardless of what she says, you should be ready to send monthly allocations for the baby's upkeep and perform your fatherly duties whether from a distance.

That baby must not suffer because of its parents' stvpidity.

Hope it's not the dami i'm thinking 'bout? Dami pupa!

Kingsley123456:
It was last week Thursday, before my journey to Ekiti for my sister's budgeted wedding, ..couldn't even what took my mind to Dammy my Ex girlfriend, the last time we talked was almost one and a half yr ago...after trying 2 to 3 numbers offhand, I got the right to her and we talked mostly about life and location,...to my surprised last night when I returned home , we chatted and she asked me if I could afford to impregnate her even without being responsible for the pregnancy and the child, she said "I don't need husband or sugar daddy but I need a baby"
Apart from the fact that she's older than me , I have a 12yr old daughter already, and I have my girlfriend currently (not the mother of my child) so it's obvious I won't marry her, But should I help her? but I'm scared she wouldn't stop on a child , she will need more sooner or later..
Advice me my people, what do I do ?? I know what she's feeling, she's 38yrs old now.

I don't see why not,with the predicted scarcity of men for marriage this will soon be a common scenerio

Nothing special or bad with her request.

Why did you guys separate?

How come you have a 12 years old child, yet you haven't married since then?

Go ahead

The efforts you made to get in touch with her shows that you still feel for her and she still feel for you too and likes your personality enough to want a mini you .


And you are considering this maybe you want something that can connect you both.

Is she financially stable, wise, comports and carries herself well ?

Move on.

Wale adenuga