NewStats: 3,261,598 , 8,174,459 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 06:10 PM 6a402a

Hi Dickson,
I have seen your messages about wife denying husband sex and I must confess that mine is epic. I dated my wife for 4 years before marriage. After the first 2yrs of dating, she put a stop to our sex and said she felt guilt and all, I accepted because I have dated 2 girls previously with sex, so it wasn't a new deal.

She is 2yrs older than me, I was younger and naïve, cos knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done a lot of things.

After marriage, she opened up to me that she has never enjoyed me cos I was huge, last more than 30mins and thrusts faster. I felt bad, started developing anxiety towards sex cos I was always thinking whether I was injuring her, she was enjoying it, or I will finish fast so she doesn't get angry cos she s hot tempered, can even get very very angry even during sex.

Additionally, she cancelled all sex position because she said they were painful, only one position and its with her lying straight on her belly, or at most by her side. Anything that will make her raise any part of her body was painful, doggy was totally out of the way, and all these were never raised during our dating period.

Any other position you attempt will make that night miserable because she will just be angry and asking every 5secs if you are not cumming.
Something that was supposed to be fun ends up being a task. I wanted to meet her halfway and that was my huge mistake. I changed all my strategy and then I started losing my erections and most times I won't even be able to get one, and then her complaint changed that I was falling even in the act and that she was not enjoying me again cos i no longer thrust fast.

Infact eeh........... I knew what the problem was, topped my game and we went back to square 1. The monthly count was like 7 or 8 times then as newly married couple while targeting conception. The moment she conception. The moment she took in, she locked up till the baby was in the 5th month. Infact the 9 months preg period was like 6 times only with curses, different conditions and rules before she will agree. I just managed the little wey i see. Mind you, we live peacefully, communicate almost every time, greet with kisses, pet names, dine and even play games but no sex.

She is a full housewife and I earn 7 figures monthly. After our first baby, I begged for sex for 7 months and anytime I bring up the sex, it was followed with blackmail, anger, back talks and even silence. On the 8th month, the rule was "it must be with protection", I obliged. By the 9th
month, which was the 5th time, she took in again. Almost same thing like the first preg period.

After second delivery, I decided not to demand and just observe her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I used mixing because they prepare everything needed to make food. I do the monthly shopping and even take care of the baby at night after working several hours during the day ooo, I her to the best of my knowledge and still don't know why.......I just feel shedoesnt love me and not attractedto me, probably i was just the available status changer, because how can a woman stay in the same house with someone she loves and never feel the need to go intimate?

I bumped into an ex and she suggested that I act like I was seeing someone, I then started living the house every evening and most times will drive to a car wash and stay for like 3 hours before coming home, and it didn't change anything, instead she became irate.

This year, I have not even had it up to 10times with her for a marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.

Marry a second wife.

Dangers of having a pestle in your pants. My advice seek out the help of a sex therapist. It's the best way to save your marriage.

As for the comment above, please ignore. Nigerian men only have a single solution to all marital problems which is get a "new woman " sadly this doesn't solve their problems but compound them.

Do you want to have sex?
Or, you want to have sex with your wife?

tonye33:
Hi Dickson,
I have seen your messages about
wife denying husband sex and I
must confess that mine is epic. I
dated my wife for 4 years before
marriage. After the first 2yrs of
dating, she put a stop to our sex
and said she felt guilt and all, I
accepted because I have dated
2 girls previously with sex, so it
wasn't a new deal. She is 2yrs
older than me, I was younger
and naïve, cos knowing what I
know now, I wouldn't have done
a lot of things. After marriage,
she opened up to me that she
has never enjoyed me cos I was
huge, last more than 30mins and
thrusts faster. I felt bad, started
developing anxiety towards
sex cos I was always thinking
whether I was injuring her, she
was enjoying it, or I will finish
fast so she doesn't get angry cos
she s hot tempered, can even get
very very angry even during sex.
Additionally, she cancelled all sex
position because she said they
were painful, only one position
and its with her lying straight on
her belly, or at most by her side.
Anything that will make her raise
any part of her body was painful,
doggy was totally out of the way,
and all these were never raised
during our dating period. Any other
position you attempt will make
that night miserable because she
will just be angry and asking every
5secs if you are not cumming.
Something that was supposed
to be fun ends up being a task.
I wanted to meet her halfway
and that was my huge mistake. I
changed all my strategy and then
I started losing my erections and
most times I won't even be able to
get one, and then her complaint
changed that I was falling even
in the act and that she was not
enjoying me again cos i no longer
thrust fast. Infact eeh........... I knew
what the problem was, topped
my game and we went back to
square 1. The monthly count was
like 7 or 8 times then as newly
married couple while targeting
conception. The moment she conception. The moment she
took in, she locked up till the baby
was in the 5th month. Infact the
9months preg period was like 6
times only with curses, different
conditions and rules before she
will agree. I just managed the
little wey i see. Mind you, we live
peacefully, communicate almost
every time, greet with kisses, pet
names, dine and even play games
but no sex. She is a full housewife
and I earn 7 figures monthly. After
our first baby, I begged for sex
for 7 months and anytime I bring
up the sex, it was followed with
blackmail, anger, back talks and
even silence. On the 8th month,
the rule was "it must be with
protection", I obliged. By the 9th
month, which was the 5th time,
she took in again. Almost same
thing like the first preg period.
After second delivery, I decided
not to demand and just observe
her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in
the same house without sex as
couple. I work from home, so I was
always around. I have househelps
that does practically everything at
home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as
couple. I work from home, so I was
always around. I have househelps
that does practically everything at
home, except mixing food. Yes, I
used mixing because they prepare
everything needed to make food.
I do the monthly shopping and
even take care of the baby at night
after working several hours during
the day ooo, I her to the
best of my knowledge and still
don't know why.......I just feel she
doesnt love me and not attracted
to me, probably i was just the
available status changer, because
how can a woman stay in the
same house with someone she
loves and never feel the need to go
intimate? I bumped into an ex and
she suggested that I act like I was
seeing someone, I then started
living the house every evening and
most times will drive to a car wash
and stay for like 3 hours before
coming home, and it didn't change
anything, instead she became
irate. This year, I have not even
had it up to 10times with her for a
marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.

This Ur marriage look like a prison yard.

Sounds like a daft guy to be making 7 figures at home. If size is the problem, why not used the MB and money you have abundantly to learn how to manage the situation? Tried Lubes? Tried not sticking the whole stuff inside(after all just the base of the head is the sensitive part)? Tried going for a medical checkup in case, her Veejay has issues? How did you two get married in the first place, is what I want to know.

Bros dey go hotel or asawo depending of money...but that's not the right thing to do just suggesting

So many possible causes ranging from the physical to emotional.

Retrace the origin of your relationship from the day you met & you will find your answer(s) somewhere in there...

I don't polygamy but if I am to be on your shoes I would get. Side chick that satisfies my sexual needs, I have a very high sex drive, on a norms if my babes comes around we for the weekend we can have sex more than 15 times, not exaggerated before she goes, during lock down we had to go do family planning for her not to get pregnant because i was tired buying condoms everytime, the pharmacist in my area self don tire to dey sell condom for me , 😂

I ordered one carton on Jumia, I was just taking and using, one day I checked and it aff finish 😂,

What am saying in essence is that no one should be in prison in the name of marriage, the op is really suffering, me I can't endure such

Holly Gram Na PESIN way drink ENERGY DRINK fit read everything way u post...



Waiting I go advise u be say...


Make u fine 1 better ASHAWOO house way u go de JAZZ in anytime way ur GBOLA don de on high-tension..


ASHAWOO don cheap now...


u no say country don hard small now so ASHAWOO de find MONEY and CUSTOMERS..


Na 500h I use NACK ASHAWOO yesterday..


I even 4get my boxers for the ASHAWOO house but dis night I go JAZZ in der to collect my boxers..


mind u. rain don start de fall ooo..



LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Sucre6:
I don't polygamy but if I am to be on your shoes I would get. Side chick that satisfies my sexual needs, I have a very high sex drive, on a norms if my babes comes around we for the weekend we have can have sex more than 15 times, not exaggerated before she goes, during lock down, we had to go do family planning for her not to get pregnant because i was tired buying condoms everytime, the pharmacist in my area self don tire to dey sell condom for me , 😂

I ordered one carton on Jumia, I was just taking and using, one day I checked and it aff finish 😂,

What am saying in essence is that no one should be in prison in the name of marriage, the op is really suffering, me I can't endure such

what kind was used on her?

tonye33:
Hi Dickson,
I have seen your messages about
wife denying husband sex and I
must confess that mine is epic. I
dated my wife for 4 years before
marriage. After the first 2yrs of
dating, she put a stop to our sex
and said she felt guilt and all, I
accepted because I have dated
2 girls previously with sex, so it
wasn't a new deal. She is 2yrs
older than me, I was younger
and naïve, cos knowing what I
know now, I wouldn't have done
a lot of things. After marriage,
she opened up to me that she
has never enjoyed me cos I was
huge, last more than 30mins and
thrusts faster. I felt bad, started
developing anxiety towards
sex cos I was always thinking
whether I was injuring her, she
was enjoying it, or I will finish
fast so she doesn't get angry cos
she s hot tempered, can even get
very very angry even during sex.
Additionally, she cancelled all sex
position because she said they
were painful, only one position
and its with her lying straight on
her belly, or at most by her side.
Anything that will make her raise
any part of her body was painful,
doggy was totally out of the way,
and all these were never raised
during our dating period. Any other
position you attempt will make
that night miserable because she
will just be angry and asking every
5secs if you are not cumming.
Something that was supposed
to be fun ends up being a task.
I wanted to meet her halfway
and that was my huge mistake. I
changed all my strategy and then
I started losing my erections and
most times I won't even be able to
get one, and then her complaint
changed that I was falling even
in the act and that she was not
enjoying me again cos i no longer
thrust fast. Infact eeh........... I knew
what the problem was, topped
my game and we went back to
square 1. The monthly count was
like 7 or 8 times then as newly
married couple while targeting
conception. The moment she conception. The moment she
took in, she locked up till the baby
was in the 5th month. Infact the
9months preg period was like 6
times only with curses, different
conditions and rules before she
will agree. I just managed the
little wey i see. Mind you, we live
peacefully, communicate almost
every time, greet with kisses, pet
names, dine and even play games
but no sex. She is a full housewife
and I earn 7 figures monthly. After
our first baby, I begged for sex
for 7 months and anytime I bring
up the sex, it was followed with
blackmail, anger, back talks and
even silence. On the 8th month,
the rule was "it must be with
protection", I obliged. By the 9th
month, which was the 5th time,
she took in again. Almost same
thing like the first preg period.
After second delivery, I decided
not to demand and just observe
her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in
the same house without sex as
couple. I work from home, so I was
always around. I have househelps
that does practically everything at
home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as
couple. I work from home, so I was
always around. I have househelps
that does practically everything at
home, except mixing food. Yes, I
used mixing because they prepare
everything needed to make food.
I do the monthly shopping and
even take care of the baby at night
after working several hours during
the day ooo, I her to the
best of my knowledge and still
don't know why.......I just feel she
doesnt love me and not attracted
to me, probably i was just the
available status changer, because
how can a woman stay in the
same house with someone she
loves and never feel the need to go
intimate? I bumped into an ex and
she suggested that I act like I was
seeing someone, I then started
living the house every evening and
most times will drive to a car wash
and stay for like 3 hours before
coming home, and it didn't change
anything, instead she became
irate. This year, I have not even
had it up to 10times with her for a
marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.

tonye33:
Hi Dickson,
I have seen your messages about
wife denying husband sex and I
must confess that mine is epic. I
dated my wife for 4 years before
marriage. After the first 2yrs of
dating, she put a stop to our sex
and said she felt guilt and all, I
accepted because I have dated
2 girls previously with sex, so it
wasn't a new deal. She is 2yrs
older than me, I was younger
and naïve, cos knowing what I
know now, I wouldn't have done
a lot of things. After marriage,
she opened up to me that she
has never enjoyed me cos I was
huge, last more than 30mins and
thrusts faster. I felt bad, started
developing anxiety towards
sex cos I was always thinking
whether I was injuring her, she
was enjoying it, or I will finish
fast so she doesn't get angry cos
she s hot tempered, can even get
very very angry even during sex.
Additionally, she cancelled all sex
position because she said they
were painful, only one position
and its with her lying straight on
her belly, or at most by her side.
Anything that will make her raise
any part of her body was painful,
doggy was totally out of the way,
and all these were never raised
during our dating period. Any other
position you attempt will make
that night miserable because she
will just be angry and asking every
5secs if you are not cumming.
Something that was supposed
to be fun ends up being a task.
I wanted to meet her halfway
and that was my huge mistake. I
changed all my strategy and then
I started losing my erections and
most times I won't even be able to
get one, and then her complaint
changed that I was falling even
in the act and that she was not
enjoying me again cos i no longer
thrust fast. Infact eeh........... I knew
what the problem was, topped
my game and we went back to
square 1. The monthly count was
like 7 or 8 times then as newly
married couple while targeting
conception. The moment she conception. The moment she
took in, she locked up till the baby
was in the 5th month. Infact the
9months preg period was like 6
times only with curses, different
conditions and rules before she
will agree. I just managed the
little wey i see. Mind you, we live
peacefully, communicate almost
every time, greet with kisses, pet
names, dine and even play games
but no sex. She is a full housewife
and I earn 7 figures monthly. After
our first baby, I begged for sex
for 7 months and anytime I bring
up the sex, it was followed with
blackmail, anger, back talks and
even silence. On the 8th month,
the rule was "it must be with
protection", I obliged. By the 9th
month, which was the 5th time,
she took in again. Almost same
thing like the first preg period.
After second delivery, I decided
not to demand and just observe
her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in
the same house without sex as
couple. I work from home, so I was
always around. I have househelps
that does practically everything at
home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as
couple. I work from home, so I was
always around. I have househelps
that does practically everything at
home, except mixing food. Yes, I
used mixing because they prepare
everything needed to make food.
I do the monthly shopping and
even take care of the baby at night
after working several hours during
the day ooo, I her to the
best of my knowledge and still
don't know why.......I just feel she
doesnt love me and not attracted
to me, probably i was just the
available status changer, because
how can a woman stay in the
same house with someone she
loves and never feel the need to go
intimate? I bumped into an ex and
she suggested that I act like I was
seeing someone, I then started
living the house ev ery evening and
most times will drive to a car wash
and stay for like 3 hours before
coming home, and it didn't change
anything, instead she became
irate. This year, I have not even
had it up to 10times with her for a
marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.

Bros.. why are u nagggin hyena sir? .can't u juss fukkkk olosho 5k? (no offenscce)

Same shit everywhere. Really men are not suppose to get married, its all a scam that men get nothing out of. Its same shit everywhere....Its all a 10 year plan


They marry you......
give you about two kids......
starve you of sex........
wait for you to go out and cheat........
divorce you.......
Take your house and half of your shit.


Marriage is a scam guys. Do not fall for it.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Na PESIN way drink ENERGY DRINK fit read everything way u post...



Waiting I go advise u be say...


Make u fine 1 better ASHAWOO house way u go de JAZZ in anytime way ur GBOLA don de on high-tension..


ASHAWOO don cheap now...


u no say country don hard small now so ASHAWOO de find MONEY and CUSTOMERS..


Na 500h I use NACK ASHAWOO yesterday..


I even 4get my boxers for the ASHAWOO house but dis night I go JAZZ in der to collect my boxers..


mind u. rain don start de fall ooo..



LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

No wonder this one of very poor and hungry. When he leaves his boxers in different ashewo houses . This one has no destiny of success at all, they have used all his boxers to clean clients sperm in different ashewo houses. Imagine any poor lady getting married to this bucket of failed destiny, na hunger poverty and suffering will be her portion.

Ladies becareful whom you date o. just imagine this useless wasted son of somebody being proud of his wasted poverty life ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Las las na kidnapping or armed robbery this one will turn to for survival 🤣🤣

get a more beautiful girl friend, let your gf visit you at home. This will reset her brain.

These dumb men keep giving women a sense of power because of sex.

Sex is overrated, period!

What does a man gain from it aside fatigue and tiredness and brain draining.

Practice semen retention and see what you're missing.

Ok

Lol

Ue

Because your wife denied you of sex and you write this whole note … Oga go outside go find you some good and nice coochies and stop complaining… Ode

I no fit pity simp again for my life!!

Una deserve every rubbish una dey see

A woman that deny her husband sex
Didnt marry him as a lover
She married him as a Provider
She sees you as not but the guy that will feed her and her children. Thats all

A womans true colors come out after marriage
Marriage is poverty alievation for women
You will provide for her like her father provided for her when she was small

You are basically her step dad
You will continue from where her father stopped
Thats why fathers are very happy when they give out there daughters in marriage
Father will be dancing saying to the husband
Oya take her, she is now your problem

The main goal of a woman marrying is not for her to enjoy sex. Its for her to find a provider that will take care of her like her father did.
She can get 3 times more sex when she was single. So sex is not the reason why women go into marriage
But men being stupid go into marriage for sex. Thats why women change it for men immediately they are married.
You are now her step dad, continue feeding and providing for her plus your children

Marry a second wife. Not side chick but a second wife, don't be a SIMP!

Why

May u get someone who love sex like u

All these long epistle on top of Pu*sy,
He’s truly starved…

15k can get you a whole lots of fantasies bro,
Save your self the stress by hitting the streets or online,
Whole lots of ass awaiting harvest,

Some men shaa get time to waste

The only thing worth stress & time is making Mula,
Know this & have peace

Like seriously, Chai, sex, sex, sex, sex, una no dey taya for sexual related issues, people are talking about how to live in the moon, create scientific innovation to better humanity but on Nairaland.com, na sex wahala all the time, wetin person no go read for nairaland.unblockandhide.com

This Life No balance

Nawa oo, Quite unfortunate that MARRIAGE became POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAMME for WOMEN! Morals are lost! They want all like a HAMPERS OF GOODIES, WHO wants a MAN RICH, HANDSOME, TALL, MASCULINE, CALM, GULLIBLE, STRONG TO PROTECT THEM, WEAK TO BE ABUSED BY THEM, FEED THEIR FAMILIES, and again they wan him to be POOR TO HIS RELATIVES, UGLY TO SIDE CHIC, WEAK TO TAKE CHARGE HOMES. Want MEN to die at OLD AGE, THEY INHERIT WEALTH, be the first to be invited abroad by children, highest cut of proceeds... they want A-MEN ,
eni jere , aje.

Shay man third leg done suffer for this woman hands 🙆🏾🙆🏾🙆🏾