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Is It Proper To Ask A Girl You Want To Marry If She Committed Abortion Before? (26684 Views)
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BeStroNG(m): 10:24am On Apr 17, 2023 |
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue. I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before. What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"? Should I ask her or not? 34 Likes 4 Shares |
Acidosis(m): 10:25am On Apr 17, 2023 |
It is appropriate and VERY OKAY to ask the woman or the man you want to marry ANY question. ANY. If that question you want to ask will bring wahala, then you're not ready to start a sane, healthy relationship. 315 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: Is It Proper To Ask A Girl You Want To Marry If She Committed Abortion Before? by Nobody: 10:27am On Apr 17, 2023 |
And you are so sure she's going to it it if she's ever done abortion? You are a joker.
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BeStroNG(m): 10:27am On Apr 17, 2023 |
Na one day man dey die. I'm going to ask the damn question and be very intentional about it.
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Snitch24(m): 10:30am On Apr 17, 2023 |
Bro ask anything Marriage has lost its purpose No go dey do mumu mumu ohh Anything you want to know ask 135 Likes 10 Shares |
pryme(m): 10:36am On Apr 17, 2023 |
BeStroNG: What makes you think you will get the truth from her? 55 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is It Proper To Ask A Girl You Want To Marry If She Committed Abortion Before? by Nobody: 10:40am On Apr 17, 2023 |
As a man, when you are ready to settle down that's when you will realize that a wife is very difficult to find
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FORHII: 10:42am On Apr 17, 2023 |
BeStroNG:Hahahahahah! I can bet you are just looking for an excuse to leverage on. Na person like you go marry dey cheat on your wife because she's fat. 6 Likes |
virginprincess(f): 10:43am On Apr 17, 2023 |
I see nothing wrong with the question,infact it is good to ask questions,before i go into a relationship with any man i must ask about his past like how many women has been in his life,how many he slept with,why did he broke up with them and so on,so tn be sure i'm not making a mistake.
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lilvicky68(m): 10:45am On Apr 17, 2023 |
hope you will also get a lie detecting machine
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valdes00(m): 10:47am On Apr 17, 2023 |
It's a good question but what's the use when we both knw she wnt be open with the truth.... She knws the relationship ends if she tells you she once did an abortion so she will rather lie Abt it.... If you knw u r serious Abt marrying her, jus try to impregnate her first bfor marriage... Rather than getting married and waiting on the lord 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Smartguyboy(m): 10:52am On Apr 17, 2023 |
Any girl you really want to marry you are free to ask her anything if she don’t feel comfortable answering you just leave her she’s hiding something. Though they are expecting such question which many will lie you just have to find out yourself by going to medical check up to a trusted doctor or friend if you have anyone.
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Blackdeewhy(m): 11:00am On Apr 17, 2023 |
I have no issue with you asking, my concern is "are you mentally ready for the outcome?" Don't get me wrong, there are relationships that partners open up on EVERYTHING (past, present and future). This is based on the fact that the lady is certain about the mental health of the guy and vise versa. Infact they laugh it off and see no big deal at all. I am just concerned about your mental health. If you can handle the truth. If your reason is to know if she can still bear child/ children then I say it's baseless. Moreover, there're other factors that can contribute to infertility (I am just being open minded) 26 Likes 1 Share |
sonature1: 11:30am On Apr 17, 2023 |
If a girl is not ready to take any questions from you, then she's not ready for marriage. As far as marriage is concerned, there should be no sacred cows. That's why many Nairaland guys are insisting on marrying virgins. If the girl had been a virgin, would you bother asking her the question? Although no man wants to marry baggage, no man should not be offended when ladies ask them tough questions because the golden rule should apply in everything. 15 Likes |
Sonnobax15(m): 11:34am On Apr 17, 2023 |
![]() Nothing wrong about it bro........ Personally I've once asked mine the same question and she said she have never had an abortion even though she dated her ex for 6 years+ ![]() ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share |
DropsMic(m): 12:13pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
The answer you will get is “NO I HAVEN’T”
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wiseone28: 12:13pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
No, since that will still be the answer.
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yuzjet(m): 12:14pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Yes. It's important. 3 Likes |
Skillsnigeria: 12:14pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Yes
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Curious345: 12:14pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Yes it is . According to durex condoms , Nigerian girls are the most morally depraved on earth. .so ask her 6 Likes |
iCauseTrouble: 12:14pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
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Curious345: 12:14pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Nigerian girls are all porn stars . Most of them have already done 5,000 to 9,000 rounds of sex before their 20th birthday 13 Likes 3 Shares |
donestk(m): 12:14pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Yes
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marlow1962(m): 12:15pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Go ahead, if she clean then there's nothing for her to hide. But be very sensitive to her replies, na there you go take know them. 1 Like |
creatorsverse(m): 12:15pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
There is a way you would ask it and it will cause problem... Someone like me I'd tell her that I'm once a cultist and I've done a lot of atrocities, so that she can tell me the truth... Hell I'll even tell her ive once made a girl have abortion just to get her view
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ManWater: 12:15pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Unless you have proof she has committed abortion before & you just want to use that as excuse to boycott the marriage. Because such question will normally cause quarrel or raise issues of trust. ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Funkyswagzz(m): 12:15pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
I dont think its a smart question. If you are trying to see if she can get pregnant do the proper stuff before you propose to her
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erai30(m): 12:15pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
JUST LIKE HIV, ABORTION NOR DEY SHOW FOR FACE.... SHE WILL DEFINITELY LIE TO YOU MY BROTHER ![]() 14 Likes |
Sweetvie: 12:16pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Good question.
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Houseofglam7(f): 12:16pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
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