NewStats: 3,262,431 , 8,177,139 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 09:35 AM 1j2g5i

Princessdainty:
As usual una don turn the thread to woman matter.
You want Amaka from the village to change because you took her to America.
But you the he-goat, has refused to change your misogynistic ways?

You no dey learn from your oyinbo counterparts??you don't unlearn to learn
Monkey!
You will loose your fortune and be chased out of your damn house.
Continue in your tomfoolery!

Why Amaka? Why not your mother!?

Mtcheww!! Its 2023! Women are traveling the world with their own money..
Gen X be sleeping on a bicycle.

Bomb dey your head. U this small gal

A simple and interesting thread, but brownjay and the other guy turned it into rubbish talks about women..

Must everything be about women !?

Y'all be having unnecessary headaches over women (our forefathers rather spent their time, energy and resources on battle, kingdoms, inventories, etc. Women were least of their problems), deviating from the main subject matter. Y'all should desist from this nonsense please!!!

I’m reading comments

So the discussion is marrying a wife, okay…

ukaface:
I’m reading comments

So the discussion is marrying a wife, okay…

As in ehn, so annoying!!

The thread is on the 3rd page with
minute contributions, as regards the topic...

Delusory tendencies I see in display a lot here.

Japa is a mindset justified by harsh conditions here but the pasture isn't always greener on the on the other side.

I think the most important thing people don't take into consideration is what next when you get there, They think once you get there with no money and illegally, that manner will fall from heaven and you will earn millions out of thin air. I always advise anyone thinking of traveling to get a business here that can sustain itself then japa, because when you get there, you must pay in their currency and trust me if you have nothing doing, life is going to be difficult.

Literally everyone you see shouting abroad is not what you think are those that go there and expect to find trees with millions growing on them. I have never been to the US, but Europe a couple of times and my experience has been 10/10.

My Experience.
Avoid Campobasso in Italy

Don't be surprised by the weird smell when you get to paris, takes a while to get used to it. Not really a smell, just don't know how to describe it.

The mentality of coming to carry a woman from Nigeria to marry, PLEASE DON'T TRY IT. they're worst than the so called western women when they get there, I would recommend getting a wife from the Philippines.

The food in is very bland, alot revolves around bread, the types of bread they have is more than the alphabets.

And last but most importantly, Always compose yourself and act upclass even if you aren't, if you get stop by the cops and asked for documents, kindly give it to them and ask them how their day is going, don't go and start shouting and screaming for junction because they asked for documents.

And if you're lazy kindly stay in Nigeria because you won't make it there.

And for the ladies, the easiest way is to go through a nursing program, You get paid and a guaranteed job when you graduate and just a 2yrs program, no go stand for De Wallen for night dey find client because them go burst you las las

Abeg link me up.

studyless123:


That's it. A change in location should accompany a change in behavior. I know a number of women who desire to get married but their issue is the man will change once he comes here. My next question is what are your options?

consider this.

When foreigners get married to Nigerians, the marriage tends to lasts longer compared to Nigerian couples. Eg In 2014, I linked up 8 USC with Nigerians that ended in marriage, all are still married. That same year I know 5 Nigerian marriages that only 2 are still couples today. While that is a personal observation, you will agree that we tend to have a higher tolerance towards our foreigners spouses which we don't exhibit toward our Nationals.

We create different expectations. We shy away from having meaningful and sometimes difficult discussions during courtship.

Honestly I would expect my spouse to change if I brought her from Nigeria but the real issues are the men need to change their "orientation" and the women need to "understand" their men.

incogni2o:


Your last statement is you rather being sanctimonious.

The same way you said it is the same way some cultures think why on earth shouldn't a man beat a woman.

I am not ing Men beating Women, but rather saying it's based on people's values and upbringing the way a Man would perceive laying hands on a Woman.

It's a useless value and upbringing. Nothing justifies beating up another grown-up human because you're married to them.

MrBrownJay1:
- Nigerians are some of the smartest and equally most evil person you could meet around the world...one minute you can meet someone who has built great businesses abroad (from scratch) and the next minute meet someone who will willingly defraud someone out of their life saving (to the point that they will commit suicide) in a heartbeat!
- Nigerians can LITERALLY be found in every country of the globe.
- many inexperienced people really do believe that the minute you go abroad, you will start making millions miraculously.
- so many people do believe there are more life/work opportunities in the US/UK/Canada for Nigerians, but i beg to differ....
- although some are ready to kill to leave Nigeria, some are equally ready to kill to go back to Nigeria on holiday pretending they have made it in the west
- people today still go back to the village in Nigeria to find a wife to bring to the west, thinking that this woman ISNT GONNA CHANGE INTO A WESTERN WOMAN (the minute she reaches the west), lol! if you want a village woman, then keep that woman in the village o.
- some people have bought houses etc in the west by cleaning dishes and toilets. not all these menial jobs are as bad as people thing...

Quite a write up..and all true except for where you wrote that disagree about more life/work opportunities in the US/UK/Canada for Nigerians.
There are actually better opportunities in those places. Trust me. If you need to start a business and you know what you are doing. It's would be very easy because there won't be the usual bureaucracies, bottle necks and obstacles we are all too used to in Nigeria. Also if you are the not so ambitious type, there are many unskilled hussles you can do that would earn you as much as your skilled counterpart earn. I know people who go about picking empty aluminum can and water bottles in trash and selling it for 50 to 100 dollars per day. I also know know people that do shopping and delivery on instacart and earn over 4k usd per month.

EnterpriseMan:
I think the most important thing people don't take into consideration is what next when you get there, They think once you get there with no money and illegally, that manner will fall from heaven and you will earn millions out of thin air. I always advise anyone thinking of traveling to get a business here that can sustain itself the japa, because when you get there, you must pay in their currency and trust me if you have nothing doing, life is going to be difficult.

Literally everyone you see shouting abroad is not you think are those that go there and expect to find trees with millions growing on them. I have never been to the US, but Europe a couple of times and my experience has been 10/10.

My Experience.
Avoid Campobasso in Italy

Don't be surprised by the weird smell when you get to paris, takes a while to get used to it. Not really a smell, just don't know how to describe it.

The mentality of coming to carry a woman from Nigeria to marry, PLEASE DON'T TRY IT. they're worst that the so called western women when they get there. I would recommend getting a wife from the Philippines.

The food in is very bland, alot revolves around bread, the types of bread they have is more that the alphabets.

And last but most importantly, Always compose yourself and act upclass ever if you aren't, if you get stop by the cops and asked for documents, kindly give it to them and ask them how their day is going, don't go and start shouting and screaming for junction because they asked for documents.

And if you're lazy kinda stay Nigeria because you won't make it there.

And for the ladies, the easiest way is to go through a nursing program, You get paid and a guaranteed job when you graduate and just a 2yrs program, no go stand for De Wallen for night dey find client because them go burst you las las

Hello.

What are the requirements for this? Also, do you have an idea of how much this would cost in the UK?

Na werey we dey take port werey , you be naija guy na , no dull yourself , compete , you go win

Johnson225:

Money dey naija bro, but sanity no dey.

Hoping to relocate soon. but at the moment, we still grinding

Stupid language called japa IF YOU REFUSED TO BUILD YOUR MOTHERLAND AND YOU THINK OYINBO MAN BUILD THEIR MOTHERLAND FOR THE NIGERIA CITIZENS THEN THINK TWICE

my negative impression was the unnecessary fear for Nigerians.. very true!

Earth na earth

If u know you know

my negative impression was the unnecessary fear for Nigerians.. I dey tell you !

KIDDRICAsHAWK:


Hello.

What are the requirements for this? Also, do you have an idea of how much this would cost in the UK?

I can do all that for you easily and good cost

MrBrownJay1:


bro there are too many to mention.... its been decades. but my favourite countries in the world, by far are Australia, Japan Brasil, in no particular order.... and let me just say that, i have been to the US quite a lot, and i am still trying to figure out what the attraction IS. i only like Miami (and possibly Atlanta)

Cincinnati, NOLA and Pittsburgh. for me though, was born in Finland moved to Nigeria in 2001. Singapore is baaad..so many rich Chinese folks with little or no Chinese accent.

studyless123:


That's it. A change in location should accompany a change in behavior. I know a number of women who desire to get married but their issue is the man will change once he comes here. My next question is what are your options?

consider this.

When foreigners get married to Nigerians, the marriage tends to lasts longer compared to Nigerian couples. Eg In 2014, I linked up 8 USC with Nigerians that ended in marriage, all are still married. That same year I know 5 Nigerian marriages that only 2 are still couples today. While that is a personal observation, you will agree that we tend to have a higher tolerance towards our foreigners spouses which we don't exhibit toward our Nationals.

We create different expectations. We shy away from having meaningful and sometimes difficult discussions during courtship.

Honestly I would expect my spouse to change if I brought her from Nigeria but the real issues are the men need to change their "orientation" and the women need to "understand" their men.

link me up too, hahaha na linkup so. on a serious.

It's a wonderful experience, but I believe that it's all about grace. Some will find it easy, others will struggle abit.

The only shock I had is that I did not see and Still have not seen any top loader washing machines. . I think it's because there is always power.

MrBrownJay1:
- Nigerians are some of the smartest and equally most evil person you could meet around the world...one minute you can meet someone who has built great businesses abroad (from scratch) and the next minute meet someone who will willingly defraud someone out of their life saving (to the point that they will commit suicide) in a heartbeat!
- Nigerians can LITERALLY be found in every country of the globe.
- many inexperienced people really do believe that the minute you go abroad, you will start making millions miraculously.
- so many people do believe there are more life/work opportunities in the US/UK/Canada for Nigerians, but i beg to differ....
- although some are ready to kill to leave Nigeria, some are equally ready to kill to go back to Nigeria on holiday pretending they have made it in the west
- people today still go back to the village in Nigeria to find a wife to bring to the west, thinking that this woman ISNT GONNA CHANGE INTO A WESTERN WOMAN (the minute she reaches the west), lol! if you want a village woman, then keep that woman in the village o.
- some people have bought houses etc in the west by cleaning dishes and toilets. not all these menial jobs are as bad as people thing...

Thread is closed. He has said it all.

INTERESTING THREAD

MrBrownJay1:


i am born and bred in so pretty much traveled all over Europe (Spain Belgium, Italy, Holland, Poland Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Ukraine, Russia Sweden finland etc) ... but i have actually lived in the UK, Norway, Denmark, Poland, Czech republic, Switzerland, China, Japan, Australia, Argentina, Brazil, Colombia... and of course, as you live in these places, you travel to neighboring countries to visit.

...and again, in any of these countries, i can tell you a story (whether good or bad) about Nigerians

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MrBrownJay1:


bro there are too many to mention.... its been decades. but my favourite countries in the world, by far are Australia, Japan Brasil, in no particular order.... and let me just say that, i have been to the US quite a lot, and i am still trying to figure out what the attraction IS. i only like Miami (and possibly Atlanta)

Miami university gave me ission just after reading my letter. Nice place. I don't know of now though. That was back in 2005.

Japagerians 😂

I'm planning to Japa with my wife very soon.

Canada

Netherlands

Possible destination

tensazangetsu20:


Abeg can you link me up. Me too I want to marry an American I don't care if she weighs 800 pounds

😁😄😃😀 800 pounds cracked me up men. Are you sure you can manage?

There should be a WhatsApp group and link for this thread.

I so propose.🤣

Nigeria

MrBrownJay1:


i am born and bred in so pretty much traveled all over Europe (Spain Belgium, Italy, Holland, Poland Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Ukraine, Russia Sweden finland etc) ... but i have actually lived in the UK, Norway, Denmark, Poland, Czech republic, Switzerland, China, Japan, Australia, Argentina, Brazil, Colombia... and of course, as you live in these places, you travel to neighboring countries to visit.

...and again, in any of these countries, i can tell you a story (whether good or bad) about Nigerians

Ajala travel all over the world. You have spent more time out of Nigeria than in Nigeria.

Before Nigeria finally goes to the dogs, let me find level.