NewStats: 3,263,335 , 8,179,811 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 02:16 PM 4g3o18

My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

Who employed the maid? What is she still doing in the house?

Your sister is crying, why?

If she keeps crying without a swift action then she should be welcoming a second wife soon or preparing to pack out.

Your married sister or you

Go to the point so that people can advice you in the comment section


This is not a. Matter of shame again

Tell yourself to leave the house for the maid

adewumiopeyemi:
Your married sister or you
Go to the point so that people can advice you in the comment section

This is not a. Matter of shame again

give your opinion Mr Man
It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.

sulakishop:
Who employed the maid? What is she still doing in the house?

Your sister is crying, why?

If she keeps crying without a swift action then she should be welcoming a second wife soon or preparing to pack out.

she told me that her husband kicks against all her efforts to throw the girl out

endsarrrs:
Tell yourself to leave the house for the maid

endsarrrs:
Tell yourself to leave the house for the maid

i dont gerrit

Justbehave:
Chaii. Fish brains can never disappoint. Your sister should be ashamed of herself if she doesn't know what to do other than crying. Let her check where she is getting it wrong.

i dont see where she is getting it wrong

She has always been submissive to her husband

Learn how to cook better food...mba!!! ..... you say "i am a feminist..my husband-to-be should also go and learn how to cook to satisfy me"....

But u sabi only snake in the eagle and hold burglary style.... the sex seff...u are always tired, asking him "is it food"

Okay naa..food matter don come...now u are crying and hating on another girl that can cook accusing her she wants to crash your home.... nothing should happen to that poor girl ooo...

Lovilla:
i dont see where she is getting it wrong

She has always been submissive to her husband

She never wan talk true or you are just lieing.

Lovilla:
i dont gerrit

Since you cannot send the maid packing, then you should pack and leave.

advanceDNA:
Learn how to cook better food...mba!!! .....i am a feminist..my husband to be should also go and learn how to cook.....Na only snake in the eagle and hold buglary style u sabi.... the sex seff...u are always tired, asking him "is it food"

now u are crying and hating on another girl that can cook accusing her she wants to crash your home.... nothing should happen to that poor girl ooo...

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Report to elders he respects

Lovilla:
i dont see where she is getting it wrong

She has always been submissive to her husband

...husbnd enjoys her food..thats not the maid's fault..thats ur sister's fault for not knowing how to cook.....how is she now trying to crash ur sister's marriage??

😁😁😁😁😁.

OP na you, talk true... No dey lie for us hia

Reasons?

1. You are a bad cook

2. You are a feminist who refused to do house chores

3. The maid has big yansh and soft breasts

4. She dey use correct gwuogwuo for your husband food

5. She already started serving the other food for your husband and she serves it really good...like the one going through his mouth.

Solutions?

Call your pastors or the elders. Time is running out. Especially on the gwuogwuo part

The question is, how did she always treat her husband b4 the coming of the maid? Was she a good nd submissive wife to the husband or was she always a nagging, disobedient nd disrespectful wife? No man will just decide all of a sudden to disrespect the wife he suffered to marry just because of a maid he didn't suffer to employ. There's a very vital part of this story that u deliberately decided to ommit nd until u tell us nobody will have the right advice 4 u.

Lovilla:
give your opinion Mr Man

It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.

It matters o. Because you being in Nairaland since is suppose to have impacted maximum sense in that your kokolo head from great comment/advice on similar thousand topics like this.

As the saying goes: "dey play"

advanceDNA:


...husbnd enjoys her food..thats not the maid's fault..thats ur sister's fault for not knowing how to cook.....how is she now trying to crash ur sister's marriage??

trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.

Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.

MURDERESS!!!

Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.

Lol..... my talk is trash.??...but ur toxic/murder filled statement is not... pele...you and ur sister go dey alright....beans for prison no palatable ooo

endsarrrs:


It matters o. Because you being in Nairaland since is suppose to have impacted maximum sense in that your kokolo head from great comment/advice on similar thousand topics like this.

As the saying goes: "dey play"

when did i come to nairaland?

I dont even like the site.

I only visits, once in a blue moon

advanceDNA:


...husbnd enjoys her food..thats not the maid's fault..thats ur sister's fault for not knowing how to cook.....how is she now trying to crash ur sister's marriage??

Laws of power: "Never outshine your master"

Lovilla:
when did i come to nairaland?

I dont even like the site.

I only visits, once in a blue moon

You won't get Shishi here!

Take your clout chasing elsewere

Your sister is jealous of the maid.


We have to hear from the husband to have a better conclusion of the matter.

Was your sister really a good housewife or was she the feminism type with too much authorities and commands?

Abeg one Crete of beer for the Man and another for All the men knacking their house help. All this women will come online to look for sympathy but forgetting they fucccked peoples husbands before they got married.

endsarrrs:


Laws of power: "Never outshine you master"

Inappropriate context.... the supposed master doesnt know anything...she only knows how to boil water and cook indomie...