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A Nigerian businessman, Darlington Onyelike, has advised women not to let social media deceive them into believing that there is equality in marriage, IGBERETV reports.

Onyelike, who stated this in a post on Tuesday, January 31, also told married women that their husbands are not their friends but their lord.

He wrote on Facebook;

"There is no equality in marriage, stop confusing yourself, there are no two heads in a home, just one and that is your husband. Your husband is the head of the family just like God is the head of the church.

Your Husband is not your friend, he is your Lord (1 Peter 3:6). Majority of those that claimed to have married their friend have divorced the marriages. And there is no way your husband can give you 24hours attention, wont he go to work and make money for the family? that means he Will stay with you from morning till night? It's not possible, let's stop deceiving ourselves on social media. Even a jobless man can never give a woman 24hours attention."

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0qvGL2WH8WCmTCCvDNKBvLShXa2Cj8rA6y6GFymokCtVjLD44M24ULfTA4Mrft3eHl&id=100002251770965

https://igberetvnews.com/1438333/husband-friend-lord-nigerian-man-tells-women/

This wan na for people weh carry marriage for head.

🚶 Make ah go find where to coordinate Canadian Loud. 🍁
Una happy Sunday.

God bless this comrade for me...

Gone are those days when women call their Husbands sweet names like "Nnanyi", Oko mi, My Crown and My Lord" and treat them as such

Feminism has come to preach equality in marriage and destroyed the sanity.

Recently, I saw a post where one disrespectful fellow was addressing her husband as her "Bestie" on TikTok and rubbing his bald head while the full grown SIMP smiled for the camera.

Let's not even go far, some Old Layers here who feels there should be equality in marriage, delegating house chores to a full grown man to carry out. Imagine that!!!

Mind you, most of these Old Layers are not virgins, some are rickety hens that have laid several eggs, but they are clamouring for equality with their Overstretched Community Pussies.


Na God go help us.

Shvtty mentality.. Lord of what? The ring! Is she your slave!
😂
Each spouse will have different strengths and weaknesses - don’t get stuck in culturally ‘normative’ gender roles or expectations..

Two equal adults together in a partnership and together decide how to run their house and lives...It works... A marriage isn’t an organisation that needs a leader or head...it’s a relationship between two adults...
Don't be dvmb!😂

I repeat women aren't object or your slaves that you can Lord over!🙄

The only attention I can give to a Nigerian girl is my standing preèk.

All the evening newspappers on nairaland will assemble here.

Not Every husband is worth it. An irresponsible, stingy, uncaring mistake of a man is not worth the prestige of being called a husband talk more of "Lord"

So, men that beat their wife should be called lord?

Men that don't spend money on their wife and children should be called lord?

Men that cheat on their wife should be called lord?

This Yeye businessman should keep shut and face his nonsense business

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I always tell these demons, abolish marriage and practice your feminism.

As long as you wished to get married to a man, then, get ready to be submissive and under him. He's your CROWN.


There's one of my neighbours I always ire his marriage. Any time he returns home, the wife will rush and grab his suitcase with sweet bow to demonstrate he's her Lord.

But, these Gen Z demons want to start rubbing shoulders with their husband. Some don't even serve their husband food again. They keep shouting equality but when it comes sharing of bills, them go pick race. Unproductive gender!

Deep down most ladies know a man who pays their bill and finance them is their Lord

Forget all this feminist/ Redpill bullshit

Throw some cash on some girl, give her what she needs and more and watch her turn very submissive


Even in lesbian relationship the Tomboy who pays the bill is the lord

PS: Lord /lɔːd/ noun
a man of noble rank or high office; a nobleman.

Lord , Sir, Lady, Madam are only show of respect



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Zonefree:
I always tell these demons, abolish marriage and practice your feminism.

As long as you wished to get married to a man, then, get ready to be submissive and under him. He's your CROWN.


There's one of my neighbours I always ire his marriage. Any time he returns home, the wife will rush and grab his suitcase with sweet bow to demonstrate he's her Lord.

But, these Gen Z demons want to start rubbing shoulders with their husband. Some don't even serve their husband food again. They keep shouting equality but when it comes sharing of bills, them go pick race. Unproductive gender!

That's it my brother...

You wan practice feminism inside marriage, not like you're a virgin or fairly used, you're not bringing anything to the table only your overused pussy and nasty character.

PlayMaker14:
That's it my brother...

You wan practice feminism inside marriage, not like you're a virgin or fairly used, not bringing anything to the table only your overused pussy and nasty character.

98.7835% of Nigerian feminists are ladies dumped severally by men. An average Nigerian feminist has a body count above 80.



*Use Nairaland feminists as case study.

Nairaland feminist wouldn't like this.

Zonefree:

98.7835% of Nigerian feminists are ladies dumped severally by men. An average Nigerian feminist has a body count above 80.



*Use Nairaland feminists as case study.

And they're the confused fellow clamouring for equality in marriage.

My brother, If to say Goat know say Salad dey, E for nor dey chop Grass.

Yeye people.

PlayMaker14:
And they're the confused fellow clamouring for equality in marriage.

My brother, If to say Goat know Salad dey, E for nor dey chop Grass.

Yeye people.

Jay, why's that goat above you bleating?

Zonefree:

Jay, why's that goat above you bleating?

Na your person na.

Maybe wetin you talk pain am.

Ahnie darling, no one here is the cause of your frustration. Hold on to God, He'll heal you.


Shalom.

Yes ooo.

They should be our lord and also our FRIEND abeg. Na marry I marry no be war I go for.

I’m not for gender equality but we deserve respect as much as men. A marriage with mutual respect and where both parties play their role will hardly hit the rock.

Unfortunately, these days everybody is mad😂.

This thread won't be worth it as no sane conversation will happen here.




No need !

Please someone should move it to the front page.
The shady deal of those manager in a major marketer fuel station. Total,Mrs and the like.
A total fueling station located at itori along abeokuta Express has a fuel and refuse selling it at the rate of #189 as other major marketer do,what the manager does is simple connived with the truck bringing the fuel and sell it off to a private depot that is not major marketer to sell it as high as 350,the total,fuelling station and major marketer, efcc,ic should work to stop this act from those big marketer each station manager.

Ok

He's right.

Nonsense .am a man but I don subject lady to mental slavery





If u are a lady u don't know how to play .we can't be friends not to talk about being in a relationship

If any woman here dosen't agree, she should go and die. 😡😡

For this our generation?
wife’s are semi god in d house
They will fight their mother in law
Fight side chicks
Still want to slay and be going to party.
Very soon dey will be shouting single mother

ahnie:
Zonefree I want to face your mother now,bring her out.i told you that when I would get started with you,you would know that,I m the real definition of **evulz**


If you want be nice,i'wud be,but if you want to be stupid,I would help you run publicity.
Call your strumpet senseless mum that looks like fruit bat for me.

Take it easy darling. Everything will be fine.

Go and take carbonated drink and chill.


Jesus loves you