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Minding my biz

DenreleDave:
Lessons for this year:

1. Never work for a man earning 8 figures on a weekly basis while you are being paid 5 figures on a monthly basis with enough insults and humiliation.

Reason why I quitted my job this month.

2. Never stay long in a job that doesn't add any value to your life.

3. Stay out of gossips... It will help maintain your sanity

4. Dedicate your to service for God bcox this life na vanity



My love, you have abandoned me. Not even a whatsapp msg.. As I no dey akwa ibom again, u Don forget me..

So he should pack all and give you?.
He has the capital, he bears the cost of running the business and even pays other staff too. You want all.

That we are all just pencils in the hand of the creator...

One minute we are breathing, the next we are gone...

From 25th December till date, many who also had dreams and aspirations towards next yr are not more with it..

1. Don't stay broke for too long

Too many to list

obembet:
Difficult times often reveal a version of ourselves which we never knew existed.

Although we may be forced to embrace the situation we are in because there is no better choice, it usually proves to be a true test of the strength of our character.

Hard times could be tough and frustrating. Sometimes we lose hope and are uncertain of what the future holds.

Going through repeated failures could force you to look at life differently and question your choices.

Nevertheless, life is a great reminder that there are so many things we have no control over, no matter how hard we try.

In the words of Isabelle Allende, “we all have unsuspected reserve of strength inside us that emerges when life puts us to test.”

according to Obembe Tosin, No one wants to go through tough times. Many people don’t even like to say it when they do.

Finally, If you are going to succeed in life, you have to learn life's most important lessons.

Source: obembe Tosin

1) Trust no one, trust only God, not because all humans are bad but because all humans are susceptible to different factors.

2) I have learnt to become stingy, no more mirthless giving and waste ( all those abeg urgent 10k, 50k no more, humans dey fk up too much)

3) also, i have learnt that na only God get power o....no other.

4) i have learnt that anybody can die, both good and bad....so na just to dey do good and stay right with God

Anyone can die anytime
Family is not indeed family
Be less charitable. Only give to those who will give to you.
Time is your greatest enemy

I learnt that everything you ever wanted is sitting on the other side of fear . Take the risk , take action and you’d be amazed at what you’d been missing out on all the while you sat on the fence .

Wishing everyone an amazing 2023. �

kowema:


So he should pack all and give you?.
He has the capital, he bears the cost of running the business and even pays other staff too. You want all.

U didn't read enough...

Read the condition of the job


Don't quote me again if you can't read

That being an urchin is the hardness job on earth.
So after Tomorrow I will drop my zombiesm and become Obidient.

1. Always seek divine directions.

2. Some friends are wolves in sheep clothing.

3. Invest money wisely or else it will fly.

4. It's one thing to work hard, it's another to be blessed.

Talk less and do more

Life continues

This year 2022 thought me alot of lessions. Some of are as follows:

1. Man will disappoint u when u need them most.
2 When u hit a dead end (go broke), ur wife will stay and help u, if she loves u.
3. God will not disappoint u because he does not fail.
4. Keep a small circle of friends with like mind.
5. Don't be proud, humility is key.
6. Watch who u give ur money to, most are wicked/diabolic human beings.
7. Legit money does not guarantee peace of mind, but a good wife, family and God Almighty brings peace of mind.
8. Never break down ur old bad looking family house built by ur grandparents to rebuild without seeking the face of God first. Ur finances will be destroyed if there is an evil foundational convenant in place in that family.
9. Never buy a house/land without prayers, seek the face of God first because of the same reason above.
10. That God exist and evils forces too exist after I had an encounter with them in person.
11. Genuine repentance through Jesus Christ is the key to salvation and protection from evil forces.
12. Talk less and do more. Some of ur friends are possessed without knowing while some know. The familiar spirits inside of them annuls ur plans once u tell them ur plans.
13. Avoid discoursing ur plans at a 3 road junction, 4 or 5 road junction. Evil lurk there and awaits information and instructions from humans/spirits inorder to carry out destruction.

Becarefull for nothing!!! A word is enough for the wise!! May God Almighty see us through to the new year in Jesus name amen.
Repent and be saved today. Heaven and hell is real. God bless u all.

1. Don't force people to love you, just work and improve yourself and the rest will become history.
2. Often times, difficult time(moment) always usher one in to good times.
3. One with God is majority.
4. Pray, work and hustle hard and smart.




5. This is the most important, try to send something to your parents at least once in a while, i.e take good care of them.


If you do all these, there is no way you won't succeed in whatever you do, especially no 4 and 5.

There are two types of people, the Manipulators and the Principled People. Avoid Manipulators at all cost unless it is beyond Ur power..

When you're delivered from anger you will reason and listen better.

obembet:
Difficult times often reveal a version of ourselves which we never knew existed.

Although we may be forced to embrace the situation we are in because there is no better choice, it usually proves to be a true test of the strength of our character.

Hard times could be tough and frustrating. Sometimes we lose hope and are uncertain of what the future holds.

Going through repeated failures could force you to look at life differently and question your choices.

Nevertheless, life is a great reminder that there are so many things we have no control over, no matter how hard we try.

In the words of Isabelle Allende, “we all have unsuspected reserve of strength inside us that emerges when life puts us to test.”

according to Obembe Tosin, No one wants to go through tough times. Many people don’t even like to say it when they do.

Finally, If you are going to succeed in life, you have to learn life's most important lessons.

Source: obembe Tosin

My most important lessons are:
1. Accept, believe and Trust in the Lord
2. Be thankful to God and to man always
3. Always ask all things from God
4. Work hard while believing in God
5. Serve your God and keep praising Him
6. Respect and care for others
7. Invest in properties
8. Give to God and to man
9. Be cheerful always
10. Avoid toxic relationships

Trust no one.

And live life now. Not tomorrow!

A Broke man has No friends!

Choose your friends wisely especially when you finally secure the Bag! Lots of parasites out there.

You can need your savings anytime....so always save

obembet:
Difficult times often reveal a version of ourselves which we never knew existed.

Although we may be forced to embrace the situation we are in because there is no better choice, it usually proves to be a true test of the strength of our character.

Hard times could be tough and frustrating. Sometimes we lose hope and are uncertain of what the future holds.

Going through repeated failures could force you to look at life differently and question your choices.

Nevertheless, life is a great reminder that there are so many things we have no control over, no matter how hard we try.

In the words of Isabelle Allende, “we all have unsuspected reserve of strength inside us that emerges when life puts us to test.”

according to Obembe Tosin, No one wants to go through tough times. Many people don’t even like to say it when they do.

Finally, If you are going to succeed in life, you have to learn life's most important lessons.

Source: obembe Tosin

I learnt that nothing good comes easy(Leo Messi a good example)...we just have to keep serving God and trusting the process

Be at peace with God

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_OCqQ94Oeo

God first in everything.
Take nothing personal.
You don't need to proof yourself to anyone, just work hard and be yourself.
No matter what happens life continues.
Lastly, put your hope on God

1: limit the people you tell your plans cause most people don't want you to succeed past them.
2: Disassociate yourself From people with meaningless and unproductive talks.Show me Yur friend, I'll tell you who you are.
3: Your next productive move should be kept private.

Don't allow your children to browse Nairaland.com, especially politics section. Block the site if you want them to be loving and tolerant to all human beings irrespective of religion, race, ethnicity, gender or class

1 Invest in people that invest in you.
2 Associate with easy people (for your mental health).
3 Avoid manipulators, they are of no use.
4 Have a plan financially (save)
5 Give, no matter how little, be it financially or non financially.

Co better loud

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Things we have learnt from this outgoing beautiful year,
The best year of our lives at [/b] so far...

Hug your loved ones like it might be the last time you see them.

Most of your friends aren’t really your friends.

Attach your definition of success to things that are within your control.

[b]And most importantly and overall ,

Your entire life can change with one year of focused daily effort.

(It happened to us, it could happen to you too, with hardwork along with God's favour and blessings all over you).

Happy New Year in advance Y'all!

Big message here

Hug your loved ones like it might be the last time you see them.

What I’ve learnt so far are
1. virtually all Nigeria girls are hoès
2. Savings is very very important. What you save today will save you tomorrow- save in dollars if possible .
3. Take care of your parents , if you do this, nature has its way of rewarding you .
4. Help your friends in need, not to your own detriment though .
5. A man is respected according to his pocket size.
6. With money, you can virtually get away with anything
7. Don’t disclose your finance to anyone no matter the level of closeness.
8. Act broke among your peers, infact ensure you only portray 10% of your worth
9. Practice delay gratifications
10. In cryptocurrency, knowledge is superior to capital .
11. As a man , within the age bracket 20-30, please and please making money should your topmost priority.

12. Don’t invest in what you have zero knowledge on, if you don’t know what to do with your money , use pigvest safelock for a year until u decide on what to do with money .
13. Take care of your health, and always reward yourself for every goal achieved.
14. Set realistic goals. I know nothing is impossible, but then setting realistic goals won’t put you under unnecessary stress.
15. As a young hustling guy , regardless of the perspective you see it, taking a girl as a priority will get you burnt. In fact, love hurts, the bitterness derived from love is more than enjoyment .
16. Investment is important , especially real estate.
17. Cutting down unnecessary expenses and saying NO most of the time will help your finance in a long run.
18. I am not being misogynistic, but trust me, 90% of time , treating women as trash( not giving a damn, ) will
a. Make her obsessive about you
b. Give you edge and emotional control
c. Ensure your respect . Although, this will work on woman that has interest in you in the first palace , and even if she doesn’t have interest in you , your respect will be there,
19. Don’t look down on fellow men. Trust me, 2 seconds story fit change o. Respect everyone and don’t hold grudges
20. Although family is everything , but regardless, ensure you set boundary for every one..

Adeling:
Have few friends (it saves you a lot of headache)

Never succumb to a girls drama. If they give you drama, you avoid them... Sin stress!

Show your mom more love than any girl In your life (except your daughter)

Talk less. Listen more

Finally, do not aim too high (I can't stress this enough), because you end up aiming too low without the right plan and determination.

Show your mom more love than any girl In your life (except your daughter)


I disagree. u stay with your wife for life. Show both same love