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[quote author=Naijaisshitho post=118208885]Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Na u be ur own problem, money way suppose take chop up get body, u carry am dey give woman, u dey encourage dem to get body u niI

Precious oooo oooo all I know ,all I know oo, loving you is a losing game

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

bro, girls wey like your type plenty, they call your type small but mighty... you just need to be a rascal, to overcome ds start by drinking alcoholic drinks like origin bitters

3verblazing:
Apply pressure every girl has a price. Try sending like 200k if that doesn't work try 2milli. Trust me she go fall.

For wetin, is he her father, this is a very foolish advice, this is the reason why a lot of girls keep billing men. Don't use money to woo any girl if she likes you she will stay.

zumbigbo:
Bros, no wahala. Spray scent wella, look extravagant, tell them you are not interested in women but like hanging out with them.

After short time, their brains will be telling them to test you out of adventure. When they let you in, straff them wella

Bad boi

3verblazing:
Apply pressure every girl has a price. Try sending like 200k if that doesn't work try 2milli. Trust me she go fall.

or better still make him use himself do money rituals for the girl
You go fear advice

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

Wrong move to try to buy your way into a woman’s heart
I can tell you what’s wrong and how to go about it privately
Most women look down on the average man
You for collect your money from the ingrate o
Once a woman no longer respects you just forget it o ti lo

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

Money you suppose use give your father or mother.
Money you suppose for gym
Money you suppose use buy protein supplements as you for gym

And in 4-5 months you go grab.
Guy, uma ukpai, Adeboye, Kumuyi, Oyedepo, Ibiyeomie, All suppose carry you go Late bishop Benson idahosa grave and the annointing and draw down the host of heaven for your sake to deliver you from this stupidity.
Chai!

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

35kg is slightly more than half bag of rice. Women that are 52" tall weigh more than 35kg. I find it hard to believe that is your true weight. How tall are you ? If you can post a pix of yourself without showing your face, we can analyze better.

Mumu

@OP Try to eat well.. stop sending money to Precious, use the money to eat good food instead and include plenty eggs in your diet. See a nutritionist if you must and give yourself rest of mind.

You should consider keeping beards and wear nice outfits with confam shoes and accessories, women will chase you tire.. na man you be o!

Bro, nobody is looking down on you; you are the one looking down on yourself. Moreover, you want to use money to force yourself on a lady who doesn't like or want you.

Although everyone is aware that most of our ladies are money-hungry, we need to tell you the truth—the way you are acting makes you appear weak and foolish.

35kg?! How tall are you??

Do you have some kind of disability?

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

oga focus on your business and make more money so that you will marry and be free of getting hiv! God de safe u! Thank God!

optm:
Your problem isn't your stature but you are lacking self-esteem.A love that you try to buy with money, you'll never finish paying for it. First of all, that girl isn't worth it, cut ties with her. She's gonna ruin you. What are you giving her money for? For being a girl, so she's entitled to your money? That's foolishness. Go read self development books first and watch videos to help you build a healthy self esteem else you'll keep begging girls and none would take you serious. All the best

Guy, I like your talk. Chief, as the babe talk that sense; Simple. Even if e cause you heart ache. Block her. Don't chat or engage with her again. Period (maybe you people meet on the road and she asks, simply tell her she said you two can walk together and you have nothing against that. So you moved on).
Chief, please do not go through the friend route for any lady. Straight-forward ask them out (no say you go package yourself well before attempting this and I hope you know how to ask them out). I can't really say but you have to realize, spending does not help issues, and expand your moving scope, you can find ladies in the church, at events - birthdays, parties, clubs, societies, association etc... And hope you are not having issues of konji, because getting a gf doesnt really cure it totally. Enuf said, i wish you luck

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

Gym time

Protein time

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

I will not abuse you because of your ignorance. However, you need this. Read every single writing on the thread and get yourself liberated from emotional slavery.


https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6096237/red-truth

My guy , Father Xmas, you are not really in love with these girl, may be her boobs or her bum bum is what is teasing you and you have imagine it severely......my advice for you look for another 20k and go to Ashawo quarter for 10k till day break look for ashawo that have similar things you ire in that useless girl in day one. Day 2 look for another ashawo of 10k till day break of your choice......after these 2 encounters you will be ok

Naijaisshitho:


calm down I love the girl seriously

you are a very stupid man

CivilEngineer90:
she no go send na trick

the guy is very stupid. I once took a girl to dinner. We had sex and then she started misbehaving. I talked her down and she said is it because she had sex with me and i also said is it because i spent on her, she became angry and said she would refund me. I said if she does not she is a bastard. She sent the money to a friend of mine and that one was confused. He came to tell me the girl angrily sent him money to give me. She sent excess sef cos she wanted to prove she is rich. I sent her change back to her after removing the amount i felt i spent on her. It was a funny experience.

Make I hear say she send back the money, na so dem sabi run mouth.

Send your and see dribbling

Build your esteem.

Skullano:
Sorry to say this brother but idi stupid..

Very stupid u mean.

Worriedguy6699:


They are Very wicked and ruthless species when it comes to selecting a mate

Na so one tell me if not that in the program we attended they asked us to network, will i ever dream of walking up to her and telling her i like her� They are just too fool of themselves

If you are a 32 year old adult male and you only weigh 35kg, romantic relationships should be the least of your worries. You might actually be seriously unhealthy.

You people should stop calling him a simp please. @poster, I think you have low self esteem based on how you look. You need to be comfortable and confident about yourself as a person. You are a human being. Acknowledge yourself and what you've been able to achieve. Even your failures, acknowledge. They're part of who you are. Tell yourself you're worth it.

Secondly, get into body building. Get enrolled in a gym. See a Nutritionist. If possible, see a Therapist to help you through this path. In her recent post, Tosin on Moneyafrica (Instagram) literally talked about what we should spend money on in this new year. Things that help improve our lives. love-vendor yourself. Make yourself look and feel good. You deserve it.


Third, focus on self development. Make more money in your business/career or whatever you do.
Trust me, girls will follow.

Pay no mind to negative comments here. Many of them have even done worst things in their ignorance.

I wish you well.

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

Please STOP at this point
U don't deserve those kind of humans
IF you are a genuine Nigerian and you think you would like White Ladies then inform me.
U shouldn't be subjected through all these

U be mumu man, u dey send 200k for Nigeria girl and u never chop

goodman5:
U be mumu man, u dey send 200k for Nigeria girl and u never chop

Honestly I couldn't continue with my meal after reading the lady's chat

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

Stop spending on them.....

zumbigbo:
Bros, no wahala. Spray scent wella, look extravagant, tell them you are not interested in women but like hanging out with them.

After short time, their brains will be telling them to test you out of adventure. When they let you in, straff them wella

the less interest you show the more curious they become

Naijaisshitho:


calm down I love the girl seriously

Sorry to say this, you b mumu