NewStats: 3,264,072 , 8,182,503 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 02:41 PM 4v1m2a

The greatest education a husband can give to his wife is the knowledge and fear of God, no man is smart enough to stop a woman from cheating.. Only God can! Any man or woman that loves and fears God will never cheat. God is the greatest and anyone who doesn't regard of fear him will never regard or fear man... May God come through for you and give you the wisdom to handle this

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

She probably married you because you sent her to school and not for love. Even if the love was initially there, higher institutions are very immoral where youths want to taste life.

I would suggest you first confront her about her cheating. Tell her you suspect she is cheating, that you just have that inkling. Inform her that the day you catch her, that will be the end of the marriage.

The motive here is to get her to stop or better still, create the atmosphere to send her packing. It's like you are cleverly giving her a second chance. Perhaps, invite her family. Do not say you have any evidence. That it is just a hunch.

Why I say you should go this route is because you would have kicked her out already if you wanted to without seeking our advise. You are not so keen on kicking her out though the revelations has truly troubled you.

If she knows you have evidence, she will either beg for forgiveness or change her tactics. What you really, really want is for her to change her ways and be faithful.

You too need to be faithful (Read Hebrews 13:4).. it is double standard and hypocritical for you too to be engaging in adulterous acts and expecting her to put up with it. Perhaps, let her know you too will be faithful.

If she does not change, then do what you have to do.

dontrulee:


You want a man with four hours erection abi?

To whom brain is given.... common sense is expected.

Zonefree:

Oga, in whatever you do in life, never take marital advise from women, especially from nairaland useless women. There's one local hen up there that her moniker started with A, she's one bad looking mf bastàrd that got rejected by her useless husband. Avoid her and her advise.

Shalom.

ahnie, which other name started with A?

ahnie:

This octopus Paul is feeling fly.
This one that cannot attain 3 minutes erection.

How can anyone attain erection for skeleton like you ?

If men could send random people to school, I mean people that are not related to them in anyway, why won't you send your wife to school. You've not done anything wrong, it's unfortunate this has to happen.

But what proof do you have against her ? Are you certain she's cheating on you ? You may want to confront her, your suspicion may not be right.

So let's assume she's actually cheating,
But let's for a moment turn the table around and assume you were the one cheating and was caught in the act red handed.

What would you have her do to you ?

Take your family matter outta here bro, there are too many perfect people here that'll help you damage your home.

alobright17:


How can anyone attain erection for skeleton like you ?

Ri nsi
(Go chop shit)
Decorated mascot

Nextlife1:

We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.

Another simp spotted! i dont know why all these men wont learn.

Chinny024:
Complete the story..How did you find out she's cheating?.... Hope isn't just a mere assumption...Average Nigerian husband sees a married woman having male friends and good colleagues she's close to as cheaters or are cheating..
Till you tell us why,and how ...Else,I won't succumb to ur theory!!!

olosho don drop comment

EmperorTolson:

ahnie, which other name started with A?

He just aptly described his sister...so m not surprised.
Winks

ahnie:

Ri nsi
(Go chop shit)

It is rie nsi.

How can you write it correctly when all you think about is erection.

Nextlife1:

We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.

I'm a dog yo, i give her the dick and bounce continue to dey love brother, you never see anything yet.

Na big risk to send or sponsor any Nigerian girl to school not to talk of your wife.

Reminds me of one of my coursemates, we were very close together (more like brothers and sisters) this girl swore to never cook for any guy but she was always cooking for me. Before she got married in our penultimate year, she was showing me strong greenlight. She even told me about her wedding before she made a general announcement to the class group page. This lady will do crazy things like touching me in intimate places and I'll be like, I'll tell your husband for you ooo. Thankfully, I maintained my ground and didn't push beyond my boundaries. Her husband and I became close friends, her Mum also became my friend too and anytime our classmates then see me together with her,they will be like, you no dey fear, see what you're doing with another person's wife.

In summary, your wife may or may not be loyal. Someone who was not loyal before marriage, how do you expect them to be loyal after marriage! The number of married women calling me Love, baby and darling on my social media everyday is alarming! It's obvious their husbands isn't showing them love in the first place. It's so Sad!

alobright17:


It is rie nsi.

How can you write it correctly when all you think about is erection.

Thanks Dundee!
Grow some brain.
Has any one ever told you ,you share resemblance with Fido dido?
The Pepsi mascot?

ahnie:

To whom brain is given.... common sense is expected.

Just say that you're sex starved! You're an adult, don't be shy.

But there is more to life than sex Sha.

Nextlife1:
Please if you know the best way I can handle this kindly share it with me please.
It's not easy on be.

how did you found out

dontrulee:


Just say that you're sex starved! You're an adult, don't be shy.

But there is more to life than sex Sha.

Not everyone is like your momma.
Winks

MufasaLion:
When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?

Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?

Your heartbreak is about to start!

when love is involve, a man can do anything. but not all men can do it

ahnie:

Thanks Dundee!
Grow some brain.
Has any one ever told you ,you share resemblance with Fido Love Machine?
The Pepsi mascot?

Romance section below belt usual trash. Bring meaningful insult not this. Madam erection.

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

What advice?

Move on.

NEver spend on a lady if you expect her never to leave you.

Vawulence.... Why u come dey mysogynistic like this?

Kollins11:
What stupid advice do you need? Are you normal at all? dey swear for you? What kind of SIMPle breed are you?
I'm always angry when I read stories like this from a married man.

Never you wife a Nigerian liability wh0re. Your wife belongs to the street but una no go hear. I'm sure you saw lots of red flags when you both were dating but you were hoping she would change afterwards.

it's a total disrespect for a married woman to cheat on her husband. A Cheating wife can kill you one day. Thats the truth. Bundle her like firewood and kick her out of your house.

I would rather die than to marry a Nigerian liability wh0re. That gender are all useless... All of them.

alobright17:


Romance section below belt usual trash. Bring meaningful insult not this. Madam erection.

It still doesn't stops you looking like a painted mascot bruv.
Ariaria John wick
I can never termed you a man.i still maintain my stand,as far as nairaland is concerned the people I quoted n listen their names are the only sensible men I have seen here.

Your level of reasoning dey low like fake vibra.tor

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

... you went after beauty...small and ripe,oh she is so beautiful, I will marry her and take care of her education...you think say you smart abi, ? God just start to punish you


Na people like you Asari they call mumu

Zonefree:

So, you get mind go pay bride price for an untrained Nigerian liability?

You still get mind dey send her go school.

After schooling, you'll still establish her.

All these just for procreation

Now, see the result.


To pay bride price for an untrained Nigerian girl is 4th most foolish things on earth!

she is young and beautiful... hahahahha

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

How did you make the discovery?

ahnie:

It still doesn't stops you looking like a painted mascot bruv.
Ariaria John wick

I thought you even have something hard. This is just bellow me. Try hard in your next response.

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

If it's shegé you are seeing now you'll see shegé Bansal
Or shegé Bansa huku

Ladymillion:
so true , including your mother and sisters , TUEH!

You sound so pained.

MufasaLion:
When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?

Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?

Your heartbreak is about to start!

She's his wife oga. Read well not girlfriend.

Nextlife1:

We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.

Oga, I sympathize with you. Ignore all the people calling you simp and yabbing you here because most are either not married, or even so the married ones might have not had the experience you are going through yet. Why do I say this, if you know how many married women are into one poo or the other you will be shocked! The saving grace is that hubbies don't know ie they have not been caught.
I think only you from your personal circumstances know what to do. The decision is yours. Is it something you can make her stop? Is she likely to stop? Can you cope?. If you cannot then you know what to do. JAPA!

Nairaland mods stop recycling these cheap and stale stories nah. They're old, dead and should be long buried. Try something else.