NewStats: 3,261,649 , 8,174,645 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 11:00 PM 72r3y

yusufmurry:


I understand you but 90% of your reason was based on what he has

Smile

DenreleDave:


Perfect example of an Ip0b terro rist

Another wasted sperm.
ur ozuzuwa mumu brothers wil pretend nt seeing u peoples tribalistic comments, even when its nt supposed to be so.

na somethng IGBO go kee una last last

Oizee:
Yes, he is my absolute best, i will choose him over and over again.

HE MUST BE A GUD PROVIDER OR A RICH MAN .

okoroemeka:
I am now married for 23 years and if given the opportunity to choose I will still take my current wife,she is a very beautiful tall,sexy and smart woman that reads human minds like an open book,she gave me beautiful children including twins that are also smart and intelligent rarely falling sick,my wife will not hesitate to tell you the truth whether you like it or not and she has a good heart and capacity to forgive which was sorely needed the year I stupidly fell for her junior sister the last born in their family and got the beautiful seductress witch pregnant,that was the lowest point I could ever desend as a man with my inlaws, but my wife stayed strong with me,she forgived but not without some real drama and tongue lashing.that was very close to be listed in 1000 ways to die.

wait? What? You impregnated her sister? This is not true

yusufmurry:
Men sustain marriages to a very large extent.

If you have money, she will pret3nd to love.

It's not always about money. But your ability to lead as a man. To be an alpha and beta male at the same time. To be a leader and a follower. Women stay with stable, balanced men.

vickydevoka:
She changed her name for you

WHICH KIND MUMU GAIN BE THAT ?

Nijablast:
Honestly speaking, my wife has always acted like my mother. She's the best gift I have ever got. Truly, behind every successfully man, there's a woman.
If I come to this world again, I just want to be with you my GEM .

GOD BLESS THIS UNION MORE

missyblissy:
Marriage is partnership. It is not a master slave relationship where you dictate who does what? You do chores with your spouse in every and anything, and make and take decisions together. Marriage is sweet when you marry your friend and not your boss!!!!!

There are no roles or chores dedicated to the woman or man. If you think this way, you will definitely enjoy your marriage

True! But African men especially Nigerians don't reason like this. The woman is made the beast of burden, and even s financially also, and all some men do is bring money nothing more, yet she's seen as a liability that adds no value.
She changes her name, her body, bares you children all for you, takes care of your home and the house's upkeep financially, and everyway, yet she is not appreciated. The Nigerian man galivants and frolics outside the marriage, lives like a king and subjects the woman to a slave and a nonentity yet he claims it's only women that benefits from marriage.
African/Nigerian men are clowns.

In the real sense, Who should be scared and tired of marriage? Is it not women?

GodHatesJews:
OSU faggin

OZUZUWA PEOPLE A.K.A CHILDREN OF JEALOUSY AND HATE.
EVERY IGBO COMMENT GO THE PAIN UR TRIBE

Penguin2:
Hmmmm

I’m not married and I don’t think I’m ever getting married.

I get easily irritated with women being around me for long.

I’m just comfortable with fvck and go.

Maybe if I ever decide to marry, my wife would be staying in Enugu while I stay in Lagos. I will just be visiting her once in a month and sometimes 2 months.

Anything other than that, I might seek for divorce within one month.

We can all subdue our emotions rather than allow our emotions subdue us. That's the power. Learn tolerance and patience. You can do it

Freshgrace4life:
Not yet married but if I definitely get married to my guy , I will marry him all over again , him just like me with my wahala & naughtiness..

U are the one with that wahala and he is loving u like that and thats why u wil marry him again and again, bt if his wahala comes up then u won't tolerate it.

mtchew

ChocolateWine:


Interesting.

In a rush? Like 6 months or less?

Did you really love her at first?

Y are u being so nosy into people's personal lives?

a0000000z:


Keep her in a place where she'll have neighbors with glorious gbola.

It will help alot

How do you like your thunder?

Boiled or fried?

BigYash:
Na only ladies dey say yes and simps

CNT U KEEP SECRET ?

MyVILLAGEpeople:


It's not advisable to leave your wife Faraway and visit once in awhile. it's better you don't even get married at all, because such marriages will bring bastards!

Maybes I’ll just stay unmarried

GoooodHardDick:


What a very stupid talk!

Who name help? Are you okay? What is she bringing to the table and how does marriage favours a man if not that it is a burden? You're saying she changed her name for you. What kind of stupid careless myopic thinking is this?

BE CALMING DOWN SMALL SMALL.
NA TEENAGER BE THAT

ChocolateWine:


Beautiful take. You're blessed and remain blessed!

Invariably, how can a woman be madly with a man? Is that the meaning of the bolded? Being madly in love with someone doesn't make sense?

A good woman must be madly in love with her husband, but not the other way round. Check most successful marriages , the onus of their success lies with the women. Men are naturally built to be catered and taken care of .

Penguin2:
Hmmmm

I’m not married and I don’t think I’m ever getting married.

I get easily irritated with women being around me for long.

I’m just comfortable with fvck and go.

Maybe if I ever decide to marry, my wife would be staying in Enugu while I stay in Lagos. I will just be visiting her once in a month and sometimes 2 months.

Anything other than that, I might seek for divorce within one month.

To be honest with you bro
U av a spirit wife with you just said
U need urgent deliverance asap

Penguin2:
Hmmmm

I’m not married and I don’t think I’m ever getting married.

I get easily irritated with women being around me for long.

I’m just comfortable with fvck and go.

Maybe if I ever decide to marry, my wife would be staying in Enugu while I stay in Lagos. I will just be visiting her once in a month and sometimes 2 months.

Anything other than that, I might seek for divorce within one month.

To be honest with you bro
U av a spirit wife with wat you just said
U need urgent deliverance asap

nenyewrites:


It's not always about money. But your ability to lead as a man. To be an alpha and better male at the same time. To be a leader and a follower. Women stay with stable, balanced men.

1. Can a man lead without money?
2. Can a be stable without money?
3. Who is a balanced man to woman without money?

Looking for rich lady above the age of 35 or above to marry

If there's one thing I am enjoying in my home is PEACE and HAPPINESS.
We do not have money but we are contended.
Love still exists and so does godly marriages.

Most definitely. He is my best friend

missyblissy:
Marriage is partnership. It is not a master slave relationship where you dictate who does what? You do chores with your spouse in every and anything, and make and take decisions together. Marriage is sweet when you marry your friend and not your boss!!!!!

There are no roles or chores dedicated to the woman or man. If you think this way, you will definitely enjoy your marriage

JUST SHUT UP .
THEIR IS ALWAYS A ROLE AND A DIFFERENCE IN A MARRIAGE.

Sweetplum:
As someone who loves adventure, I d say no.
I ll prefer someone with a different character.

It is the adventure that is causing the problem in your marriage now. Please be contented and stop jumping around in the name of adventure.

Moniya4Real:


It’s a bit long bro, but I summary. She felt I wasn’t making enough to massage her quasi- celebrity lifestyle cos she is close to people in the Yoruba film industry. The fact is I take care of our bills and to be fair to her, she contributed as well. Found out she was sleeping with one Yoruba actor. More painful is that she was not even doing it for money but for other reasons only she knows. She cheated on me as well while I, being a church person and a pastor in my church never cheated on her… I am still healing ever since she on Aug, 21st. She denied me sex as well

My God!!!

I'm Literally now scared of Marriage.

May God help you heal sir and kindly do away with her.

ChocolateWine:

Tell us how you met, how you treated each other and why things are different now.

She was my cousin's best friend, I got to know her through my cousin. We flowed well while dating. She was so simple and down to earth. Although, I noticed a few red flags which I ignored and I was begged by even my mum and I accepted. My mum loved her so much, everyone love her until they get very very close to see some set of bad attitudes. They don't get to see until they are very very close.

And you know, I am sooo close to her, so I see these terrible things almost daily.

Like her naggings, emotional outbursts, (I have never seen her cry. Maybe when my mum died. (she loves my mum).

I see her as one proud and arrogant lady who was not properly trained

Frayoworld:


To be honest with you bro
U av a spirit wife with you just said
U need urgent deliverance asap

I don’t believe in those nonsense.

And what I don’t know don’t know me.

Kelvin3476:
U are the one with that wahala and he is loving u like that and thats why u wil marry him again and again, bt if his wahala comes up then u won't tolerate it.

mtchew

Hahahaha, he also has his own , the fact we are able to tolerate each other , that's what they called maturity, when he's wrong , he apologize, same with me , we don't wait for who to do the apology first ..

Freshgrace4life:
Not yet married but if I definitely get married to my guy , I will marry him all over again , him just like me with my wahala & naughtiness..

Try and change such personality.
Every man wants peace of mind and will really love any woman that can give it to him.
And respect.
You people and your "wahala" is what is discouraging many men from marriage.

Grandmeister:

Same reason I said what makes marriage work is SACRIFICE. I never said it was love, maybe you should have started reading from my first comment.

Here are your words VERBATIM:

What keeps a marriage is SACRIFICE..that is the real name for love. Any love without sacrifice will never stand the test of time no matter how beautiful it looks in the beginning.

PoliteActivist:


Here are your words VERBATIM:

What keeps a marriage is SACRIFICE..that is the real name for love. Any love without sacrifice will never stand the test of time no matter how beautiful it looks in the beginning.

So? How does that invalidate my other comment?