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Should I Bring Him Over To Canada? (41871 Views)
tunapawizzy: 3:44pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
grandstar:I laugh in swahili......swap "oyinbo" with "Nigerian girls". Not always but mostly. |
Re: Should I Bring Him Over To Canada? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Confusedgirlie: .. |
monfizzy(m): 3:45pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Whatever mistakes you make in life please don’t add the mistake of bringing anyone abroad in the name of love. You’ll regret it and you can pin this message for future reference when you’ll recall you were warned.
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Corporate2020: 3:46pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
faithfull18: Anything to get into a girl&s pant is acceptable. That's the game. Hit and run, then get the next victim. |
colestephan86: 3:48pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Confusedgirlie:Really I understand your fears but you know. If you say make you close your eyes as bad people they , while your eyes are closed ,good person fit too. The love and respect you have for one another must supercede anything else |
munachiso58(m): 3:51pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Hopeba:nawa oooo....lol |
Upworkwriter007(f): 3:54pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Confusedgirlie:There are hardened heartbroken ladies on nairaland, so be careful of who you take advise from. BTW, what's the big deal of bringing a guy you love over? I don't get. He didn't take advantage of you when you were earning more than him in Nigeria, so he most likely won't. Honestly, if you love this guy, and you're sure he loves you, then give it a shot. Life is really simple, don't judge your future relationships based on your past experiences and experiences of others. Just use your brain, ensure his feelings are genuine, then bring him over. |
SpyAC(m): 3:54pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Confusedgirlie:if you don't trust him, you can count on me, I will not disappoint you yo |
Upworkwriter007(f): 3:55pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Ladipo35:First time in UK, and it was my fiancee that brought me over. |
InvertedHammer: 3:56pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Confusedgirlie:/ How is this our problem? Don't you have brain to think for yourselves anymore? Do you expect strangers to turn clairvoyant and predict the future for you? Go to the nearest pastor and hand over some cash. I am sure he will predict exactly what you want to hear depending on how you present the story. Lest I forget.. make sure you are wearing an iron pant if the pastor is a Nigerian male. / |
Orlatunday11(m): 3:59pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
I beg you to help him in freewill. Life out here is hard. And please help on a neutral level. If you got any motive or something please let him know right here b4 Thanks as u do |
Helpout12345: 4:04pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Going by your previous posts and this. I can say you don't really love the guy to make this type of sacrifice freely for him. You ed him after you see your low chances of marrying someone already in Canada. And you didn't tell us if you are the one pestering him now about moving to Canada or if he is the one pushing for it. If you are the one pushing him to move to Canada based on your own selfish reason that you couldn't get a Canadian based dude, please abort the mission. It might not end well. For it to work out, you must be genuinely in love with him to freely do such a favor for him and he must be very willing to relocate to Canada, not by you pushing him. |
Re: Should I Bring Him Over To Canada? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Well for you to write this at 4:52 am shows that you are really thinking about it. . . I wish I do have the right answer for you, but I don't , so I would advice you to seek the Lord in Prayers... Because you are about to put yourself in a long term commitment and it won't be good to throw the man out in the cold if things don't go as you plan, make he no go froze.
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BABANGBALI: 4:05pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
chigoziri2403:yes now, you think it's easy for a lady to live in a very cold country without a prick that will always heat her up? |
chigoziri2403(m): 4:05pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
BABANGBALI:So why didn't she take him in the first place He's now an option |
BABANGBALI: 4:07pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Helpout12345:she is not in any love with the guy, he is just an alternative and I'm sure she would kick him out at any time 1 Like |
Re: Should I Bring Him Over To Canada? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Confusedgirlie: Of you love him and you both share the same idear and he is and ready to work, take him in and don't be shy to ask him if he is in relationship now? So that you will not come and tell us later that the man you helped to get to Canada, left you and married another woman. So get all this info. I can help you since he has not left yet. But it's not free oh. |
BABANGBALI: 4:09pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
chigoziri2403:yes, he is now just an option and she knows it 1 Like |
pansophist(m): 4:10pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
skales67: African men are NOT the most sought-after men by caucasian women. Where una de see this lie sef? Ok let me put it another way. If the only thing going on for you is that you are black, or even worse, come big like Mr. Ibu, then sorry is thy name ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
stevups(m): 4:11pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Confusedgirlie:Don't bring him to disgrace him sha |
Helpout12345: 4:12pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
BABANGBALI: I want to believe so too. She said the guy is doing well in Nigeria. I hope the guy has sense too not to jeopardize his career in Nigeria for selfish reason of a woman to move to western country where the woman has more rights than him. |
EgunMogaji2: 4:12pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Abeg let him find his own way there. You’ll be waiting for him. This way there are no expectations. 1 Like |
AllDModsAreMaad: 4:12pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Why did you guys break up in the first place? While you're trying to answer that question, I will suggest you guys start a relationship from the long distance, let the relationship get serious up to getting married level. Chip in the coming together as one i.e marriage topic, at that point being together will come in naturally. Don't rush it to avoid looking or appearing desperate. Note: If your intention is to use him, it won't work, you will fail, but if it is genuine, don't worry it will work out successfully. 1 Like |
vickydevoka(m): 4:14pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Upworkwriter007:Guys the bring gals everyday with plenty heart break. That one never stop guys to the bring gals come. Make nairalanders stop to the make our ladies single. Believe you in me of you are afraid of carrying out anything in life you won't be happy in a long run. Singleness doesn't pay in old age. Getting married abroad is very difficult. Just say now guys don wise. Marrying abroad is 100 times better than coming to 9ja to marry |
Berankis: 4:15pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
DaniWhizbang:What is this one saying? "Why a man will leave his hone for a woman". So if your girlfriend invites you to Canada, you won't go? Except you have something really worth it here. |
chigoziri2403(m): 4:16pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
BABANGBALI:The worst that can happen to a man is being controlled by the emotions of a woman |
Aguiyimba(m): 4:22pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Future is female |
asahnwaKC: 4:22pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Let him bring himself if you say he’s doing well….
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dniceguy1: 4:27pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
hey,the connection is not enough but intension,be careful and make him undergo test here in 9ja to ascertain if he is still worthy of your love
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Shadysen: 4:32pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
Corporate2020:why all this nonsense bashing for huh? |
Upworkwriter007(f): 4:32pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
vickydevoka:I can count a number of ladies that picked their spouse from Nigeria. Two to be precise, and they're both happily married. When people have poor ability to attract good people, they tend to make it a generic problem and not their problem. If you choose right, you'll marry right. |
LilMissFavvy(f): 4:34pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
You better not try it. If it didn't work out when you were here with him, what makes you think it will work out when he comes over? Be friendly where you are, other men will come.
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