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Rosaline5000:

I am surprised this is coming from you, I thought you will be one of those people that says as long as it's his wife and a woman, she is inferior and the husband can use her anyhow.
I am really surprised you know there can be rape in a marriage, so you are not 100% bad.
Ok

My dear me sef shock,this has prove to me that not all nairaland males are actually bad some just want to belong to avoid being called a simp by their fellow men here.

jeromestarks:

There can be rape even in marriage. Check the definition of rape before you come out here to spill nonsense.

Wow!wow! wow!,Mr no virgin no marriage i'm shocked,so you can actually say something like this,you are not so bad afterall,i pray you get the virgin wife you so desire.

virginprincess:
Wow!wow! wow!,Mr no virgin no marriage i'm shocked,so you can actually say something like this,you are not so bad afterall,i pray you get the virgin wife you so desire.

Thanks baby.

jeromestarks:

There can be rape even in marriage. Check the definition of rape before you come out here to spill nonsense.

The Criminal Code and The Penal code do not recognise Marital rape.

You may check the link in my signature to get enlightened

Whoever wants to learn should learn. There's nothing like marital rape in Nigerian Criminal Code. Stop unnecessary argument & research. Google is there to help

dollynnn:


The Criminal Code and The Penal code do not recognise Marital rape.

You may check the link in my signature to get enlightened

Just because it's not in some kinda stupid book doesn't mean it's not plausible.

jeromestarks:

Just because it's not in some kinda stupid book doesn't mean it's not plausible.

Lol

Calm down and learn. No one is saying it's not plausible. However, as it stands now there is nothing like Marital rape under the law. As a result, a husband cannot be prosecuted for raping his wife.

He may be prosecuted for assault where he exerts force on his wife or sexual assault but not RAPE.

Only The Violence Against Persons ( Prohibition) Act recognises Marital rape but it hasn't been domesticated in all the 36 States in Nigeria.

Modified:

Stupid book, you say?

The "stupid" book can make or mar you for life

jeromestarks:

Just because it's not in some kinda stupid book doesn't mean it's not plausible.

The law doesn't recognize rape in marriage. That is the legal position. I careless about plausible positions especially when it is not legally founded.

We are not talking sentiments here; we are talking legalities.

jeromestarks:

There can be rape even in marriage. Check the definition of rape before you come out here to spill nonsense.

The marriage vows are consents already given , more like 'Pre-paid'

Temmylee01:
madam or oga it can be establish.
There's a reason it called rape.
It might sound somehow but if she says no then it's no, as man you too can do your own back. If she has a recording of the husband forcing her to have sex the court will find the husband guilty.

Pls quote which part of our laws establish this offence of rape within marriage.


As a matter of fact, denying your marriage partner sex is enough ground for divorce.

sorry what happened to you but you cant charge your husband for rape but you can charge him for assaults'

Moh247:


Ok I get you

Get which rubbish, you have been correct moh, leave that educated illiterate.
A man slept and film his wife is not a crime, but if you film her too and she takes it to law, it's a crime. But sex with ur wife isn't rape.
Consent was given at marriage instance

Shoodboi:
Reminds me of that time I stole my phone.

Hmmm, I really like this thread and how educative it is.
Rape is a topic to be discussed adequately,
What many don't understand is that, either married or not, as long as the party you're having sexual act with doesn't concent to the act, it can be tagged rape.
Sex is part of marital bliss but when your spouse says "no" but you still go ahead and use force on him/her, that's rape.
Repeated denial doesn't mean you should force her, na one of the whys our forefathers consider multiple wives, if one says no to you, you move to the next one.

Begging for God for a husband but being foolish after marriage....

BusinessPlan22:


Get which rubbish, you have been correct moh, leave that educated illiterate.
A man slept and film his wife is not a crime, but if you film her too and she takes it to law, it's a crime. But sex with ur wife isn't rape.
Consent was given at marriage instance

Rape is very sensitive Na why I had to refrain from engaging her further

Moh247:


Rape is very sensitive Na why I had to refrain from engaging her further

I understand u bro.
I know what u did there

yommyoke:
Hmmm, I really like this thread and how educative it is.
Rape is a topic to be discussed adequately,
What many don't understand is that, either married or not, as long as the party you're having sexual act with doesn't concent to the act, it can be tagged rape.
Sex is part of marital bliss but when your spouse says "no" but you still go ahead and use force on him/her, that's rape.
Repeated denial doesn't mean you should force her, na one of the whys our forefathers consider multiple wives, if one says no to you, you move to the next one.

Marital rape is not recognised under the Nigerian law. Get your facts right!

I don’t think there’s rape in marriage…

Nothing like rape in marriage, Pls correct yourself cause as u agree to marry him, u took a vow u shall open ur leg at his demand. Pls pull down such

techWriter3:
surrender his bride first

price not

Wittyglam:

A lot of people experience rape in marriage but are too ashamed to talk about it.
Have you ever heard about rape in marriage or have you ever experience it.

Sex is something we must talk about before going marriage.

Check this out for more detail.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUYaBqJ0zj4

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jeromestarks:

There can be rape even in marriage. Check the definition of rape before you come out here to spill nonsense.

There is no rape in marriage. If your husband or wife force you to have sex despite the fact that you are tired from work, it is called domestic abuse, not rape.

jeromestarks:

There can be rape even in marriage. Check the definition of rape before you come out here to spill nonsense.

Wrong.

Most legal systems do not recognize marital rape. Nigeria inclusive. The law takes the position that marriage gives rise to consent that endures in perpetuity.

This is something that is changing with advocacy around the world, but for now, it's still a difficult area. The English only changed their Law on this subject a few years ago, for example.

Added to this, there is the immense difficulty of proving that your husband raped you. In most cases it's impossible to satisfy the burden and standard of proof.

After marriage.
Guys make una nor dey marry all this ITK women.
This nor be talk joor why would you refuse your husband sex should be the question.
Useless Nigerian Women Forming rubbish if him take second wife nau una go begin cry.
I go marry you pay bride price, still dey feed u house u yet you go refuse me sex i go throw you out for middle of the night.
Radarada bi obe olorka

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Africans would say why are you not submissive to your husband?