NewStats: 3,261,491 , 8,174,152 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 12:20 PM 4m571

Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

Why going after a woman with 3 kids for two different men already?

Without Problems men are nothing

This life no balance.....and you never try to know why the other one's didn't marry her.

Co to a Bible believing church.


I wonder wetin carry you go meet woman wey dun born 3 already

@Havemercylord

My brother, the thing is very real, it has happened to a very dear friend, that one the lady didn't have a child but had a bad omen around her, if you sleep with her you'll start going down, some men are like that too, when they come close to a lady, good things leave her.

The genesis of all this is that every human being carries an atmosphere around him/her, that determines the outcomes that happens to such person, some may be as a result of careless living other's foundation and some ignorance.

The challenge here is that you've started on a faulty template, however the mercies of God covers a multitude of our misgivings, you'll have to set things right firstly by making sure you don't get intimate and make your lifestyle match scriptures as best as you could, find an authentic man of God will real fire, to pray with you and seek the mind of God on what to do, additionally, if you can start midnight prayers in tongues at least 30minutes everyday, it with a three days strategic dry fast. Believe me that devil will give way and your life will be back to normal.

More importantly you won't be doing this for yourself alone, you'll save the baby and her, else you won't like what you'll see, if you don't concentrate and fan your prayer life with periodic reading of scriptures to know what to do.

japa!!

Mehn, why a lady with 3 kids for different man?
Some guys self eh

A woman wt 3 kids n a marine spirit? The Lord is ur strength,bro.
She's already pregnant for u,fight d battle wt her n see.

Havemercylord:
she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

I regret settling down with a woman with 3kids ooo...

I have gotten the idea...

I will move with speed of light

I have made up my mind, we will communicate while I jappa, when she gives birth, i will do a DNA test and get my child.

I AM FED UP ALREADY!!!

Havemercylord:
I regret settling down with a woman with 3kids ooo...

I have gotten the idea...

I will move with speed of light

Toh what will you do with the pregnancy?

Like I commented on the other guys’s thread yesterday. ( the guy that said he dated s woman from the waters)

I will still repeat what I said to him.

See ehen, marine spirits are very stubborn and extremely difficult to deal with because as long as you are using anything water they can easily monitor and manipulate you. Your best bet is to take that girl for deliverance in a bible believing church or all these OLOKUN people to break the ties she has with the waters.

If you follow the traditional method and the girl Dey fulfil her vows with the waters. She will be very comfortable (financially) but any day you mess up with her she will render you useless because she has deposited a part of you in the waters.

Another place you can get a quick solution to this issue again is CELE church. They will help you solve the problem temporarily but the problem will still be reoccurring one in a while.

@Omihanifa

WE ARE BOTH CELESTIAL.

I WON'T CONTINUE WITH HER SELF. I WILL BE ON MY OWN

Havemercylord:

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

I met a girl in April,2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

There must be many who have had similar experiences but I hope only a few blame their ability to lie to themselves so they don't blame mamiwata like you have done.

Do you seriously expect your life to be the way it was before you all of a sudden had 4 kids? Now hear yourself trying to use mamiwata as the excuse for your long throat!

Do know that your question in this thread is if you should abandon your child.

Quote me when you decide please.

@yussufisrealj

I WILL DO DNA TEST AND THEN ACCEPT THE BABY. CARE FOR HER IN PREGNANCY.

Interesting...
I had wanted 2 condemn u....till i saw dt d girl in question is from "the water"...ND I'm from "the water" too...so we all kinda in d same boat...cus I've been there...or rather I'm there right now...
And yes..."water people" nd their lovers re always stuck wit bad lucks..cus of d fact dt our "water partners" re very jealous nd possesive beings...hence they gonna do everything in their powers to make sure our lives re hells on Earth out of dt belief dt we gonna abandon them if our lives turn out very peaceful ND happy...
Hence....In her case..her spirit hubby gonna make sure he wrecks her life ND dt of her lovers( u in ds case) out of jealousy ND possessiveness... Exactly what my spirit wife is currently doing to me(but I'm seriously fighting her though ND winning d fight)
So if u really love d girl man....then fight d fight wit her...but make sure she's ready ND willing 2 fight her spirit people as well...cus if she's not willing 2 fight them just yet..then I'm sorry bro...but all ur efforts gonna be in vain...
And lastly.. Always dt we "water people" didn't choose 2 belong 2 d water...that d "burden" came 2 us without our consents even b4 we were born...
Shalom...Hope u both win this fight with love..

@budatum

She did not give birth for me, she had her 3 kids for 2 different men.

It's mine, that's in her presently (SHE'S PREGNANT FOR ME)

Havemercylord:
I have made up my mind, we will communicate while I jappa, when she gives birth, i will do a DNA test and get my child.

I AM FED UP ALREADY!!!

Don’t try it. She will reconcile with her fellow and they will team up to deal with you. I know what am telling you.

Go and ask guys that dated core cele girls they will tell you what’s up. Running away won’t change anything because you go still bath with water, drink water, and use water for other things. As long as you are in with water there’s no where to hide.

You need to beg her to go and appease them.

@omihanifa

I understand that she can deal with me, we are both celestial.

She had dated other guys And given birth for them too, yet they're doing well.

@omihanifa

SHE IS READY TO APPEASE HER MATES...
.VERY READY. BUT TO GATHER THE MONEY IS JUST HARD

Havemercylord:
Hello everyone,i am 34 years old and i am here to get honest advice from experienced people.
My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April,2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, i have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that ,most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

Lies!

You giving yourself headache on a whoore that gave birth to 3 kids for 2 different men and now you come give am belle ??


You don’t even sound like someone who is 34.

you are with a woman that already has three children outside marriage , which kain useless men ewe get for this generation

Let her deliver your baby then chase her away.

Why are you knacking someone who has 3 kids for 2 different people with out condom?

You no even pull out!!!

Which kind mumu you be @Op?
Pussy dey sweet you abi?
You never see woman before Ode!!

As in, I wan understand
Your mama born you well, send you to school, dey pray make you become something for this life so that you can take care of am. Another woman wey don chop life finish with 3 testimonials from different schools wan drag you into her suffering.
Well done

God1000:
Why going after a woman with 3 kids already?

I taya ooo...

MyVILLAGEpeople:
You giving yourself headache on a whoore that gave birth to 3 kids for 2 different men and now you come give am belle ??


You don’t even sound like someone who is 34.

Baba I don see forty something year old mumu man before...no be una village people dey do dem..lol

Why get after a woman with 3 children already