NewStats: 3,261,892 , 8,175,480 topics. Date: Friday, 30 May 2025 at 10:34 PM 95h2s

A sign of no True love...

This OP is asking this question because he has no plans to marry her. If he is convinced that she is the one for him, he would not think twice about this matter.

3 months is enough time to know whether you truly love someone and want to continue this relationship down to the Altar...


I see someone that came to EAT AND RUN

And most men behave like this when they see the lady as not adding anything to their life...

One question for the OP...

If na Dangote , Otedola or Governor's daughter that you love ask you to wear the same Asho ebi, would you come to Nairaland to ask for public opinion ... ?

Would you not jump at the offer.... ?

Answer Truthfully and don't deceive yourself.

Like I said, No True Love here.

She sees you as Husband material but you are still wearing your EAT AND RUN cap. If not you will not be here asking this question

That your girlfriend is not getting any younger. That is why she is doing what she is doing.

So let her know as soon as possible your intentions for the relationship. There is no Crime telling her that you don't intend to marry her. So that she can prepare her heart for her missing ribs..


But you may not tell her that because your plan is to EAT, EAT, EAT AND RUN and possibly delay her marital Destiny

You gerrit

"Ladies If your primary objective is to look sexy...
you will only attract guys whose primary objective is to have sex"

So far no carry pictures de tear de delete tomorrow o

okay

There is nothing wrong in in it now if you really love her

Think about this op
What if....

Mariangeles:
The materials she bought could be the aso ebi that most of the guests would be wearing.
Find out before concluding that she might have an ulterior motive.
It could be that she's just being generous.
Men though.

Okay.

Congrats

How old is your girlfriend wey she don dey get niece wey ripe for marriage?

People do not like the truth
They prefer lies

So lie to them
If you want a peaceful life
Agree to go and

you can start your period on the day of the event
You: Babe it's like my period has started early
She: You said .....?

Oga wear na just cloths its change nothing last last everybody go da okay

You're still on the fence, so don't do it.
But, you gotta damn the situationship.

3 months old relationship . Omg
Let her know u r busy. I have never done anko in my life.

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Na set up o

If her niece is getting married, how old is she then? Why would go date someone whose niece is old enough for marriage, na you do yourself o


Lemme equally say that if you don't go to that wedding, it's the beginning of the end of that relationship, which I believe is good for you.

I think is because she is proud to be identified with you.

Guy, No even go the wedding .
Find a good excuse

Zonefree:
Don't fall for that cheap manipulation from her. Na over familiarity dey cause all this nonsense!

You can decide to go for the wedding if you're less busy but don't wear same attire with her. She's just a girlfriend...don't let your girlfriend stops you from finding the love of your life. The love of your life might be in that wedding. Be wise!

Hahaha, this ur comment got me laughing seriously

Sit her down and explain to her... Until you both have met your families and you've both been accepted, it's not ethically and morally right for just the 2 of you to wear the same thing. You can if it's not just the 2 of you wearing that.

She is only excited to show you off to her family.

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

If you love her, and you plan to marry her, I see nothing wrong.

Then tell her clearly how you feel about the whole thing...

This level of desperation among ladies and guys is just beyond me.

Born2winnx:

3months

Don't wear any same cloth with her. Even if the cloth is the uniform for the occasion. No one knows you for there.

My brother, congratulations on your wedding.
You are officially married to a desperate woman who is ready to tie you down by all means including pregnancy

Your friend is heaven- sent.



My one kobo

Seems like she is the only one committed to the relationship here, and you only want to chop and clean mouth.

She is already marking and fencing her territory and property.

Emmanuel909090:



If you love her, and you plan to marry her, I see nothing wrong.

She's his girlfriend, relationship is just 3 months... Loving and marrying are two different things.

She needs to have a word with herself. This stinks of desperation on her part.

Please don't wear it.
She seems to have insecurity issues, and those kinds of people have serious problems.

If they don't destroy you with their wahala, they will destroy themselves, na like this e dey start.
She'll soon graduate.