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BabaJoe001:
Well it shouldn't be a must had it been you think you can take care of your self at old age. Why do we give birth? If you don't want to deceive your self , it's just to give your self companion in old age. Someone to ttake care of you. Catholic priests and buns don't give birth . But they don't suffer at old age. Because the church takes care of them. If you don't wanna give birth , you can adopt.

Open your eyes Nigerian and see the Old men and women, none of the childless, who toil day and night, even in their old age, to make ends meet. Where are the children taking care of them in their old age?

Many of these old folks have children who can barely take care of their own selves or their own issues, so how exactly can they take care of their aged parents when there buckets are also full?

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Catholic priests have an actual retirement plan in place,that is why they are covered and taken better care of in their old age - many times better than a majority with kids since their health bills are also covered.

An actual retirement plan is more reliable than having kids as slaves to serve you in your old age.

I’m here to help any lady that needs gbola/pikin

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Okay, better...

This might look strange but the bitter truth.

I telling one of my senior colleague at work some 4 years ago the same thing, and she told me it's not too late that God will do it.

She was 34 at that time.

Now she's still unmarried and now 38 going to 39.

If she had heed my advice at that time, her child would have been 4 today.

She was doing well, have a car and lives in a good apartment.

Even if you don't want to get married, get pregnant or something, when you are old, when all your friends are making merry with their grandkids and kids, you'll have someone to run and talk to.

Kobojunkie:
Interesting!

You conveniently ignore the majority poor whose children are nowhere to be found all so you can focus on the minority rich? You essentially turn a blind eye to the plight of the majority.

Lol ..... Indeed you be typical Nigerian, no doubts!

Woman stop talking like a dump person now. I even thought u re a reasonable person. See! U re the architect of your life at old age. Those that failed to set their future right but believing that having children is all they needed will have the result they crave for. Or do u want to be like them? We ain't talking about those that will have a child and relax without having a goal or pursuing a fulfilling life

This advise is for those setting their future right and husband is not forth coming, let them get a child anyhow it warrant and keep pursuing their career. Or will u said linda ikeji's son will abandon her at old age, with her achievements on earth? Even if he do, he's still seen as her child and of course she will be capable of employing herself at maid to take care of her at old age. Let that sink.

Hamachi:
True you can AdasLounge18 on telegram to get ypurt own baby mama

how do you do that without a number

tbanty1:
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Woman stop talking like a dump person now. I even thought u re a reasonable person. See! U re the architect of your life at old age. Those that failed to set their future right but believing that having children is all they needed will have the result they crave for. Or do u want to be like them? We ain't talking about those that will have a child and relax without having a goal or pursuing a fulfilling life

2.This advise is for those setting their future right and husband is not forth coming, let them get a child anyhow it warrant and keep pursuing their career. Or will u said linda ikeji's son will abandon her at old age, with her achievements on earth? Even if he do, he's still seen as her child. Let that sink.

1. Now you resort to rambling?

2. Oh, so because you think your Linda ikeji's son will not abandon her in her old age, we should then abandon commonsense to pretend instead that every child raised will follow suit? Why does it seem your brain is stuck in hibernation mode abeg?

Go visit retirement homes run by government and you will find many old people there who were abandoned by their children, at least the few whose pensions were able to afford them a place there.

Lol, on one hand they say it's wrong for a woman to raise a child alone. Children needs a father figure they say. On the other hand, they want them raising them alone. Confused beings.

Dear sisters, if you truly want to get married, close your legs and pray every day for your husband to manifest. God answers prayers. But think deeply if you truly want a husband or children. If you no get strength, no try am o. Cos na big work.

akeeng:
I’m here to help any lady that needs gbola/pikin

am here baby. Let me suck your dick

Olumaeme:
This might look strange but the bitter truth.

I telling one of my senior colleague at work some 4 years ago the same thing, and she told me it's not too late that God will do it.

She was 34 at that time.

Now she's still unmarried and now 38 going to 39.

If she had heed my advice at that time, her child would have been 4 today.

She was doing well, have a car and lives in a good apartment.

Even if you don't want to get married, get pregnant or something, when you are old, when all your friends are making merry with their grandkids and kids, you'll have someone to run and talk to.

your dick wasn't big enough thats why. If not she would have spread her legs for you

Kobojunkie:
1. Now you resort to rambling?

2. Oh, so because you think your Linda ikeji's son will not abandon her in her old age, we should then abandon commonsense to pretend instead that every child raised will follow suit? Why does it seem your brain is stuck in hibernation mode abeg?

Go visit retirement homes run by government and you will find many old people there who were abandoned by their children, at least the few whose pensions were able to afford them a place there.

say that to your daughter bitch or if u ain't married be fucking around, awaiting a destined husband to show, u will melt there. I haven't seen a fulfilling woman/man that regretted having child out of wedlock and I will never see. It's only when they needed assistance from them in term of finance, they can be bothered. Even if they don't come around to look after them at old age, they will be capable of employing maid for themselves. Just calling ur children and hearing their voice is a joy on it own. Have ur money and have your child in peace, let people see who they can point to as ur child.
Yeye.

nenyewrites:
Lol, on one hand they say it's wrong for a woman to raise a child alone. Children needs a father figure they say. On the other hand, they want them raising them alone. Confused beings.

Dear sisters, if you truly want to get married, close your legs and pray every day for your husband to manifest. God answers prayers. But think deeply if you truly want a husband or children. If you no get strength, no try am o. Cos na big work.

i hear you charge five figures and above for sex. My sister time is running out. Ask one of your customers to give you a bastard.

If you know how disrespectful and arrogant 95% if these ladies are in their youthful age, reason l bang their 40year old thick ass and pu**y mercilessly in doggy Position before l got married

tbanty1:
say that to your daughter bitch or if u ain't married be fucking around, awaiting a destined husband to show, u will melt there. I haven't seen a fulfilling woman/man that regretted having child out of wedlock and I will never see. It's only when they needed assistance from them in term of finance, they can be bothered. Even if they don't come around to look after them at old age, they will be capable of employing maid for themselves. Just calling ur children and hearing their voice is a joy on it own. Have ur money and have your child in peace, let people see who they can point to as ur child.
Yeye.

Again....1. Now you resort to rambling?

2. Oh, so because you think your Linda ikeji's son will not abandon her in her old age, we should then abandon commonsense to pretend instead that every child raised will follow suit? Why does it seem your brain is stuck in hibernation mode abeg?

Go visit retirement homes run by government and you will find many old people there who were abandoned by their children, at least the few whose pensions were able to afford them a place there.

okoroemeka:
unfortunately for some of them the advice might be too late there is one living near our farm that want to get pregnant,she needed it so desperately that she has to receive one round almost daily for 3 months to be sure but nothing happened ,I cannot die on top of sterile pvssy I beg, I just gave up,not all trees will bear fruit.

me her number. You must be impotent

Kobojunkie:
Again....1. Now you resort to rambling?

2. Oh, so because you think your Linda ikeji's son will not abandon her in her old age, we should then abandon commonsense to pretend instead that every child raised will follow suit? Why does it seem your brain is stuck in hibernation mode abeg?

Go visit retirement homes run by government and you will find many old people there who were abandoned by their children, at least the few whose pensions were able to afford them a place there.

Those waiting for pensions are yet to be fulfilled. Why will u be waiting for pension to cater for urself at old age? pension shouldn't be seen as retirement plan but should only be an added to what uv acquired. Get a life u hear?

ufotty2001:
oga go and check your sperm.. u may have low sperm count

handjöb or bløwjob?

HardMirror:
lol. But she is right, nothing should stop them from having kids, dont you think so too? But I suspect there is an end game, the game of men are scum but get me pregnant anyway. Lol

THE MOST SUITABLE ADVICE WILL BE FOR WOMEN YOUNGER THAN THAT TO ACTUALLY BE VALUABLE. I BELIEVE THAT MANY YOUNG MEN IN NIGERIA STARTING FROM AGE 19 START DREAMING ABOUT MARRIAGE ESPECIALLY IF THEY EVENTUALLY HIT +50K IN THEIR BANK SUDDENLY. THERE'S NO WOMAN WITH SOME SELF-ESTEEM AND VALUE THAT DOESN'T HAVE A LITANY OF MEN LINING UP TO WIFE HER ASAP. THESE 40+ SINGLES (90%) THAT ARE NOT SINGLE BY CHOICE ARE THE RESULT OF YOU KNOW, I RATHER NOT SAY. SO I STRONGLY BELIEVE OUR PUBLIC SPEAKERS SHOULD WORK MORE ON EDUCATING WOMEN TO TRY TO TAILOR THEIR BEHAVIORS BECAUSE LOOKING AROUND YOU ITS CLEAR THAT ALL THESE PEOPLE ARE DAMAGED GOODS, INSTEAD OF MAKING THEM COMFORTABLE IN MISERY BY SAYING THERE'S NO MARRIAGE IN HEAVEN SO IT'S NOT SO IMPORTANT. SHE SHOULD THROW HER PHONES AND CLOTHES AWAY BECAUSE THOSE THINGS AREN'T IN HEAVEN AS WELL.

Onogiede:
Any lady interested in single guy like me should endeavor to email me,....

is your dick big

tbanty1:
Those waiting for pensions are yet to be fulfilled. Why will u be waiting for pension to cater for urself at old age? pension shouldn't be seen as retirement plan but should only be an added to what uv acquired. Get a life u hear.

The ones who are in those retirement homes are glad it came through for them at least since their children didn't.

There are many retirement options out there, even good savings plans that can help you adequately plan for your retirement so you will be taken care of even without children in the picture.

This one loud and it is true.

CAPSLOCKED:


THE MOST SUITABLE ADVICE WILL BE FOR WOMEN YOUNGER THAN THAT TO ACTUALLY BE VALUABLE. I BELIEVE THAT MANY YOUNG MEN IN NIGERIA STARTING FROM AGE 19 START DREAMING ABOUT MARRIAGE ESPECIALLY IF THEY EVENTUALLY HIT +50K IN THEIR BANK SUDDENLY. THERE'S NO WOMAN WITH SOME SELF-ESTEEM AND VALUE THAT DOESN'T HAVE A LITANY OF MEN LINING UP TO WIFE HER ASAP. THESE 40+ SINGLES (90%) THAT ARE NOT SINGLE BY CHOICE ARE THE RESULT OF YOU KNOW, I RATHER NOT SAY. SO I STRONGLY BELIEVE OUR PUBLIC SPEAKERS SHOULD WORK MORE ON EDUCATING WOMEN TO TRY TO TAILOR THEIR BEHAVIORS BECAUSE LOOKING AROUND YOU ITS CLEAR THAT ALL THESE PEOPLE ARE DAMAGED GOODS, INSTEAD OF MAKING THEM COMFORTABLE IN MISERY BY SAYING THERE'S NO MARRIAGE IN HEAVEN SO IT'S NOT SO IMPORTANT. SHE SHOULD THROW HER PHONES AND CLOTHES AWAY BECAUSE THOSE THINGS AREN'T IN HEAVEN AS WELL.

you convinced me. True

We4all:


Your opinion, your problem. It is already lost in the wilderness.

Your opinion. Your problem.

Kobojunkie:
The ones who are in those retirement homes are glad it came through for them at least since their children didn't.

There are many retirement options out there, even good savings plans that can help you adequately plan for your retirement so you will be taken care of even without children in the picture.

It still doesn't stop u from having ur child, ur DNA oo. Wait, what even assure you that the children u will raise when u get married will look after you, when u get old? This life a misery o, or haven't u seen countless situations like that? See what will be will be. Its only God that giveth child that will be there for someone at old age, it has nothing to do with getting married or not. Let pple see who they can point to as ur child. Leave it for God and let him do his work.

tbanty1:
It still doesn't stop u from having ur child, ur DNA oo. Wait, what even assure you that the children u will raise when u get married will look after you, when u get old? This life a misery o, or haven't u seen countless situations like that? See what will be will be.

2. Its only God that giveth child that will be there for someone at old age, it has nothing to do with getting married or not. Leave it for God and let him do his work.

1. Wow... suddenly his brain wakes up to finally realize what I have been saying all this while?

2. Children are given to both the wicked and ungrateful by the same God so let's not pretend anything special about having of them. The point here again is they are not meant as a replacement for a good retirement plan(savings, investments etc.,). And God said it is against Him to have children outside of wedlock so I am not certain why you suddenly want to drag God down into what again is a foolish suggestion on the part of the OP.

This is my stand, if this advise is okay for you take it and if it is not okay for you leave it. Nothing worth dying for in this life.

Hallabee1:


Aje...



you need slap and if i catch you... you go collect

Auto reset Abi? I'm coming.

Kingozymandias:


Kai incest has ruined this one's reasoning Jesus is Lord ...

Kai sleeping with your own sister ? Jesus save you

u dey read and understand so?

Kingozymandias:


I hope you are not sleeping with your sister. You talk like someone I know who was doing such...incest is a taboo guy

read and understand before your emotion get in the way.

Ade3131:


The goal is to have a child you can call your own and one who will look after you when you age.

Leave modesty aside. When last have you checked on your old parents? Imagine if you or any of your siblings are not there at all to check on them and maybe provide for them. How do you think they'll cope?

In certain circumstances, it makes no sense to be politically correct. Just do anything that's required to have someone to look after you when you get old....

I know you're a man. I'm talking about the ladies sha

but you know you can have a child through many ways? I always check on my parent

DenreleDave:
u r just sayinig rubbish.. no sense at all in all ur sentence

ok.

yuping:
read and understand before your emotion get in the way.

I am going to make it my mission to preach to you and save your soul from damnation and the hell over incest.

Listen my dear .. incest is a vile despicable act, it comes from the kingdom of hell... Don't get sucked in...

I know those of you into it justify that in the Bible Kain and Abel married sisters or some other vague explanation.

Incest is demonic...sex with your own sister is terrible

Stay blessed