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Let me paraphrase this so that it can make more sense. Would you rather be with someone who wishes to be with another person? Because this is the case if you find yourself married to the one you love who does not love you and YES people marry without really wanting to be with the person they are married to.

This may sound so twisted but it is not at all. It is the dream of many people to be with someone they love who also loves them in return but we all know that this is seldom the case as we usually have the feelings tilted in one direction and as they say, the person who loves less in a relationship holds the power over the other.

I have met ladies who i love and i have met those who love me and i can tell you for a fact that these two categories are not in anyway alike.

When you love someone and they don't feel same way, you usually see yourself having to do more of the work to make it work and in most cases, you are taken for granted because the other person cares less if you stay or leave..

But when you are with someone you don't really desire but the person desires you, you will feel very uncomfortable at the beginning but there will be this serenity in your life with so much inner assurance that you are truly cherished and you will feel so alive and loved so much that you will inevitably start developing strong affection for the other person. (The beauty and the Beast is not just a fiction very realistic)

As a man, if you marry a lady who truly loves you, she will submit to you, cherish you, treat you like a king and will never see any reason to be with another man. And in like manner, if a woman marries a man who truly desires her,. he will treat her like a queen and cherish her all the days of his life.

YES i understand how twisted this sounds cos whether you choose the one you love that does not love you or you choose the one who loves you but you do not feel same way, the bottom line is that there is still an imbalance in the affection.

But be it as it may, you can never know how special you are until you meet someone who genuinely desires you and sometimes it is best to leave the one you love to be with the one who loves you because with time, you will realize you made the right decision.

So let us have your opinion.

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N.B: That's why redpillers subscribe to being CHOSEN. It's the best feeling ever. You don't suffer from urgent 2k requests, birthday billings, Pay-my-school fees-naaa scenarios and all that entitlement bullshiit. You, are in control because it's the person who loves less that has the upper hand in the relationship. You enjoy the true benefits of having a woman take care of you,

I have never bought a phone for any girl, never paid for her hair...or her school fees or apartment or given her allowance. Anytime I hear men say they did such to make their girlfriends love them more, I shake my head. These dudes don't know what's up. I have in many occasions even collected the monies given to these girls by their 'hard working ATMs' after having their guts blown out by me. I'm the prize, because I made myself so.

But when we tell men to become the best versions of themselves, they scream 'hustle o, make another man no fuq your wife ooooo'... Forgetting that we fuq their so-called girlfriends too, despite the money they have invested in these girls. Money won't get the girl all the time. Chosen does

There will always be someone who loves or shows that love just a little bit more than the other. I prefer the one I love because it makes it easier to put up with his bs.

Any of them. Except (feminist, gay and a lesbian)

One whose madly in love with me

As a Christian male, please marry the woman you love but be sure she is a woman that can respect and submit to you.

Christian ladies, please marry the man that loves you. But if you don't have respect and can't submit, please stay single.

Damnnn niggar
Marry a woman that loves me more

To all my real niggarz
If you finally decide to change your mind and marry...then please marry the woman that loves you more....he get why...

When a woman loves....she loves for real

And thier sympathetic and empathy hormones will circulate and increase the more
Any little thing they will easily forgive you..they will never mount pressure on you

NwaIgboBoy:

True talk my real nigger slowmirr, but I'm sure you typed this with your right hand on your keyboard while in your left hand is your precious weed.

You must be a real niggar....you are very correct...right hand on keyboard and left hand on my weed anyday anytime twice on Thursday...key board warrior for a reason

Lalasticlala what is your take?

The one that loves me... E be like say d ones weh I dey love, their head no dey everly correct

All of the above. If she loves me but I no love her nko?

If am attracted to the one who loves me more then its a go for me....


I can't marry someone I love but don't love me kamari o

All of the above

Let me use the slang most frustrated Nigerian girls expended "love don baf?", " who love epp?"

Husband! Love your wife
As a man, I'll marry the person I love and will love me in return..

The one who loves me more

One with big yarnsh

None.

Only SIMPS get married.

None don't just like marriage

For me the one who loved you

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The one that loves you, if she loves you, she will go the extra mile ...

Marriage is Manage.
Managing each other, you can never marry your type but your opposite.

The one that love me...


Normally I don't intend to go into marriage becos of love .......

Love is weakness

Just marry who's ready

I prefer the one that loves me more.

the one that i love that loves me back... because, unless love is reciprocal, it is useless in a r/ship.

loving someone that doesnt love you and/or being with someone that loves you but you dont love them....is a doomed r/ship however you wanna look at it.

they marry who is ready









The rest is balderdash

None of the above

I was once in this dilemma

I was pursuing this girl who is forming not yet ready for relationship while there is another giving me all the green light, green light was so bright that we had sex before I even officially toast her

I realized I deserve to be love and simply go for who love me, it make my life very easy as I've never ever regret it

Marry the one who loves God.

None.
Love is not enough for marriage.