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⏩That dude is already chopping♥
your fiancée...

And I suspect she is enjoying his own
your own.....

Sori ☹️☹️☹️

RAGGA40:
Brotherly, if you love yourself cancel that engagement with that girl and end that relationship.
First red flag was her wiping and cutting the call when you arrived which is a foul play here, be in simple English, she is cheating on you, there is a probability of her sleeping with that bestie banker. Use your tongue to count your teeth

Lol. I noticed that in one of the zenith bank branch I patronise. They flirt alot among themselves. I'm even talking the married women

BTW, how did your neighbour handle his heartbreak.

What opinion do you need from us again?

You already know what's going on sir, I really don't know what you want us to tell you; that she is not cheating on you or what?; Come on

Uncle96:
Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ?

Simple

Shukusheka:
Why do sane people still come to Nairaland to ask for relationship advice? I just browsed through the first page, all the comments there are completely stupid and not one was addressing the Op's problem. Such a waste of time.

You didn’t addressed it either.

[quote author=EmptyGarden post=111343613]Goat and Yam. [/quote
] Haha what a short reply with wisdom, if you know you know

Lol... Bros... Dey knacking real time
.. Sorry... Sha dey use condom too... Cos seemz u don't want ti leave dis cheating gf.....
Rule no....1... Tell her to stop following d guy to work... Watch her reaction.. She will complain of transport fare... Wat if d guy no dey nkor....
Oya.... Try dey give her half of her transport fee for the week.... .... But bae will still tell u.. She dey late for work. Or one excuse like dat .... Bros... Stand ur ground... Is either she keep following d guy or she forgrt abt u.... Trp is golden..... Many fish in d river..... Choose wisely... Wen u ready.... Cheers.

Netmuch:
I allow her because then I don't have a car, and like I said ,our residence is very far away to our workplace,I once follow the guy too in his car as he drop both of us at work but most of the time my fiancee follow the guy because the guy always left home very early and the guys place of work is along the same route with my fiancee .it is very difficult to get a bike at our street then that's why I tuned to relax to allow my fiancee to follow her every morning

Then deal with the situation.

Maybe you don't have liver

Uncle96:
Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ?

This sort everything out , why would yiu allow such .... MR man na ya fault

Budegibolu:
YETE

Mention this OP handle. Someone suggested this to him on his cheating fiancée and I think he needs one to track her.

Netmuch:
I allow her because then I don't have a car, and like I said ,our residence is very far away to our workplace,I once follow the guy too in his car as he drop both of us at work but most of the time my fiancee follow the guy because the guy always left home very early and the guys place of work is along the same route with my fiancee .it is very difficult to get a bike at our street then that's why I tuned to relax to allow my fiancee to follow her every morning

Oga yiu have a good heart and mind but the world isn't like that ....

otipoju:


Exactly. Unless you have hard undeniable proof, she will deny and be more careful.

A marrief woman recently ed my married friend that she wants to start sleeping with him because the were old lovers as teenagers. That she will get a second phone dedicated to them and it will be always in her desk at work so the husband will never ever find out.

Blood of Zachariah are you sure? Do you think can be this bold

She is cheating.

Marry her at your own peril.

cc: Netmuch

Pretend like all is well, don't ask her anything concerning that again. Clown her whattsapp and you'll unravel the truth by yourself.

She could be cheating on you. You have to find a means and get the man's phone. You could go to the bar and get him drunk. Quickly read his chats.

Or

put a recorder in his car when escorting your wife to his car.

Make sure no one gets hurt.

iLegendd:
I didn't read, but with the title, I already know she is cheating. Sex with that bestie is even sweeter. She reveals more info to him than to you. Infact, two of them gossip you a lot. They're like partners-in-crime.

The funny thing is, no matter how many million times you accuse her, she'll deny, starts crying and says, "Don't you trust me? I can't believe you don't trust me." My brother, it's part of the game. Speaking as an insider.

Read this post and thank me 20 times later: https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6894605/18-sex-4-lives-secret

You just said it rightly. Tears is one of the manipulative tools of a lady.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

where Una dey meet this set of unserious ladies self , Everything is game to them, my guy better use your head now and do the needful

Oga let go and look for another. But if you are ok with keeping mute over the fact that the guy has chopped your fiancee ....then carry on

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Ofadaman:
I hate to break it to you, but he's fvking her in that car. I used to drop off a lady at work as well, it didn't take time for those late night and early morning commute, conversations and stop by to get food/drinks to turn into something else, even though I know she has a bf who calls every morning and evening. One Friday night while I was driving , she move her hands over to my dick and was stroking it, I had to drive to a dark corner park the car and give her what she wanted. Soon it became a normal thing till I left the job. If she's clearing off chats , making hiding calls etc, she's hiding something and obviously fvking the guy.
Good luck trying to keep a naija girl without money.

I don’t understand your last statement. You can’t keep a Naija girl with money sef.

Memphis357 can see the kind mumu threads wey I dey talk about.

VladimirPutiin:


You just said it rightly. Tears is one of the manipulative tools of a lady.

Innocent facial expression and tears while making you feel bad for not trusting them.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Three things are involved here;
1. It's either she's already cheated on you fully (both emotionally and sexually).

2. Or she's only just cheated on you emotionally.

3. Or she's probably keeping the guy as a backup plan, because she thinks you are not committed enough in the relationship.

The second case is pretty obvious, if not, why would she be hiding their conversations from you. Emotional infidelity usually preceds sexual infidelity.

Conclusion:
If they continue with whatever they have between each other, it will eventually lead to sexual infidelity sooner or later (if that hasn't happened already).

My advice:
1. Tell her clearly and calmly that you are not comfortable with her closeness with the other guy.
2. Take her less serious (I can see you already called your "fiancee", until she takes you serious by INTENTIONALLY breaking that closeness with the guy.

iLegendd:
I didn't read, but with the title, I already know she is cheating. Sex with that bestie is even sweeter. She reveals more info to him than to you. Infact, two of them gossip you a lot. They're like partners-in-crime.

The funny thing is, no matter how many million times you accuse her, she'll deny, starts crying and says, "Don't you trust me? I can't believe you don't trust me." My brother, it's part of the game. Speaking as an insider.

Read this post and thank me 20 times later: https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6894605/18-sex-4-lives-secret

I think it is wrong to be 100% certain over something wey your eye no see or have evidence over, its not as if we know her.
i had a similar experiences (as a bestie aka big head) just like OP the boyfriend now husband was usually furious anytime he sees me in her room,we sleep on same bed,we share food,we were just to close for a boy & gurl... buh the strange truth is me and tomilola never fvcked, she is married with kids now n we are still close on SM, out of respect for her husband i feel its best i avoid seein her @least
I know the chances seem high she is cheating buh however let always leave room for probability, he just needs to catch her cos accusing her is not enough.

Netmuch:
I allow her because then I don't have a car, and like I said ,our residence is very far away to our workplace,I once follow the guy too in his car as he drop both of us at work but most of the time my fiancee follow the guy because the guy always left home very early and the guys place of work is along the same route with my fiancee .it is very difficult to get a bike at our street then that's why I tuned to relax to allow my fiancee to follow her every morning

you no get car, you dey do serious relationship and you dey allow person wey get car dey drive your babe? hahaha. sorry

Bigredmachine:
A man and a woman can't just be friends ...

How many times will they tell you that...

Like charges repel each other and unlike charges attract each other

I disagree.
It takes just 2 principled and disciplined persons to change your CAN'T to CAN.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

She is his office wife and they are fuccccking

Here u go.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9fN1eyKxMac

Enbrain21:


Please which spy app would you suggest?

iLegendd:
Innocent facial expression and tears while making you feel bad for not trusting them.

My Ex babe was very good at this. I will end up saying sorry again. Just imagine how stupid I was then. I never cheated on this babe because I loved her so much, but she was always cheating back to back with different guys. Just imagine how stupid I was to be in a serious relationship with a Lekki based big asss girl. She wanted me to marry her, because she could clearly see that I was a simp. But all thanks to the Redpill I received here. I kicked her out, even though she still want us to be knacking, but I don’t what have anything with her again.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

one of those motherfuckers that hacks FB, WhatsApp and all that shit. You'll find out the truth.

This one go dey trust woman.

otipoju:
A marrief woman recently ed my married friend that she wants to start sleeping with him because the were old lovers as teenagers. That she will get a second phone dedicated to them and it will be always in her desk at work so the husband will never ever find out.

Why some men wicked like this, if you love her marry her; why do you expect exclusivity from a woman without putting a ring on her finger! You are wicked! Live her alone if u will not marry her

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

I wonder why guys are keeping lovers all these stupid materialistic 9ja girls. If you're making money as a guy bros face your work at the weekend go to club wen you're about to leave the club carry babe go hotel smash and pay her off