Ishilove: 11:51am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Shegzdave:
It’s funny considering how she busted herself almost immediately
I've made up my mind to stop commenting on these "I just created this profile to ask for advice" threads. They are all idiots
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Hassanmaye(m): 11:52am On Mar 14, 2022 |
KingDamzzy:
She had the picture of the flag of Japan as her phone screenlock.
No bigger red flag than that.
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lildonn222: 11:52am On Mar 14, 2022 |
''send me recharge card'', after our first phone call.
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Crafteck1: 11:52am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Prechgold1180:
Nice but I do prefer to discuss about obaseki and wike
Do you think obaseki is doing the right thing
All na tif, what affects me immediately is the nepa. And diesel, they are splitting my daily income into 3 spots and taking 2,they will likely finish me befors the 2 gluttons
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Olam09(m): 11:53am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Sonnobax15:
. . And his only mistake was that his small pencil couldn't write anything in the big for nothing black board you call a pot of beans
Are you guilty of small d**ck
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blackgold2018(m): 11:53am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Shegzdave:

Ishilove,
Come and see who you were advising on her thread.
Imagine a mid-teen ooo and she said her brother is caging her..
Seems I’ll get a big padlock to add to the cage
as in erh!
And she really talked like a teen she is.
A foolish one for that matter. No wonder the brother found out her stupidity and vulnerability earlier.
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Charly68: 11:53am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Visited a lady friend and her big sister brought in concubine and we had to excuse them.. knew she would teach my lady friend same attitude from close observation.. I ran for my life .. After she got married she tried calling my line for favour and I said my instincts was right so i blocked her forever
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UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:53am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Crafteck1:
Is it only relationship people talk about here... Everytime man and woman
Go Politics section na.
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Shegzdave: 11:54am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Ishilove:
I've made up my mind to stop commenting on these "I just created this profile to ask for advice". They are all idiots

They should seek for advice elsewhere and stop using someone to catch cruise.
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Olam09(m): 11:54am On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Thazard(m): 11:54am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Sonnobax15:
. . And his only mistake was that his small pencil couldn't write anything in the big for nothing black board you call a pot of beans
Savage
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blackgold2018(m): 11:55am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
[/quote]No wonder your brother is caging you. You really reasoned like a kid you are.
A foolish one for that matter. Your brother found out your stupidity and vulnerability earlier.
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Miyachi: 11:55am On Mar 14, 2022 |
pansophist:
Asked me to book for uber while coming, I did. While at the venue, ate so much and ordered take away, i paid, then asked for a uber ride back home to the island, i paid again. Another meet up, asked me to book uber again, while choosing an expensive location which I'll pay of course.
Mehn, I ghost her instantly. I can't be spending more than the minimum wage per date, I no be thief na. Watching as debit sms keeps entering my phone almost gave me heart attack. I don't like that feeling.
Lol. It's the heart attack part for me.
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Shegzdave: 11:55am On Mar 14, 2022 |
blackgold2018:
as in erh!
And she really talked like a teen she is.
A foolish one for that matter. No wonder the brother found out her stupidity and vulnerability earlier.
You’re right 
The only funny thing is how she shot herself in the foot almost immediately
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Karleb(m): 11:55am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Beedude:
Met online, claimed to be a big girl. Came with a Lexus on first date. I ordered something of 3k but she order 15k. I paid and we move.
2 days later, she made a disress call that she forgot her ATM at home while going to work and she already filled up her car with fuel of 13k in the station. So i should bail her out with 15k. She wanted to send the fuel attendant . I told her bluntly, why cant u do the transfer from your own since you only forgot your cards and not your phones.
She hissed and hung up immediately.
I helped her by blocking her on every platform she can reach me on.
Some ladies are just mad
Tinder swindler!
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Kobojunkiee: 11:57am On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Prechgold1180(m): 11:59am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Crafteck1:
All na tif, what affects me immediately is the nepa. And diesel, they are splitting my daily income into 3 spots and taking 2,they will likely finish me befors the 2 gluttons
Omo I don’t have to deal with much fuel
I have constant electricity 20 hours a day should be called constant
Some days we get 20 hours a days why some day we get 24 hours
We only go out of light when the transformer is faulty
But it doesn’t exceed one day
Asin I am shocked
Somewhere in Edo state
Thou things here are expensive but we Dey manage
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Atticusxsz(m): 12:01pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
GlowDee:
Lol.. Not with an Ogoni or Eleme girl. You want make dem blow your destiny like powder.
Tell dem o, e be like say dem no love their destiny again.
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F22RAPTOR(m): 12:01pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
lol...this midteen girl again. I like you, but I Will report to your brother. Lol
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GooodHardDick: 12:04pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
You well so?
So a simp guy should go and buy anything he sees without pricing just because he wants to impress a girl? What happened to your hands abeg? Why couldn't you pay the money instead, since you're not OK with the over pricing? 
Behave yourself here on Nairaland!! We don't tolerate girls with entitlement mentality!
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Wuppdex: 12:07pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
And Tasla ? you fit each other �
moralex:
meet someone like that too, doesn't know who Elon musk is and Tasla
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Ebubu: 12:07pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Ebubu: 12:07pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.
I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.
The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come
My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend
After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.
I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.
I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.
I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.
The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.
NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.
I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.
Foolish olosho
na man you be
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naturefellow(m): 12:10pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.
I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.
The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come
My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend
After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.
I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.
I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.
I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.
The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.
NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.
I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station
Foolish olosho
you guys get yourself into this mess always. You often fail to define a relationship from the onset, and pour all your finances into women who you are yet to commit to just to win their hearts.
And at the end of the day, you're taken for an ATM/fool while they look the other way for better options.
All the investment you made on her, would you do only a 10th for your gender
Stop blaming women for your foolishness. Wise up comrades!
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Olayetan(m): 12:10pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
Small girl, you will understand that better when you grow up and start working for money.
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klashe(m): 12:10pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
"Nobody can make me do what I don't want"
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HenryWilliams(m): 12:12pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
mybiz234:
It is cotton ball, not cotton board
It's actually cotton bud..
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bigcee(m): 12:12pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Beedude:
Met online, claimed to be a big girl. Came with a Lexus on first date. I ordered something of 3k but she order 15k. I paid and we move.
2 days later, she made a disress call that she forgot her ATM at home while going to work and she already filled up her car with fuel of 13k in the station. So i should bail her out with 15k. She wanted to send the fuel attendant . I told her bluntly, why cant u do the transfer from your own since you only forgot your cards and not your phones.
She hissed and hung up immediately.
I helped her by blocking her on every platform she can reach me on.
Some ladies are just mad
Correct guy
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Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Ebubu:
might we be friends
on nairaland only. No pm , nothing outside this forum.
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irijuola: 12:13pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Wittyduchess:
I'm ok.
To top it all he was a narcissist and a chronic gaslighter.If not that I was aware of the antics of such people I would have been sucked up into a dark hole.
I encountered one recently, his gaslighting skill is top-notch. I've been enduring him but I decided to let him go before he starts to get to me. I warned him about it some time ago and he responded with, "whatever makes you happy". He never stopped. I had to leave before I fall under his gaslighting manipulations. I blocked him everywhere. I saw him yesterday and he was snubbing me. I just ignored him. Good riddance!
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Ebubu: 12:13pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Wittyduchess:
on nairaland only. No pm , nothing outside this forum.
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TruthnLight: 12:14pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
His small pencil couldn't rewrite the history of all the gigantic mugunda that have written through the borehole you call puna
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