NewStats: 3,262,736 , 8,178,000 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 12:03 PM 3j2z72

I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook , I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank . If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son .
He monitors my calls and list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

That is not care that is stupidity from your brother,if you are above 13 why then Is he treating you like a kid.
Tell him you despise that attitude,if he doesn't agree with you then leave his house and go get elsewhere to begin your own life.

He loves you deeply,when you come of age you’ll understand better.Hope you’ve not started following boys?

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook , I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank . If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son .
He monitors my calls and list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Enjoy his attention and protection while it lasts... You'll soon outgrow it and by then, you'll appreciate all that he has saved you from.

Your age please

Iyaebe:
He loves you deeply,when you come of age you’ll understand better.Hope you’ve not started following girls?

What kind of disgusting love is that,the guy is probably caged and unable to do what he wants.
You call that love?

You are even talking about following girls, what's wrong with that?

Comradewhy:

What kind of disgusting love is that,the guy is probably caged and unable to do what he wants.
You call that love?

You are even talking about following girls, what's wrong with that?

He understands what young boys of these days are up to hence the over protection.Everything is wrong if he has started following girls at his age

Iyaebe:
He loves you deeply,when you come of age you’ll understand better.Hope you’ve not started following girls?

I am a girl, ma

dawnomike:
Enjoy his attention and protection while it lasts... You'll soon outgrow it and by then, you'll appreciate all that he has saved you from.

My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me.

Atimjessy:

I am a girl, ma

ok fine,he’s just been overly protective and I understand your situation because I myself grew up in the midst of four elder brothers that won’t even let me go out alone or social media,not talk of having Male friends but I’m a big girl now and I now have a better understanding of their overprotective habits,it’s all love and no one will ever love you like your blood.So calm down,it’s a phase that’ll

Iyaebe:
He understands what young boys of these days are up to hence the over protection.Everything is wrong if he has started following girls at his age

Makes absolutely no sense,even to the extent of not using having WhatsApp or social media,the op is between 15-17 at least she deserves some freedom.
The op is even a female,why the attitude towards her by her brother.

Atimjessy:

My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me.

Ignore your friends calling you small girl,they will later envy you when they have tasted all the forbidden things and now feel worthless

Atim eyen efik. How old are you. Let's begin from there.

Comradewhy:

Makes absolutely no sense,even to the extent of not using having WhatsApp or social media,the op is between 15-17 at least she deserves some freedom.
The op is even a female,why the attitude towards her by her brother.

Social media is the root of all evil,it is where young people learn all sorts of rubbish from.I was eavesdropping on my brothers conversations about oxlade rubbish and they think I have no clue not knowing I’ve watched it on nairaland.Anything I know today I learnt them from social media,so I understand his brother very well

Iyaebe:
Social media is the root of all evil,it is where young people learn all sorts of rubbish from.I was eavesdropping on my brothers conversations about oxlade rubbish and they think I have no clue not knowing I’ve watched it on nairaland.Anything I know today I learnt them from social media,so I understand his brother very well

So now you think the op won't device another means to access social media,the best thing is to treat her like a sister.
Now she will start looking for means to get what her brother refuse to provide for her.

Age matters what is your age

U are probably no more than 15 or 16. He has good reasons for doing what he is doing. It's not always the best method but this world get as e be.

This won't sink in now but I will say it Nontheless. Don't envy your friends, don't copy them, follow the advise of reasonable elders, listen to your brother, he cares. Much later you will understand better

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook , I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank . If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son .
He monitors my calls and list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Holly Gram E b like say dat ur broda 1 COLLECT serious BLASTING from my old KALA..


E b like sey EM left leg don TIRE am to use WALKER..



waiting u go do b sey.. FIND better RAW WEED and put INSIDE em FOOD... u go SEE how EM go change to Mr Nice Guy to u... EM go de smile anytime u SEE am..



OR



I FIT STILL LOCK am UP INSIDE 1 of my WEED BUNK for 2months, Na only RAW WEED EM go de CHOP inside my WEED BUNK...


I SWEAR DOWN


E No go REACH 3days EM go become MAD MAN!



just try d 1st ADVISE... PUT better STRONG RAW WEED inside EM FOOD..



LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN!

Atimjessy:

My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me.

How old are you first? Let's start from there

talk to him and see reason behind all this, a hi l at your age should have atleast simple phone for social media and bank .
But girls your age have abuse this things, so if your brother guiding you or afraid of trusting with use of this things you should talk to him about the ways you are going to be making use of it and how it will be of beneficial to him also when you have it.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram E b like say dat ur broda 1 COLLECT serious BLASTING from my old KALA..


E b like sey EM left leg don TIRE am to use WALKER..



waiting u go do b sey.. FIND better RAW WEED and put INSIDE em FOOD... u go SEE how EM go change to Mr Nice Guy to u... EM go de smile anytime u SEE am..



OR



I FIT STILL LOCK am UP INSIDE 1 of my WEED BUNK for 2months, Na only RAW WEED EM go de CHOP inside my WEED BUNK...


I SWEAR DOWN


E No go REACH 3days EM go become MAD MAN!



just try d 1st ADVISE... PUT better STRONG RAW WEED inside EM FOOD..



LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN!

At least dey try make sense once in a while

He doesn't want to start taking care of you and pregnancy. Don't worry, you won't stay with him forever. That thing you'd love to taste, you will have plenty of time to taste it later when you are out of his house. I've never put on the tv and heard: "Obituary! We regret to announce the death of a young girl whose elder brother refused to let her access Facebook...." But, the opposite holds true for those ladies who are left to themselves. I will reiterate, girls require constant monitoring, lest they harm themselves and everyone else by their nature.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram E b like say dat ur broda 1 COLLECT serious BLASTING from my old KALA..


E b like sey EM left leg don TIRE am to use WALKER..



waiting u go do b sey.. FIND better RAW WEED and put INSIDE em FOOD... u go SEE how EM go change to Mr Nice Guy to u... EM go de smile anytime u SEE am..



OR



I FIT STILL LOCK am UP INSIDE 1 of my WEED BUNK for 2months, Na only RAW WEED EM go de CHOP inside my WEED BUNK...


I SWEAR DOWN


E No go REACH 3days EM go become MAD MAN!



just try d 1st ADVISE... PUT better STRONG RAW WEED inside EM FOOD..



LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN!

I think her brother is trying to save her from people like you

Iyaebe:
ok fine,he’s just been overly protective and I understand your situation because I myself grew up in the midst of four elder brothers that won’t even let me go out alone or social media,not talk of having Male friends but I’m a big girl now and I now have a better understanding of their overprotective habits,it’s all love and no one will ever love you like your blood.So calm down,it’s a phase that’ll

you are totally right but the fact that this girl is already on Nairaland

kushercain:


At least dey try make sense once in a while

Holly Gram


MY Gee how u take know...



SEE no be say I knw make SENSE or fine..


I be fine GUY and I make SENSE..


JUST dat 2much SMOKING of WEED don make my LIPS BLACK...


Even d MAMA CHINELO wey de SELL d WEED, she save my as HELL FIRE...



BUT I believe by using VASELINE on my LIPS after SMOKING WEED will do ALOTA help ..



LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

He is protecting you from those sharp guys in your area before they'll go and ruin your future for you.

Run away from home jare. hookup group. You will be fine.

seanwilliam:
Run away from home jare. hookup group. You will be fine.

You are just a pervert

flokii:
He is protecting you from those sharp guys in your area before they'll go and ruin your future for you.

I know what I want. No one can ruin my live. You men always think girls can't take care of themselves.

He loves you. That's the kind of love young people need now; tough love. He is not your friend or one of your mates, he is not there to make you happy but to guide you. Since you are with him currently, he represents your parents right now.

I wish more parents are like him. If they were,most of these girls killed for rituals would still be alive today.

Like someone said above, this phase shall

Shey na your brother go marry you?

seanwilliam:
Run away from home jare. hookup group. You will be fine.

see as you dey make this teenager dey insult you.