NewStats: 3,259,730 , 8,170,731 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 07:57 PM 2fv14

phenzy:
That bad boy get better hand writing

I dey tell you. Like say na computer type ahm

underpinna:
My little sister has a boyfriend who writes her love letter.

She is learning computer in another village and always comes back home late. A journey of 30mins back from her training center will take her close to two hours.

I am not always home and just visited the first time this year. After the numerous complaint from my mum I decided to check her school bag and found four letters from a guy. All come came from him. I will be showing it to popsi. My little sis not not the biological daughter to my parents. Her mother was good to us hence we are returning the favor. She just finished secondary school and will soon pick jamb form to further her education on my father's financing.

I just fear pregnancy. She should be within 15-18 can't really tell though.

I'm just afraid popsi might sent her packing.

Trust me, there's absolutely nothing you can do to stop her from boy friending. She is the only one that can make the decision for herself. And from my experience, only the words of God can do that. When she believes that it's a sinful act and that she'll be punished for it in the hereafter. Nothing else can make her stop it from my experience

underpinna:
My little sister has a boyfriend who writes her love letter.

She is learning computer in another village and always comes back home late. A journey of 30mins back from her training center will take her close to two hours.

I am not always home and just visited the first time this year. After the numerous complaint from my mum I decided to check her school bag and found four letters from a guy. All come came from him. I will be showing it to popsi. My little sis not not the biological daughter to my parents. Her mother was good to us hence we are returning the favor. She just finished secondary school and will soon pick jamb form to further her education on my father's financing.

I just fear pregnancy. She should be within 15-18 can't really tell though.

I'm just afraid popsi might sent her packing.

Omoo see fine handwriting.


Back then in school, teachers will always call me to sit with them while marking my script.
Aunty Joy:What did you write here?
Me:It is 'condone' ma.

Sometimes my handwriting sef dey confuse me wey me and teacher go dey look my book for minutes.We go still call another teacher to help us check wetin I write.

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Op if that girl is up to 18 and the boy is too, leave her alone.
You can advice her how to practice safe sex though.

No need to report to your dad yet.
She is a teenager and will behave like one, we all went through this stage at some point. It's an exciting stage and a very emotional time. Talk to her, let her know that there is nothing wrong with the she feels about certain things at this stage but let her know there are consequences. Your are a man so you can tell her about the tricks and lies.
your parents might not have the time to give her proper sex education, it's not their fault it's just the generation they belong to. All they will tell her is "you will get pregnant". You have a major role to play, please play it well.

underpinna:
My little sister has a boyfriend who writes her love letter.

She is learning computer in another village and always comes back home late. A journey of 30mins back from her training center will take her close to two hours.

I am not always home and just visited the first time this year. After the numerous complaint from my mum I decided to check her school bag and found four letters from a guy. All come came from him. I will be showing it to popsi. My little sis not not the biological daughter to my parents. Her mother was good to us hence we are returning the favor. She just finished secondary school and will soon pick jamb form to further her education on my father's financing.

I just fear pregnancy. She should be within 15-18 can't really tell though.

I'm just afraid popsi might sent her packing.

omotolly22:
But this handwriting fine oh

swears

FERNANDEZISBACK:
As far as she's your sister and she's young you have all right to protect her..now what you are gonna do is this..sit her down and speak to her in a polite manner..tell her about the good and bad in relationship cos she's quite young but not bad if she's in a relationship..

Another thing you could do is tell her to invite her boyfriend over so you can have a proper discussion with him..you get?
Talk to the guy and tell him what's on your mind politely..note that no matter how much you shout or spank her she's still gonna do what's on her mind..so what I am saying is sit her down and talk to her without getting your parents involved..

First time a boring person said something meaningful...
Kudos and keep it up..

FahBuLous:
First time a boring person said something meaningful...
Kudos and keep it up..

Thanks so much.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

What's that?

You'd find out, if you cap careless, I go put am woto woto for ur body

NohurryInLife:

Na my prayer everyday be this

You go change prayer as soon as have your first child as a boy. I literally begged God for my last girl

Senomii:

You'd find out, if you cap careless, I go put am woto woto for ur body

Haha..
Let me keep smiling..

Wetin you wan do her before? I had a boyfriend in primary 5. We never had sex. I never had sex till 20 during university days.. All cux of the type of brother I had then. He won't beat you. He will always point at other ladies as example. Big bro fit jus see one girl dey waka with pure water for head and a baby at her back and he go just say- ''see life, see that girl, she fall for love scam, now see as she dey suffer alone with that poor child''. This words and others made me strong. Talk with her. Show her super women and beautiful families, show her beggars in the street, show her hawkers. Show her motherless babies and single mothers. It will go along way.

GOD WILL SURELY BLESS YOU IF YOU MAKE THIS FUTURE ANGEL A SUPER WOMAN

Educate her about ritual killings happening in the Yoruba Land.
Also tell her how early/unwanted pregnancy can terminate her university dreams and ruin her big future.
I know someday, she will grow to understand.

Why do you wanna show your father the letter when you know he might send her packing?


We have done all these things before, even me sef I wrote my bae love letter that year. Na text or notebook we take dey exchange letters codedly for class even in front of teachers and classmates......Make I leave that story for another day.



OP talk sense into her as an elder brother, beating or being hostile isn't the best solution in this kinda situation.

rawe45:


You go change prayer as soon as have your first child as a boy. I literally begged God for my last girl

....And why would he change prayers?

dingbang:
swears

Una dey surprised cos una know una self na, duck fowl leg handwriting gang

R

I no fit read watin the guy man write sha but all I can say is that he has a very fine hand writing.

If you know she won’t listen to you, better expose her to the people she will listen to. If you hide this from your parents, pregnancy will expose it later and then she will be sent away. Her mom will blame your parents for not watching her properly.

Bluntguy:
You have been having your own plan for her until one stupid boy wan come chop wetin you don dey reserve for yourself tey tey no be so? Talk true.

The investigator

I swear you are so on point

gift0123:



Off point.....

THERES SOME SENSE IN WHAT HE SAID THOUGH

lol.

Its the Handwriting for me.

Just thread with caution. Its a real difficult task to bring upa female child.

It is well.

PCSI:


Osuofia try dey read...

@op, talk to her calmly. Do not involve your parents just yet even though they have reported her activities to you severely.

Simdyofficial:
Wetin you wan do her before? I had a boyfriend in primary 5. We never had sex. I never had sex till 20 during university days.. All cux of the type of brother I had then. He won't beat you. He will always point at other ladies as example. Big bro fit jus see one girl dey waka with pure water for head and a baby at her back and he go just say- ''see life, see that girl, she fall for love scam, now see as she dey suffer alone with that poor child''. This words and others made me strong. Talk with her. Show her super women and beautiful families, show her beggars in the street, show her hawkers. Show her motherless babies and single mothers. It will go along way.

GOD WILL SURELY BLESS YOU IF YOU MAKE THIS FUTURE ANGEL A SUPER WOMAN

So after all the examples i showed you; you still had sex. You like gbola oh

GoodHardDick:
OP, E sure me die say that boy Don bang your sister tire, hence the reason for her usual late arrivals

There's nothing you can do about it man! Whether you report her on not, it makes no difference!

That girl has tasted a good dick and definitely won't stop collecting it . If you stop her from meeting that boy, she'll definitely meet another guy to continue the banging

Guy na wao for u ohh. Take am easy na. Which advise u come give now... see he head�

Opperwezen:
You dont know your sister's age? What a joker you are

As in ehn, very annoying

Kobojunkie:
You don't even care enough to know her age and much about her but you feel it is your place to ransack her bag, steal her letters, and use them to shame her?

At the age you stated, where you yourself not dating/crushing on some gal? Why not take to advising her instead to help her learn how to maneuver that time her life without falling victim to pregnancy and what not?

This is not the time for you to interrogate her but instead to step in as an older brother/sibling would, to advice and guide her through making the right choices in relationships so she can develop into a fully capable adult relationship wise

Glad to see that not all Nigerians are stupid. This our society is just so pretentious.

At her age, Aisha was already a grandmother.
OP, why don't you do something productive with your life?

sylve11:




@op, talk to her calmly. Do not involve your parents just yet despite the fact that they have reported her activities to you before now.

Be careful with ur english. next time u say despite the fact on this platform u will be fined.....

At the age of 15, am still trying to solve quadratic equation but see what this generation has turned out to be.