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Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

Sorry oo..

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already the truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life....and I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do...with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring....sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing....am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...please what should I do..?? Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like thatplease advice

@bold, that's where the whole shit emanate from. Now that you're bored, can they come and cheer you up Your answer is as good as mine.

Another reason,

....sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing....

Try you possible best to turn a blind eyes from that direction.

See, you don marry you don marry. Since the woman you married is not giving you "wahala," and you love her, view it from that angle and work on your marriage. las Las, you'll be fine.

No divorce her oooo

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/5821202/lonely-heart

You were seeking a life partner in the above thread, you have found one and now you are bored.

Why didn't you condition yourself mentally?

Modified: my guy don deactivate.

Hope I'm not the cause sha?

To begin with,accept the fact that you are not young to get married, you can be married and still catch your fun with your wife.Work on your mindset or see a counselor.

Ffs stop disgracing your gender. Only weak men give excuses.
i wouldn't be surprised if you create another thread saying your wife dominates you.
watch out for it though cus it'll surely happen.

Wahala for anybody wey say marriage na easy institution....Na when you don enter finish,na then you go realize say the Carry-over and extension wey full inside no be for the faint-hearted...
Sometimes,when I come across stories of married couples like this,I just dey say to myself--"Obax,you sure say you go ever give this your precious heart to any Woman for this life at all so?". Because I'm always shocked..

Marriage is supposed to be enjoyed and not to be endured... mennnnnnnn,we are supposed to be the better half of our partner when we decide to walk down the aisle of marriage and not the other way round......

Las las,e be like say I go leave this school of marriage for una because I no kukuma get mind reach am before

Okey-dokey!

Now, marriage requires readiness on all levels. Not just in one aspect.

Fine, you're ready financially. Which is just one aspect but did your family try to find out if you were ready emotionally, psychologically, metally, physically and spiritually?

Look, it's not enough to just jump into marriage without first having all the above listed checked. otherwise the resulting effect is the situation you find yourself today.

Since you were not given the time to develop the readiness and now you find yourself in a tight corner, I'll advise you start building yourself into it now to enable you weather and overcome whatever surge is pushing you to consider divorce.
Divorce is not the solution, rather it will further demoralize you with all the drama and trauma that come with it.

Marriage they say, is not for everyone, if you didnt plan yourself well, the way you rush in is the way you will rush out...

Having money is not all about a happy marriage, if money is all, majority of all these our yeyebrity would have lived 100years togther in their marriage....


I feel the reason why you are bored is because, you never marry the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh, forget she's beautiful and intelligent....

Sitdown and think what is boring your marriage and work on it..

Wish you success

Loneliness from bachelor free life!

Happy weekend..not married..dont intend to. Gat no say in this.. Benin people fit come for me but I'm ready

Hmmm
You thought your other half was an entertainer??
Or you wanted to the crew of married and chubby
Abi hubby themed crew

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

You are not ready mentally even at 29....What a shame

dem force you. Stop disturbing us here.

Just go and look at this man's threads. When you serious we go know.

Not your fault son. .
You see that marriage crap is not for we men ohh. . because apart from having a child, it doesn’t benefit us.

Women benefits more that is why they can do anything to settle down with even someone they don’t have deep feelings for..
Some of them even uses it as a bragging thing amongst themselves lool

Too bad

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/5821202/lonely-heart

You were seeking a life partner in the above thread, you have found one and now you are bored.

You were supposed to condition yourself mentally.

29 is not young though .oyibo them the marry around 21 because they're economically viable. It has now been accepted to marry late in Africa due to poverty

OP, you still be pikin and immature indeed. Perhaps, you're a simp.

It's very normal. We all get bored as red-pillers but, we just need to satisfy the status quo.

Welcome to your new Reality!

Marriage is a big scam.

You dey ask us?
We have no business in your married life.
You're the only one who can fix yourself and your "marriage".

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

I was just telling my guy about this assertion few mins ago. Chai! Me that loves my freedom to max level.
Op I'm sorry for you.
I hope you find your happiness in your union and bounce back

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/5821202/lonely-heart

You were seeking a life partner in the above thread, you have found one and now you are bored.

You were supposed to condition yourself mentally.

U don open him book of chroncles, Cha! Lawyer or police dective fit u ooo walahi.

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

Eiya, you married out of pressure, that's how it ends. tears

Hmm...you have to make your marriage lively.

shedybaba44 you're not bored, you're simply silly and confused!
You don't know what you want in life and it seems you're too comfortable and don't exactly have problems. Your wife obviously isn't the problem here.

You need real drama in your life

If you're still confused about the drift of my post, it means that you should appreciate the life you have now before God makes life really interesting for you.

What's tha business?

Hmmn.

Oga, there's a difference between a married man and a single man.

A married man cannot live like a single man.

Anywhere you're looking for fun, carry your wife along. That's not to say you can't hang out with your friends, single or married but tag your wife along in your fun.

Go on date nights with other couples, see movies together at the cinema, go on boat rides and holidays, give each other tasks of shopping for each other, etc.

Marriage doesn't have to be boring, na marry you marry, no be solitary confinement.

Hmmm