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Go reduce am na

She should be thankful that she has at her disposal what many other women are earnestly looking for. This life no balance.

The very same thing others are looking for.

Lesbian

Not at all Sir

OutisComputers7:
Did you Bleep her before marriage?

MASTERYANKEE:
Get one side chick pregnant not time men

Hehehhehe

Nairaland females will kill you with PMs.

So op u want use your big cassava kill that innocent woman simple because you want to satisfied your sexual desire, Oga give her time and exercise patience with her.
Is sex food
Oga abeg rest

must you put everything inside all the time. if 60 to 70 percent enter manage am like that. if you are doing it right na she go push the remaining percentage enter, toto no be your mate. Except she has a rare condition or something else wrong entirely (like body odor, bad breath, no luv) and she's just using the size of your gbola as excuse.

DavidNative:
Not at all Sir

You married someone you don't know about her sex life? Y'all think marriage is what? Dating?

Do swapping.

Terrence99:
Nairaland females will kill you with PMs.

Na fake story.

ment.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

She should be open to you, being selfish wouldn't help her. You've tried your best dear, I reckon you meet a counsellor on this, or try to make her wet. And go in slowly as she takes you in.

Lol.. I beg I no fit laugh.

DavidNative:
Well, i believe .r

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Chai dis life no balance
My brother don't be surprise when ladies here on nairaland send you PM

Candid advice, get her pregnant after childbirth the road will be even too wide for you.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Why you go carry big Gbola?? I feel your pains sha,try use lub before penetration,if it's still not working for her,then use soap my brother..Self serv and rest...I'm sure your type have talked bad a lot about people that had premarital sex,now you have seen why it's important to test before you buy

Foodqueen:
Continue talking to her, one day she will reciprocate.

Continuing talking to her indeed! What a poor advice. What of,if the so called one day never come?

Terrence99:
Nairaland females will kill you with PMs.

My thought now ooo

DavidNative

Her behavior is selfish by saying she's not the sex type. 1 Cor 7 says warns against denying each other of it.

Is she circumcised? It reduces libido

Dis kind thing z common with religious people.
Most times, Una principle to please eachother end up hurting u.

This is what u should have resolve during dating.
Btw, why did u marry her?

because she's God-fearing or what?

That is women for you bro
Once they're married with kid, urge for sex declined drastically in most of them

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Try to work things out with her but if she insists tell her you will get a second wife if she does not change.

And incase she says no wahala, You don't need to do any big wedding, just find one lady from your village, pay her bride price, rent an apartment for her and enjoy your life. We only live once and no man should suffer sexual deprivation in matrimony.

Talk to her about the effect her rejection is having on you. Let her know

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

What do you want us to do now.? Go and beg your wife?


Well this might be a terrible advice, but I will be truthful.
Uncle, everywhere you see road for bush na person dey am. If no be you, e fit be me.

I can't say more than that, after all na free consultation.

I just hope she is not trying to manipulate you to believe she is a learner. I no dey trust those pipo at all... You give her head,she no wet scatter everywhere? Your joromi no still enter after giving her head? Bros na electric pole you carry inbetwn ur legs be that o

One man food is another poison

BEST ADVISE SO FAR. DO IT LIKE YOU MEAN IT.

Ynix:

Play a simple game...

Write this word on paper and say,

I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANY MORE, BYE BYE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE

Drop it and travel to a friend's place

Notice her reaction, if disturbed, don't come back until she begs and after that prepare a written agreement. Also be an alpha man

Thanks for the encouragement and advice everyone , i will go through everything and make a best decision i believe by God's grace. Thanks once again Sirs and Ma's