NewStats: 3,259,810 , 8,170,937 topics. Date: Monday, 26 May 2025 at 04:40 AM 5i279

Kobojunkie:
Why? Because a man should not enjoy his sewing alone?

he needs companion

Kobojunkie:
The friend you described is not every bachelor out there and every bachelor out there is not like your friend at all.

I wonder what type of stupid person the poster is

Oblongata:
When I was taking my kids to their grandpa few days ago to spend the remainder of their holidays I was so happy! Coupled with the fact that my wife was also traveling the following day, my joy knew no bounds. Finally the peace and freedom I craved was here!

This weekend my home didn’t feel happy! It was sad and lonely. I felt cold loneliness throughout. I tried everything I could to distract myself but I miss my family so bad!

I miss our little quarrels, our eventual understanding and acceptance of each other using truce keeping.

I miss their mum badly. This made me wonder? How do older bachelors cope in this very lonely world? Una dey try o... respect.

This one no get work walahi.
What do you mean older bachelors
So now you're married you're responsible and the older bachelors are not na

debbydams:
he needs companion

Why? Because dem tell you say every man must have companion?

I'm enjoying my bachelorhood. I ve 3 kids from 3 different ladies. I take care of my kids and free to live my life anyhow I want. Good a thing they are all boys and they the kids comes around every weekend and on holidays.

I don't give a damn about my baby mamas.

wunmi590:


Truly, to those who are still single, you can't miss what you dont have.....

Similar to a line from boss baby

Oblongata:
When I was taking my kids to their grandpa few days ago to spend the remainder of their holidays I was so happy! Coupled with the fact that my wife was also traveling the following day, my joy knew no bounds. Finally the peace and freedom I craved was here!

This weekend my home didn’t feel happy! It was sad and lonely. I felt cold loneliness throughout. I tried everything I could to distract myself but I miss my family so bad!

I miss our little quarrels, our eventual understanding and acceptance of each other using truce keeping.

I miss their mum badly. This made me wonder? How do older bachelors cope in this very lonely world? Una dey try o... respect.

Oblongata:

I beg to differ sir!

Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing.

I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids...

Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o)

We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it...

He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family.

Reason he had been treating my family like his.

Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family.

Op, I don't mean to be disrespectful or anything, but just do DNA test on your children, and if possible, run the test against your bachelor friend's blood sample. This may sound absurd, but you see that fatherly love your bachelor friend is radiating? It's a reason to be curious.. ever heard of "alpha seeds, beta grows?"; Alpha impregnate, beta fathers?

Anyways, True happiness is the ability to find peace and satisfaction in ones own company. Once you start depending on other people's presence to become happy, then you're truly lonely. The test of happiness is a very simple question; "when I'm all alone, do I really feel happy?" If yes, then you're truly happy

lilvicky68:
Older bachelors won't feel anything..they are used to it..
You can't miss what you don't have..

Loneliness is better than headache n wahala. # Na person way never see war the ginger for war.

Women feel more lonely than guys. He should open another thread and ask. " Older spinster how do you cope with loneliness.

MajorOvakporaye:

I wonder what type of stupid person the poster is

I was particularly creeped out by the reference to his friend always wanting to hang with his kids... not everyone bachelor is like that.

Even females aren't all like that, let alone Bachelors.

Dear Op, your post negate the point you're trying to drive Home. You are already a married Man, so you're not a bachelor to fit in.....if you're to be a bachelor, no room for feeling someone You are not with. Besides, you only missed the bonding between you and your wife cum children.
This one nor follow!!!

vicksbaba:

Anyways, True happiness is the ability to find peace and satisfaction in ones own company. Once you start depending on other people's presence to become happy, then you're truly lonely. The test of happiness is a very simple question; "when I'm all alone, do I really feel happy?" If yes, then you're truly happy[

Kobojunkie:
I was particularly creeped out by the reference to his friend always wanting to hang with his kids... not everyone bachelor is like that.

Even females aren't all like that, let alone Bachelors.

That's why I think Op should do a DNA test on those kids.. they're probably his bachelor friend's offspring

Na test of strength
Travel out of naija u go understand

Justbehave:
I'm enjoying my bachelorhood. I ve 3 kids from 3 different ladies. I take care of my kids and free to live my life anyhow I want. Good a thing they are all boys and they the kids comes around every weekend and on holidays.

I don't give a damn about my baby mamas.

Sigh!

vicksbaba:

That's why I think Op should do a DNA test on those kids.. they're probably his bachelor friend's offspring

That is mean!

Sebi they get gf or woman friend

Bachelor has grade oo.
There are bachelors what don't smash at all.
There are bachelors who smash once in a while.
There are bachelors who smash even more often than non-bachelors. And they enjoy variety which is the spice of life.
Trust me, there are celebrity bachelors who have kids and companionship.
Relax! Bachelor get levels.
The difference between nonsense and comedy is money!!!!

Oblongata:

I beg to differ sir!

Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing.

I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids...

Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o)

We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it...

He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family.

Reason he had been treating my family like his.

Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family.

What about spinsters

I'm never lonely.. I'm always with my thoughts.

Na Holy Spirit they help us

TarOrfeeek:



They want to guilt men into marrying.

Lol , don't mind them

Typical Nigerian stereotype "unmarried people are envious of married ones". Oga park well with this marriage obsession mentality.

Oblongata:

I beg to differ sir!

Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing.

I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids...

Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o)

We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it...

He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family.

Reason he had been treating my family like his.

Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family.

Oblongata:
When I was taking my kids to their grandpa few days ago to spend the remainder of their holidays I was so happy! Coupled with the fact that my wife was also traveling the following day, my joy knew no bounds. Finally the peace and freedom I craved was here!

This weekend my home didn’t feel happy! It was sad and lonely. I felt cold loneliness throughout. I tried everything I could to distract myself but I miss my family so bad!

I miss our little quarrels, our eventual understanding and acceptance of each other using truce keeping.

I miss their mum badly. This made me wonder? How do older bachelors cope in this very lonely world? Una dey try o... respect.

side chickens

mariahAngel:


Sigh!

Yesssss. Anything wrong with that? Any of them not happy that I don't care about her should bring my kid back to me. Period.

Oblongata:

I beg to differ sir!

Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing.

I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids...

Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o)

We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it...

He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family.

Reason he had been treating my family like his.

Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family.

Not all bachelor's are lonely bro..

Don't use your friends case to generalize.....

lilvicky68:
Older bachelors won't feel anything..they are used to it..
You can't miss what you don't have..

Perfect reply. A million likes to you.

Meet The Spiritualist That Married 7 Husbands


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kfujqv8nNSE

I only miss the woman I luv, not marriage.i tried marriage for like two months.it was more like hell,girl sleeping by my side everyday naked.oh boy,I nearly die.cos I like sex a lot.i don't get to sleep at night.

I read books, watch movies, chat... Sometimes, I have female friends over. But when I am working, I don't even know where the hours ago. Although I it, it can be very lonely sometimes.

greenie77:


Why marriage? When a man can get surrogates to have children for him, pay them off after birth, hire nannies to be care givers....so you see, he does not need to get married.

na so e just easy....

Oblongata:

I beg to differ sir!

Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing.

I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids...

Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o)

We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it...

He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family.

Reason he had been treating my family like his.

Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family.

HI, is the lawyer still Avaliable?