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Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? (37450 Views)
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Oblongata: 7:05pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
When I was taking my kids to their grandpa few days ago to spend the remainder of their holidays I was so happy! Coupled with the fact that my wife was also traveling the following day, my joy knew no bounds. Finally the peace and freedom I craved was here! This weekend my home didn’t feel happy! It was sad and lonely. I felt cold loneliness throughout. I tried everything I could to distract myself but I miss my family so bad! I miss our little quarrels, our eventual understanding and acceptance of each other using truce keeping. I miss their mum badly. This made me wonder? How do older bachelors cope in this very lonely world? Una dey try o... respect. 232 Likes 12 Shares |
lilvicky68(m): 7:12pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Older bachelors won't feel anything..they are used to it.. You can't miss what you don't have.. 1195 Likes 91 Shares |
general111(m): 7:35pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Waiting for replies. Please tag me 1 Like |
Kriss216: 7:36pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
lilvicky68:Thank you my brother. 669 Likes 34 Shares |
Machinegun91(m): 7:38pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
You are insulting us here indirectly, Old bachelors are always happy because our wives and childrens are always in scrotumz 283 Likes 10 Shares |
wunmi590(m): 7:42pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Truly, to those who are still single, you can't miss what you dont have..... 167 Likes 10 Shares |
Benadeyemi(m): 7:43pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
They probably have other things they spend their time with or they get involved with other vibes in the society as a correct older bachelor would do sometimes. I think one way or the other they get something to occupy the space/gap with the different things that keep them alive.
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merieam16(f): 7:56pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Benadeyemi:like work, flex and womanize 43 Likes 1 Share |
Oblongata: 8:04pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
lilvicky68:I beg to differ sir! Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing. I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids... Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o) We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it... He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family. Reason he had been treating my family like his. Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family. 228 Likes 12 Shares |
Kobojunkie: 8:11pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata:The friend you described is not every bachelor out there and every bachelor out there is not like your friend at all. ![]() 356 Likes 26 Shares |
TarOrfeeek: 8:21pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
![]() They want to guilt men into marrying. ![]() ![]() 137 Likes 7 Shares |
mariahAngel(f): 8:25pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oga op, jus say you wan use scope mock bachelors. Table shaker! ![]() 72 Likes 1 Share |
BruncleZuma: 8:25pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() We dey live near Allen Avenue...efie fa [img]https://c./6cfVa5n54cYAAAAC/detective-conan-kogoro-mouri.gif[/img] 76 Likes 2 Shares |
slawormiir: 8:25pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Damnnn niggar Isoright .... You said older bachelor lilvicky68:You must be a real niggar 33 Likes 1 Share |
Sagefromtheeast: 8:25pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Get busy Benadeyemi:They do stuff like *play games *Nairaland *Watch their favorite movies without unnecessary intrusions and interruptions... It goes on and on 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Sonnobax15(m): 8:26pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
![]() Thank God I'm still a young bachelor ![]() Well, I just have this feeling that the op is trying to compel older bachelors to go and marry......But my dear older bachelors, don't listen to op,he no know wetin he dey talk about ![]() 52 Likes 2 Shares |
McAausim: 8:26pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
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Moving4: 8:27pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
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Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
It's because you're already used to their company. Bachelors love their solitude, it helps a lot of them stay productive and well rested.
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greenie77: 8:27pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
TarOrfeeek: Why marriage? When a man can get surrogates to have children for him, pay them off after birth, hire nannies to be care givers....so you see, he does not need to get married. ![]() 39 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
I dey cope with NL at my reach. I miss our little quarrels, our eventual understanding and acceptance of each other using truce keeping. Na who get one dey miss all these that you listed. Forget loneliness, there's a special happiness/relief that comes with being single. 75 Likes 5 Shares |
SuperNova33: 8:28pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
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chii8(f): 8:28pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Hmmm.....older bachelors,oya come and answer....
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PrinceOfLagos: 8:28pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
See insult Chei |
debbydams(f): 8:28pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Lol, Mr zero824 we are waiting for you ![]() 1 Like |
suffering: 8:29pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
This is like asking virgins how sex feels. Lol. There is no way a bachelor will feel lonely if he never was married in the first place. If he feels so because his girlfriend broke up he’ll just enter a woman’s friend zone or search his harem for a new catch. You are married, only divorce will give you an idea what you seek.
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Angela62: 8:29pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Same for me. When my husband travel for business trip and the kids are in school, even that tiny window is enough to make me realise how much I miss my family.
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kenzysmith: 8:29pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Loneliness were ashawo quarter never finish
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mariahAngel(f): 8:29pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
greenie77: Na so! ![]() 1 Like |
Jerryherd: 8:29pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Honestly you can't miss what you don't have When am in my parents house for vacation the kids , neice and nephew actually chase me out quickly... So much energy 24/7 , no filter, noise, never ever letting you stay in peace no matter what, you are just another toy to them and you must just be available 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Midas01: 8:29pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Lol
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