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Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? (29956 Views)
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs Wrong reason to jump into marriage. And, it ooks like the girl is only playing a mind game with you. |
BigYash: 4:31pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
You even get mind take girl when dey school serious.. And she go still go service ![]() ![]() U never see anything.. This is the list you should be worrying about sef.. 1 Like |
Pax101: 4:32pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Op.... If only you would adhere, dump that girl now and look for someone who's ready for marriage.
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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Kadejo: If that line didn't the message that she's not ready for marriage, the part in bold should. Instead of focusing on starting a family because you're lonely and want to start one before clocking 40, you should put more effort into improving your income. 70k is small for a single, young man, not to talk of one with a wife and kids. And when you start having those kids, the billing never ends. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Funkybabee(f): 4:32pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
She's scared of her future It's just that some men are wicked Nani while trapping ladies to marriage and become irresponsible for her and the children when load of responsibility wanna kill them but forgot they are the one that brought the term marriage up. I have one marriage that played like this, that girl withdraw from her school and the marriage broke Las lass If you know you will take care of her and her children, and promised not to give her any responsibility until she's fit to Then go ahead with these method Petting, u can only pet or tamed her to bowl for you unless it can not work Give her reason u are ready for it and see wether she will yield or not |
12345baba(m): 4:32pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Some kind questions people dey ask here eh
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Juban(m): 4:33pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Bros look for someone that will complement you. What would you do as a family with 70k ![]() Look for a lady that loves you and ready to you. This one giving you condition is a bad market. Your love at this this time is insignificant, the ladies own is everything. Thank me later ![]() 1 Like |
Ilovezzor: 4:33pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
HopeVictor: Him no think that one o |
Kadejo(m): 4:34pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
oazeez1991: Thank you for this mathematical analysis. 1 Like |
AutoChick4U(f): 4:35pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Greatness09:Bad advice! This is why many cheat on their husbands, someone who's not ready to settle down won't revere that union 1 Like |
NnamdiN: 4:35pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Move on. Marry someone else
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Thesaint141(m): 4:35pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
tears loading..
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mastermaestro(m): 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Afriqan: Very annoying to read. A 25 year old girl wants to continue doing sisi? What exactly has she been doing since she turned 18? This is unbelievable! When most girls are marrying between age 20 and 22, this one doesn't know she is even too old to be in 400l unless of course had had some other kind of education somewhere before. Rubbish talk! ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
OLULAW: 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
You're 'ready' [that income, is a non-starter], she's not. It's a disequilibrium. What advice do you need? It's a free world, man.
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Lastmankc(m): 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
I ed Fu*cking a girl that already had a fiance in school back then.I bang nonsense commot for her head and she start hating her guy so much.I don't want her to break the poor guy's heart,I have to end the relationship with her instantly.But the worst thing is that ,the babe nearly kill me for school bc I left her.Nah God save me.Guy,just be careful bc a niggar might be banging her.
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Lilpen3758: 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
you are on below 70K and you want to marry? Focus your energy on making more money, when you make more money, women will queue to marry you.
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Mrcomputeru: 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Bro, you know that 70k is too small in a country where boys make more from fraud, besides she is in school, getting all the attention from these guys, she'll probably do more during service, she has already told you that she is not ready, don't pressure her so that you won't have future regrets, looks for ways to make more money and then settle down with a lady that is ready, most importantly, check around you, marry ur friend, one of them probably likes you too, such marriages will last
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VTJN(m): 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
OhBritannia:You do well. A girl don't have a say to her life right? We ain't in stone age any longer. A girl child have a say to her life I'm sure you know it's solely a girl decision to accept or reject a man's proposal and not the other way round? You don't make ractional decision just like that. Because you as a guy is ready then the girl had no choice than to be ready too? This your comments is absolutely not far from subjecting the female folks as a slave who got no say to their lives. This is wrong 2 Likes 1 Share |
Sheggy13(m): 4:37pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Kadejo:That guy asked you a very important question but you skipped it. I guess love is still shacking you. You've refused to explain to us what she meant by sisi for at least a year. That sisi is definitely a period she won't be committed to anyone fully..shouldn't that give you concern? 1 Like |
BabaIbo: 4:37pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Kadejo: What IF the relationship doesn't survive the time? She may meet another person during her NYSC program and you know what's up na? It is either you try and convince her to agree with you doing something on her and after she grads, you guys can certify everything with marriage, Or You impregnate her knowingly, which in turn will require you marrying her. My advices are valid only if you want to marry her and ready to shoulder some of her responsibilities, because as a schooling married woman, her parents go comot hands small for her responsibilities. |
Bayaar02(m): 4:38pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
The best advise na d one wey u give ursef!
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NaijaCoverBlog(m): 4:39pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
@Poster, Are you a learner, how sure are you, that lady who is still in 300level in university will be able to get married to you? If truly you are ready now for marriage, go and pay her bride price immediately and she will become your's, than waiting for her to finish school.
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koyyess: 4:39pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Kadejo: Why can't you date a lady within your own age range that is a working class or into business? What the hell is wrong with you people? Later you will come and start complaining of this and that. This is someone who hasn't even gone for NYSC. Honestly, you are not smart at all. Future red pillar. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Kadejo:You are a mumu man |
oluwaahmed: 4:40pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
You are earning less than 70k and u want to marry a jobless undergraduate ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Kadejo:Guide not guild. I hate when people don't know how to spell on Internet |
bluefilm: 4:42pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Kadejo: Weda you wait for am or you no wait for am to finish her Sisi warever, how e take kwansign me bikonu? Mtcheew. ![]() |
Black052(m): 4:42pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Move on fast she bit ready at all, at 25 still talking about doing sisi, in 300L when ASUU as we all know can down tools tomorrow and resume after Easter , move very fast bro
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Powersurge: 4:42pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Kadejo: Hmmm. I be won bash u b4. But no need. Every aboki with hin kettle. We are talking about another 4 years here. U have no control over what happens tomorrow. Let alone 4 yesrs. How do you know she wouldn't find another person with better resource during her period of doing sisi? If u like go and tell her this. U know d answer u go get. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
That's my story too o is just that mine is in final but still want to do NYSC, e det tey for my eye
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When your Ex keeps destroying your present affair.
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