NewStats: 3,265,399 , 8,186,601 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 06:35 PM 19183j

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

What happens when you start a relationship as a rich dude only to encounter some difficulties that rendered you penniless? Won't you still suffer the same fate as a poor dude that started a relationship in poverty? At the end of the day the solution is to marry a "Sarah" that can journey with you to an unknown location and yet call you "lord". A virtuous woman that is your match by God will be there by your side through thick and thin until you see the light and end of the tunnel...

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BRATISLAVA:


As much as there are women who like the easy life, the men they follow also like the easy life otherwise they wouldn't be criminals. But while we criticize them —men and women —who on Earth really doesn't want the easy life? Who doesn't like money? Who wouldn't want to be rich or have a rich spouse? It's not something limited to women only, because there are men who want the same thing but prefer to point at women while concealing their own desires.

But at the end of the day, money can't hold a relationship together. It is character that does. Even the richest man in the world was an awful husband and got divorced at the end of the day, due to his inability to be a man for his family.

Plus, you don't need to be old to have legitimate money. It's a common misconception that makes many men get into fraud.

You do, you actually need to be old to have legitimate money. You women don't want to be realistic, that's why you prefer those scammers.

Except you are born into a wealthy family.

Please explain to me how a guy who graduated at 24, served at 25 has 100Million in his . Even as someone who deal in Crypto or Alaba business man, it takes years to grow your money. Save and invest, rinse and repeat.

Apart from Tech start up owners like Mark Zuckerberg, Iyin of Andela, Shola of Paystack. How many common 20 year olds have made it who aren't from rich homes.

The average pay for graduate in Lagos is 150k, Shell workers will earn around 1.5M to 4M, how many 20 year olds are working in Shell?

Women will keep deceiving themselves.

Family weh dey disturb her for money, seh u b CBN? Ok her next man il ve an endless flow of cash , abi?

I totally disagree. One needs money, but not because of sustaining relationship. Kim and Kanye has the money but how far...

manee2:
I will tell her

Tell her

truthsayer009:


You do, you actually need to be old to have legitimate money. You women don't want to be realistic, that's why you prefer those scammers.

Except you are born into a wealthy family.

Please explain to me how a guy who graduated at 24, served at 25 has 100Million in his . Even as someone who deal in Crypto or Alaba business man, it takes years to grow your money. Save and invest, rinse and repeat.

Apart from Tech start up owners like Mark Zuckerberg, Iyin of Andela, Shola of Paystack. How many common 20 year olds have made it who aren't from rich homes.

The average pay for graduate in Lagos is 150k, Shell workers will earn around 1.5M to 4M, how many 20 year olds are working in Shell?

Women will keep deceiving themselves.

One big chilled bottle for u jare! See where 20 yrs dey give relationship advice to 40yrs old married man. Abeg make d 20 yrs old go marry, then live with d woman for 20yrs bf speaking.

Very true and real experience

Esthered:

Lemme ask on behalf of firstborn of other genders biko.
Happy weekend sir.

Sir? Lol

DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

I got the first born part but, the last born. u fit explain the last born part?

I swear down!

womenareapess:
my second advice to young guys, please avoid naija women with immediate effect

Those baboons are there to eat your banana and go

Better you date a foreigner than to swallow with shame with those useless piece of shiit called naija women

No value in dating baboons

Paul Okoye has money o
Bill Gates has money o
Wetin you dey talk?

DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

Wow. Really, currently in one but she's last born... Why did u say this

Acidosis:


Sir? Lol

I give honour to whom it is due.

Why should the guy be shouldering all her responsibilities?

Okay sir!

Life can never be balance

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

money is like a lubricant if it is not available then there is a problem. Money is good. Them say if money nor dey house make person nor talk.

You don't know what you escaped from by letting go that girl,her family would have finished your life with financial demands. Besides,who told you that a woman can't struggle and make her own money.The woman should hustle as well because she's a human being as well.

Carchoice:
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Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.
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Starz825:
Na only fool go say wetin op talk na lie

Guys forget about the bad things we say about Nigerian girls this Nigerian girls that...
Guy if you no get money you no fit enjoy life let alone a relationship...
Abegii

True...One needs to be earning..Before talking about relationship.

Caramia2020:

Constant servicing is needed.

But it must spoil

pansophist:


Generally, Nigerian parents no try at all. And actually, many shouldn't be parents. Now a brutal test for you. Imagine the most idiotic, good for nothing, oloriburuku friend in your group, and that your dad is that guy when her was young

See the Nigeria they gave us, i mean back to our grandparents, how could you be so weak that you'll even allow yourself to be colonised? Even before then, how would you allow slavery ? And up till now, when power is in your hand, you're still forking shit up. When will you stop ? Please write and quote me, me too I'm angry.

Fifty years ago, Nigerian population is less than 70m people, and now its triple. Bad economy, but still forking and increasing population but not production. If they ruled well, magnoliaa wouldn't have been a feminist. Nonsense and ingredients.

Iwo na fe ma spice up/ginger comments e pelu awon gbankogbi Yoruba, abi? Ta lo n ko e, na?

(Goan ask the pelsin teaching you pidgin and Yoruba to translate what I just said to you. )

Op u're very right

I could vividly during my ND days this girl I dated PEACE...

Ah no too get money Buh she stayed for almost 2 years we shared her foodstuff together, tho am trying Buh not just bouyant like that...

It got to an extent that she sit me down and advice me that I should also do yahoo..

Middle born are the best in marriage and relationship, first born is ok if they are very very wealthy, but last borns both from rich and poor homes , are nothing to write home about, you need to teach them alot.





uote author=DankemzI post=105016630]Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn. [/quote]

truthsayer009:


You do, you actually need to be old to have legitimate money. You women don't want to be realistic, that's why you prefer those scammers.

Except you are born into a wealthy family.

Please explain to me how a guy who graduated at 24, served at 25 has 100Million in his . Even as someone who deal in Crypto or Alaba business man, it takes years to grow your money. Save and invest, rinse and repeat.

Apart from Tech start up owners like Mark Zuckerberg, Iyin of Andela, Shola of Paystack. How many common 20 year olds have made it who aren't from rich homes.

The average pay for graduate in Lagos is 150k, Shell workers will earn around 1.5M to 4M, how many 20 year olds are working in Shell?

Women will keep deceiving themselves.

You don't need to be old to have money legitimately.

Different folks, different strokes. Men don't want to be realistic, that's why they thoughtlessly become criminals to impress women, then somehow blame the women for their actions. Sorry, did she hold a gun to your head to make you a criminal, or was that always your disposition?

When it comes to women wanting scammers, you know best. That broke Nigerian men's anthem is getting old, though. The one where they claim all women are after is money.

Most Nigerian men have terrible characters. They spend so much time judging women while their characters are in shambles and their ego is too big. These are the things that chase females from them when they are broke or have money. When you have nothing except money to offer, who will want to stay with that? No good character, no emotional connection, nothing good except money.

There are enough under 25s working in Shell, but they don't exist, apparently. Whether their parents are rich or not is of no consequence, because they exist contrary to your assertions. Just like your assertions about women will be contrary to the truth.

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

pls don't give shit advice, endure your situation and get back your feet soon... I hate when everyone are ing through a situation they always have an advice to give people but will not have solution to their problems..

Another person will still come here and tell you why you should get into a relationship before you become successful.. While both are not bad advice entirely, it is obvious what doesn't work for Mr A, might work for Mr b.

My people say Uwa ne me Ntuhari..
The world functions in mysterious ways, live yours as you find it..

debbydams:
u got it wrong..I'm the first born I have two brothers..the last time my bf now ex gave me money was 2015 nd I didnt asked he gave me willingly,so you are wrong nd it not about first or last born

Let connect babe, i would like to no much about you

@op
Worst is when she says 'it is not you, it's me'.!
Like WTF??!!

dhameelare:

Na true talk oo

Na u go turn atm for her younger sibilings

Then same thing goes for first born men or the only male.

Babyboyforeal:
what will you say about Anita that's divorcing Rude boy will you say Anita is living rude because rude boy is broke?

Rudeboy and Anita's case is different nobody really knows what went wrong between them lets wait for more facts but one way or the other money must they involve but don't let nobody deceive you that money is not everything in relationship sooner or later the love will fade away if money is not involve. Money is l the answer to every nonsense.