NewStats: 3,263,423 , 8,180,067 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 08:37 PM h5q5s

ablegodwale:
someone should please I beg help me with #500 to buy something to eat am hungry I need food lost my job and if you have any other job for me I ll appreciate please help me am hungry I need food thanks and God bless 6555. 386414 Joseph Wale Fidelity Bank

What do you need 500 for my brother? This kind early morning? How can people on here tell you are real?

SteffNikky:
When my previous relationship was getting boring I decided to end it without hurting him .....��after breaking up with him that's when I realized I can't stay without him ��
Now am hurt and heartbroken....I don't know what to do bcus he's seeing someone nowww...

Baby girl
Let me take away your misery
Replace it with happiness
All I need is your faith in me

akpokpo:


What do you need 500 for my brother? This kind early morning? How can people on here tell you are real?

Help am if you wan help am.

zexy2030:
It's simple. just Stop what started the relationship.

If na call start am...stop

If na sex start am....stop

If na gift start am....stop


If na jokes start am...stop

Na weytin u take start am, na em dey end am.

Y u go jump money.... If na money start am....stop

BadRadio:
Is there a perfect approach to end a relationship without hurting a partner?

Maybe the relationship gets too boring often or perhaps u both are not compatible in anyway or perhaps u both want desame thing but in different ways and style.

Maybe u care about this person but u dont want to hurt their feeling and you know it is best that u both parted ways.

How do u go about it?

NONE… JUST DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO, BUT FOR ME I CAN NOT TRADE MY HAPPINESS FOR RELATIONSHIP. SO FAR I AM HAPPY TO LEAVE THE OTHER PERSON SHOULD TRY AND SORT HERSELF OUT. SIMPLE

eazzzy1:
Even your next relationship will end up been boring after a while, if your partner doesn’t give you problems just enjoy the boredom or find a way to make things spicy. You can’t rely on a girl to make the relationship fun, that’s a man’s responsibility.

Fat lie. It's every bodies responsibility

akpokpo:


What do you need 500 for my brother? This kind early morning? How can people on here tell you are real?

If u wan help am help am. Na small money na. U can also search for him on different social media handle. They have many way of criticizing someone

Gorillabrain:
Bros husstle first.. Stop dating broke girls.. Go carry olosho.. Pay her and move on.. Na this useless naija girls u wan have relationship with? God forbid.

You have a point oh my brother. But ti dey carry Olosho sef, that one nor good too.

The only explanation is, You can't continue anymore.

but don't quit her and start following another ASAP, she might wanna compete with the new one in winning you back.

Cut off all bridges to her, no calls, her friends is also her in disguise so cut them off, cut her family off, don't frequent the places you guys were fun of going, no more visits, don't fall for sex, no more gifts or money.

She'll be calling, keep the conversation to less than 1min with an unattached tone. keep only one channel open, WhatsApp, fb, phone. talk via one channel.

Newboss:
Look for that thing they said they don't like and start doing it.

The relationship will die naturally.

For me, when I'm done with a girl, I will text her very early in the morning, every day, and tell her "Come over this morning, before 12, let's fûck". If she no come before 12, I go shout for am and give some punishment. That's disgusting, I know. If her eyes doesn't clear after some days, I would start to cûm inside her mouth. Then move to fûcking her in the ass for days. No money involved.

Na she go tire, then quit the relationship. Then I go call her for days telling her that she disappointed me. That would make her feel like she won. If she comes back, I go continue the whole shît show until she quit again.

If a girl you don't like call you at night to tell you that she miss you, tell her "come over tomorrow morning before 10 let's fûck". Ask her to skip whatever plans she have for that time. Make it look like you are desperate. Girls get turned off by desperation.

kids be coming to nairaland to talk rubbish. You are a little kid who obviously still lives with his parents and just fantasizing rubbish.

Start giving filmsy excuses that's all.

donbachi:
Talk it over with him/her.

It may sound difficult, but that is the best way. You explain to him/her in subtle manner,convincing point and sincerity.

Newboss:


Baba, na toto be the deal, no be money. The olosho, na money you go give am. Better to get some girls (over 18 years old) and make them think you're in love with them, then dey fûck those toto on a regular. If any of them ask for money, dey post her. Women like to fûck too o. No dey loose guard dey give them money. Make her wet, she go fûck. Simple

But bros, some of these girls, if you dey toast them and you nor get motor. Them go dey do anyhow oh.

Ghosting

Just tell what he did wrong? Don’t ghost Mehn
That shii hurts bruh
Victoria eh no go better for you sha o

akpokpo:


But bros, some of these girls, if you dey toast them and you nor get motor. Them go dey do anyhow oh.

Na so. Just move to the next one

zexy2030:
It's simple. just Stop what started the relationship.

If na call start am...stop

If na sex start am....stop

If na gift start am....stop


If na jokes start am...stop

Na weytin u take start am, na em dey end am.

the crux of the matter. Thumbs up

Cashio:
kids be coming to nairaland to talk rubbish. You are a little kid who obviously still lives with his parents and just fantasizing rubbish.

You are not smart. It's not my fault. Good luck living with your parents. There is no fantasy in that post. Real life

BadRadio:
Is there a perfect approach to end a relationship without hurting a partner?

Maybe the relationship gets too boring often or perhaps u both are not compatible in anyway or perhaps u both want desame thing but in different ways and style.

Maybe u care about this person but u dont want to hurt their feeling and you know it is best that u both parted ways.

How do u go about it?

make eba, warm soup for her before breaking up finally with her.

Newboss:

Na so. Just move to the next one

Ha, na die oh. For inside 6 babes when i done approach, na only 1 done give me number oh.

If you aproach babe, you dey tell her say you like her and want to date her abi you dey tell her say you would like to be her friend?

vickydevoka:

If u wan help am help am. Na small money na. U can also search for him on different social media handle. They have many way of criticizing someone

Look, I know of situation when be say, person beg money online. Once he receive the transfer, he go use the name of the person when transfer the money and the money take go do jazz oh. Na why i dey fear online beggars.

The best approach in order not to hurt the other person is to make yourself less lovable to the person in a way that it is the person who would want out. Not in an obnoxious manner at all...
I wrote a novel 20yrs ago and in it was a lady who wanted to end things without hurting her partner. First, she pretended to be interested in ing an imaginary religious denomination that entailed removing the chalaza of raw eggs before frying.
Later on, she brought up the topic of an internet chat room where she could chat with her friends who had ed away... to mention a few...
Anyway, there are several ideologies that one could make up and the partner would have no choice but to flee, of his own accord.

Buy her a car
Ask her are blood group.
If A.S. Tell her you are A S too

Newboss:
Look for that thing they said they don't like and start doing it.

The relationship will die naturally.

For me, when I'm done with a girl, I will text her very early in the morning, every day, and tell her "Come over this morning, before 12, let's fûck". If she no come before 12, I go shout for am and give some punishment. That's disgusting, I know. If her eyes doesn't clear after some days, I would start to cûm inside her mouth. Then move to fûcking her in the ass for days. No money involved.

Na she go tire, then quit the relationship. Then I go call her for days telling her that she disappointed me. That would make her feel like she won. If she comes back, I go continue the whole shît show until she quit again.

If a girl you don't like call you at night to tell you that she miss you, tell her "come over tomorrow morning before 10 let's fûck". Ask her to skip whatever plans she have for that time. Make it look like you are desperate. Girls get turned off by desperation.

U are just mad, A babe with a wide puns and dead brain with absolutely nothing doing except u as her escape from proverty will avail u everything u need, if u want fuk from dusk 2 dawn drink n cum anywhere, d next thing u will hear is I'm pregnant, at this point is she getting in closer or getting out, if u are mad enough with your I don't care attitude and its not my pregnancy, she will vomit a carbon copy of you, even your mama that has being siding u on seeing d baby will just keep quiet. Baby mama don show, quarter to enter... My brother use your head...

Newboss:


You are not smart. It's not my fault. Good luck living with your parents. There is no fantasy in that post. Real life

how old are you.. not more than 18 I bet

abudabu:


It may sound difficult, but that is the best way. You explain to him/her in subtle manner,convincing point and sincerity.

You have not seen tears and curses..but the best way for her to leave is for her to block you first. If she does that then no issues, you might even remain just friends years after...because sex na strong thing...once you connect in bed, the day u meet her again, you will . Sex strong sha.

If I really like the girl, it means she's the one that fùcked things up. the relationship nor fit end in peace. I might hate her forever.

I once told one of my babe directly that I'm ending my relationship with her...she started crying and saying things like her life has finished, why is it that men pick me and later dump me....I got moved emotionally and it eventually ended in the oza room. Chai women are smart. Anyway after every every I started avoiding her by changing my relaxation spaces and not picking her calls, men she couldn't gave up until after six months. E no easy ooo to be a woman

Don't even start it in the first place at all....

BadRadio:
Is there a perfect approach to end a relationship without hurting a partner?

Maybe the relationship gets too boring often or perhaps u both are not compatible in anyway or perhaps u both want desame thing but in different ways and style.

Maybe u care about this person but u dont want to hurt their feeling and you know it is best that u both parted ways.

How do u go about it?

Depends on how long of a relationship ur talking about. Bt generally it’s to have a discussion respectfully and explain why u can’t continue especially if it was a serious relationship.

Casual relationships fizzle out by themselves just by giving space or acting indifferent.

SteffNikky:
When my previous relationship was getting boring I decided to end it without hurting him .....��after breaking up with him that's when I realized I can't stay without him ��
Now am hurt and heartbroken....I don't know what to do bcus he's seeing someone nowww...

The greatest mistake any man can do is to love a woman out of pity or train a woman.
You ladies are the most confused set of human being.
When you see someone that truly loves you,that’s when you grow wings and started giving stupid and crazy excuses until you lose the person or one prophet who never see anything good in life will be foreseeing rubbish and you ignorantly believes.
Until you reach menopause and appear in every Shiloh program every year.