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There is this popular theory that a man must either be a smoker, a lover of liquor and if not these two, he must be a womaniser.

How true?

I think It’s up to a any guy to smoke if he chooses to ignore the health warnings and no biggie if any man drinks from time to time and of course, liking women and being a horrible flirt is up to any man. Anyone can pick their vices and live their lives in the way they please. No judgment.

But be that as it may, I think it is wrong to presume that every man would belong in either or more of these categories. There are men who don't do any and they are not less than a man.

So nairalanders what is your take, which one do you indulge in?

I've heard that before but na nonsense yarns..

I have a friend that doesn't do any. He's not driven to sex, neither does he smoke or drink. What he loves to do though is play video games. He can play PES from morning till night!

Toks2008:
There is this popular theory that a man must either be a smoker or be a lover of liquor and if not these two, he must be a womaniser.

How true?

I think It’s up to a any guy to smoke if he chooses to ignore the health warnings and no biggie if any man drinks from time to time and of course, liking women and being a horrible flirt is up to any man. Anyone can pick their vices and live their lives in the way they please. No judgment.

But be that as it may, I think it is wrong to presume that every man would belong in either or more of these categories. There are men who don't do any and they are not less than a man.

So what is your take, which one do you indulge in?

Fucking fallacy from vision less men

And a people without direction

Toks2008:
There is this popular theory that a man must either be a smoker or be a lover of liquor and if not these two, he must be a womaniser.

How true?

I think It’s up to a any guy to smoke if he chooses to ignore the health warnings and no biggie if any man drinks from time to time and of course, liking women and being a horrible flirt is up to any man. Anyone can pick their vices and live their lives in the way they please. No judgment.

But be that as it may, I think it is wrong to presume that every man would belong in either or more of these categories. There are men who don't do any and they are not less than a man.

So what is your take, which one do you indulge in?

I don't do any of the above.

Just choose your poison and die trying to save yourself

Pmedia7787:


Fucking fallacy from vision less men

And a people without direction

RingRoafia:
Nonsense yarns..

I have a friend that doesn't do any. He's not driven to sex, neither does he smoke or drink. What he loves to do though is play video games. He can play PES from morning till night!

Even me I don't do any so I began to wonder.. But I like beautiful ladies sha but that is not the same as womanising...

roteblomen:
I don't do any of these, I guess I'm not man enough then besides, where is the fun or maturity in destroying one body system with alcohol, smoking, and womanising ?

But there are few things I'm obsessed with, that can potentially kill me, and they are reading, running, thinking, philosophising, building my business and of course, minding my business. The end is result is that I'll get smarter, deeper in thoughts, respectable, peaceful, and richer.

Interesting.

Toks2008:


Even me I don't do any so I began to wonder.. But I like beautiful ladies sha but that is not the same as womanising...

I've heard many people say that, even though me I'm guilty of two inside that three, I know niggaz wey no get time. Some are either too busy or just not inductrinated to that lifestyle.

Toks2008:


Even me I don't do any so I began to wonder.. But I like beautiful ladies sha but that is not the same as womanising...

I was beside my babe looking at another... Because she got the looks... But looks no fit make me miss road

Smoking only kills the liver...and makes live worthless

Drinking does the same and even worse...I have had neighbors going six feet because they drink to much

I have seen men lost it in live because of 5 minutes of excitement

Sex as sweet as it is does not satisfy
Carrying women with bag loads of insulin as boboms brings death later in life than enjoyment as you will spend hard earned money trying to safe there lives as a result of too much insulin in their body

I guess its a foolishness that crept into the heart of humanity unknowingly

hm. i haven't heard of this absurd theory before today. i won't classify myself to any of those. those things do not make you a man and if you think that it does, maybe you need to do a self-check.

Hmm, something must kill a man

Most guys are a victim of any of the above. I don't drink or smoke. But i love them pussy and boobs very juicy.

What are you enjoying in life if you don't do either one of those.

Those Trinity are rewards for success.

Without which there is no need to work hard, and by smoking I hope you mean Cannabis and not Cancer sticks

RingRoafia:
I've heard that before but na nonsense yarns..

I have a friend that doesn't do any. He's not driven to sex, neither does he smoke or drink. What he loves to do though is play video games. He can play PES from morning till night!

He masturbates...

There are still good guys out there who doesn't do all these shits! Believe me! Just pray that you find one.

Toks2008:
There is this popular theory that a man must either be a smoker, a lover of liquor and if not these two, he must be a womaniser.

How true?

I think It’s up to a any guy to smoke if he chooses to ignore the health warnings and no biggie if any man drinks from time to time and of course, liking women and being a horrible flirt is up to any man. Anyone can pick their vices and live their lives in the way they please. No judgment.

But be that as it may, I think it is wrong to presume that every man would belong in either or more of these categories. There are men who don't do any and they are not less than a man.

So nairalanders what is your take, which one do you indulge in?

Oga Toks, plenty of people erroneously hold that going out with people who don't do any of these are socially suicidal to their imagine, I guess such people have chronic herd mentality going for them.

@Bola146
There are still good guys out there who doesn't do all these shits! Believe me! Just pray that you find one.


@me
You don't have to look far. I don't do any of this. I'm completely celibate.

I'm never moved by any. Considering where I was brought up & friends I have kept, I can only say it's been grace, or maybe discipline.

Vision101:
@Bola146
There are still good guys out there who doesn't do all these shits! Believe me! Just pray that you find one.


@me
You don't have to look far. I don't do any of this. I'm completely celibate.

Congratulations Lori iro

Vision101:
@me
You don't have to look far. I don't do any of this. I'm completely celibate.

I'm guessing there's a guy behind that moniker, Bola146. There are too many guys disguising as females here. Don't be caught unaware. If Zzor could be a male, any others can be. Saphiere sef could be a male who is only catching cruise. There are lives outside NL, so there are more to NLers than all we just spew here.

SimplyFacts:


I'm guessing there's a guy behind that moniker, Bola146. There are too many guys disguising as females here. Don't be caught unaware. If Zzor could be a male, any others can be.

Simply fact

SimplyFacts:


I'm guessing there's a guy behind that moniker, Bola146. There are too many guys disguising as females here. Don't be caught unaware. If Zzor could be a male, any others can be. Saphiere sef could be a male who is only catching cruise. There are lives outside NL, so there are more to NLers than all we just spew here.

Zzor male? Nah wah o.

Hmmm...... personally ... don't drink ... don't smoke... besides health issues and a leading to addiction it makes no sense to me. On womanizing ... that's for boosting one's ego ... my ego is just fine and under control. No doubt ... a lot of men believe they have to do certain things to ehmmm..... certify their manhood.

Yes

SimplyFacts:


I'm guessing there's a guy behind that moniker, Bola146. There are too many guys disguising as females here. Don't be caught unaware. If Zzor could be a male, any others can be. Saphiere sef could be a male who is only catching cruise. There are lives outside NL, so there are more to NLers than all we just spew here.

Zzor na guy??

chocboi78:
Zzor na guy??

As in,,,,,, real guy with balls

Vices that are addictive and destructive plenty this... I have a friend who's addicted to Pepsi. I have one whose vice is betting...




I sell and I buy any breed of dogs swiftly at a very reasonable price. Checkout my siggy for information and slide into my DM so we could strike a deal

?

SimplyFacts:


As in,,,,,, real guy with balls

This is how some of you spread things you know nothing about and try so hard to sound real,your types easily fall for scammers.I wish you fall for the serial local scammer before you put your thinking cap on whenever you see and read things on social media.The idiot Lovethaa is a serial scammer with so many monikas on Nairaland (males and females Monika's),he owns realgboy,feditune,BettyO, Valenciabaddie and so many others,he creates and stage chats,quotes himself, send himself DMS to perfect his horrible acts,he portrays himself as a big boy for gullible ones like you so you can send DM and fall prey,he specializes in asking people to drop number to get their details for his scam,he fakes and stage chats with his various numerous monikas,he creates topics and counter it with his other Monika's,he likes his posts and attack people with his other Monika's to make it real and so many devilish things,he's a demon and a depressed soul,a nairalander called him out for scamming in his last post and he ran away ever since.All the useless fake chats with Zzor plus other s that popped up when she deactivated were all lies and staged from lowlifes and attention seekers who were jealouse and envious of her popularity.After I called the foolish scammer out,he secretly quoted me on a dead thread to apologize and still lied in his apologies as usual.Be wise in your dealings here,so many tout and evil doers on Nairaland. Zzor is still here on a lowkey and very busy too. cc Toks2008 Chocboi78

Rozcol:
This is how some of you spread things you know nothing about and try so hard to sound real,your types easily fall for scammers.I wish you fall for the serial local scammer before you put your thinking cap on whenever you see and read things on social media.The idiot Lovethaa is a serial scammer with so many monikas on Nairaland (males and females Monika's),he owns realgboy,feditune,BettyO, Valenciabaddie and so many others,he creates and stage chats,quotes himself, send himself DMS to perfect his horrible acts,he portrays himself as a big boy for gullible ones like you so you can send DM and fall prey,he specializes in asking people to drop number to get their details for his scam,he fakes and stage chats with his various numerous monikas,he creates topics and counter it with his other Monika's,he likes his posts and attack people with his other Monika's to make it real and so many devilish things,he's a demon and a depressed soul,a nairalander called him out for scamming in his last post and he ran away ever since.All the useless fake chats with Zzor plus other s that popped up when she deactivated were all lies and staged from lowlifes and attention seekers who were jealouse and envious of her popularity.After I called the foolish scammer out,he secretly quoted me on a dead thread to apologize and still lied in his apologies as usual.Be wise in your dealings here,so many tout and evil doers on Nairaland. Zzor is still here on a lowkey and very busy too. cc Toks2008 Chocboi78

Interesting