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Ok guys, faced with a dilemma here. I have a girl who is very intelligent, hyper-respectful, and truly pretty. But she is illiterate, quite lazy, and portrays the element of being dirty.

Intelligent - She knows how to bring solutions to tough issues...
Hyper Respectful - You can hardly get the kind of respect she gives from ladies nowadays, I'm like a king with her.
Pretty - She is beautiful..very very. Nice ass, lovely legs, pretty face. You can't get tired of laiiing and Ziinng the body.

AN Illiterate - She cannot write a good sentence, but she can speak it though not as good as a literate person. I hate it when I read her WhatsApp chats.
Lazy - I can smell laziness in a person and I have seen the trait in her.
Dirty - her idea of clean is still dirty to me. She does not comprehend clean as I do. The kind of people that will only sweep the floor not the dirt (they are different )

SO guys, can you marry such a woman, weighing her plus and minus together. Let me have your view, maybe it could help my thoughts.

Thanks.

Lazy and dirty?

Hard one to choose

Your kind of wife God never create her...he's still moulding her clay please kindly be patience and wait whilst your transaction is still processing.


In the meantime pls free that innocent girl she deserves someone far more better than you.

rayahmad:
Ok guys, faced with a dilemma here. I have a girl who is very intelligent, hyper-respectful, and truly pretty. But she is illiterate, quite lazy, and portrays the element of being dirty.

Intelligent - She knows how to bring solutions to tough issues...
Hyper Respectful - You can hardly get the kind of respect she gives from ladies nowadays, I'm like a king with her.
Pretty - She is beautiful..very very. Nice ass, lovely legs, pretty face. You can't get tired of laiiing and Ziinng the body.

AN Illiterate - She cannot write a good sentence, but she can speak it though not as good as a literate person. I hate it when I read her WhatsApp chats.
Lazy - I can smell laziness in a person and I have seen the trait in her.
Dirty - her idea of clean is still dirty to me. She does not comprehend clean as I do. The kind of people that will only sweep the floor not the dirt (they are different )

SO guys, can you marry such a woman, weighing her plus and minus together. Let me have your view, maybe it could help my thoughts.

Thanks.

You can actually change her to the woman you want

You that have all the qualities, I'm sure you were not born with it, you learnt it so you can teach her too

Those that already have the qualities you need can't be loyal to you because someone else made them what they're

Depends on what you value. My sincere advice: don’t marry her unless you are long overdue for marriage

She can be taught cleanliness and proper hygiene.

She can be taught how to read and write properly.

You can find out what really interests her and engage her in it. If her laziness means she's not domesticated, you can either teach her or get a house keeper.

Fish Brain... how does this relate to what I have asked.

Caaz:
Your kind of wife God never create her...he's still moulding her clay please kindly be patience and wait whilst your transaction is still processing.


In the meantime pls free that innocent girl she deserves someone far more better than you.

The illiterate part is hard to work on.The laziness and dirtiness can still be improved.
The choice is yours sha.

op is a mumu. no one is perfect. Even this question you are asking shows that you have your own big issues.
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if you are like a king to her...make her your queen. That is all that matters most.

Intelligent and illetrate?
Marry her
Don't ask me why

Mtcheeeewwww

rayahmad:
Fish Brain... how does this relate to what I have asked.

Gulderbrain thank you.

Na to give you clay o. Mould Your Own type of woman and teach her what you want her to know




Beautiful rubbish

Eryyy92:
Intelligent and illetrate?
Marry her
Don't ask me why

U sef dey see am abi. "Intelligent and illiterate"

You are not quite different from her since she's the kind of lady you attracted.

rayahmad:
Ok guys, faced with a dilemma here. I have a girl who is very intelligent, hyper-respectful, and truly pretty. But she is illiterate, quite lazy, and portrays the element of being dirty.

Intelligent - She knows how to bring solutions to tough issues...
Hyper Respectful - You can hardly get the kind of respect she gives from ladies nowadays, I'm like a king with her.
Pretty - She is beautiful..very very. Nice ass, lovely legs, pretty face. You can't get tired of laiiing and Ziinng the body.

AN Illiterate - She cannot write a good sentence, but she can speak it though not as good as a literate person. I hate it when I read her WhatsApp chats.
Lazy - I can smell laziness in a person and I have seen the trait in her.
Dirty - her idea of clean is still dirty to me. She does not comprehend clean as I do. The kind of people that will only sweep the floor not the dirt (they are different )

SO guys, can you marry such a woman, weighing her plus and minus together. Let me have your view, maybe it could help my thoughts.

Thanks.

How is possible to be intelligent and illiterate?

Being an intelligent person is even better than educated fool.

Mind you it can't cause an intelligent person much to go back to school and Become educated.

But where can educated fool become intelligent in his life.

90% owner of established companies we're once illiterates but later graduated.
The ball is on your court to play

Romanoff:
She can be taught cleanliness and proper hygiene.

She can taught how to read and write properly.

You can find our what really interests her and engage her in it. If her laziness means she's not domesticated, you can either teach her or get a house keeper.

Getting her a house keeper won't do her any good ,nobody is perfect and I'm sure OP is not perfect too ,since she is pretty and respectful,you have to find out she is not a damaged woman( Having some many ex'es or just desperate to get married )then she is still in her learning process and you have to stick to her face and let her know she is dirty and politely correct her again and again,she won't want to lose you and be ashamed of herself and from there she will always try her possible best to be neat so she can satisfy,for a lady to be respectful without the desperation or realisation that she is getting older and need to get married shows she is from good home and If she can get neat she will as a wonderful housewife and mother to your kids and it will be to your gain OP

Shes Smart.
Respectful and beautiful.

Marry her..............

obama30:


How is possible to be intelligent and illiterate?

Being an intelligent person is even better than educated fool.

Mind you it can't cause an intelligent person much to go back to school and Become educated.

But where can educated fool become intelligent in his life.

90% owner of established companies we're once illiterates but later graduated.
The ball is on your court to play

Baba na dust u been dey yarn so o, you think this is nollywood where she'll enroll in a random school and after one week she's more vast in English than Soyinka?? The earlier u realise the more you age the less ur mental capabilities the better for you and for someone who has not been fully into schooling, you think it'll be easy for her to cope? Less i forget he said she's lazy so baba forget school for that typa girl.

One thing u should know is that a man deserves a wife that is exposed & can represent his kids or himself anywhere and talk fluently, making the kids proud n all. Im no prophet but i know the said lady will be very aggresive

Una too the confuse person for this forum which 1 be intelligent and illiterate again

@ Op you are not serious, if you like dull yourself another sharp guy go marry am. Anybody can learn anything. For your information some illiterates have eventually turn out to be president in a prosperous country.

Lazy and dirty can be fixed by teaching her good hygiene and hard work. But ugliness cannot be fixed my brother, it's from the blood, it will affect the next generation. Choose your poison wisely

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dHta5_6mMs8

Love isn't complicated, we humans are.

Everything you mentioned has a solution, the question is, is she teachable?

With the kind of respect you said she has for you, I'm sure she'd want to learn from you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3LWte4rJDFk

She is respectful, so she will most probably be submissive. She is intelligent, she is pretty. These are good qualities. Can you manage her bad sides(laziness and dirtiness) on a long term? If your answer is NO, then you Know what to do.

Op what are your own qualities

Okay, so she's beautiful, intelligent, and respectful but she's illiterate, lazy, and dirty. Simple solve, since she respects you, she should be open to taking directives, tell her "i want you to do this like this", "the correct spelling is this". It shouldn't be too hard to correct her faults since according to you, she's intelligent but uneducated. Respectful + intelligent (usually) = pliability.

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Intelligent and illiterate

That's an oxymoron

She can't be intelligent and dirty...

Kaymicheal852:


Thank you. I have been trying to teach her my sense of cleaning and being tidy. Also corrects her grammar every time. I mean, I am just hoping I don't get tired of this and begin to react. The good side of her is so pleasing to me.







Getting her a house keeper won't do her any good ,nobody is perfect and I'm sure OP is not perfect too ,since she is pretty and respectful,you have to find out she is not a damaged woman( Having some many ex'es or just desperate to get married )then she is still in her learning process and you have to stick to her face and let her know she is dirty and politely correct her again and again,she won't want to lose you and be ashamed of herself and from there she will always try her possible best to be neat so she can satisfy,for a lady to be respectful without the desperation or realisation that she is getting older and need to get married shows she is from good home and If she can get neat she will as a wonderful housewife and mother to your kids and it will be to your gain OP