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Shared by a lady on Twitter, according to her, Before winning a lady over, chances are high she would probably have other men asking her out or wanting to get her attention. And when this happen, there's that high ego that usually come from a lady who have lots of guys drooling over her and would want you to be more persuasive. In as much as some ladies enjoy this, others don't as we have what works for everyone while sorting for a partner.

A lady who has become worried with this situation has taken to Twitter to lament that most men are no longer persuasive once they ask them out and you say no, Instead of them to keep applying pressure as it often termed while in the talking stage of a relationship, its case closed for them. Checkout her post below:

Who noticed that men are no longer persuasive? Once they ask you out and you say NO……… Case close

https://mobile.twitter.com/DeeBeeVilla/status/1389852426468007936

Na money be fine bobo!

Time no dey to waste for babe matter again.

Things too hard, e don reach 3days now I never shit cuz na who chop dey go toilet.

Hahaha, I laugh! Men have changed methods. If you like yourself Sis, learn to develop good friendship and always be sincere

It's because most of you are liabilities instead of being an assets. So, why would a rational being would be persuading a liability?

It is not a multimillion naira contract that a man will keep wasting his time on..

Honestly.. a lot of young boys are growing up with the orientation that money is key to a girls heart or hole.. and even the ladies have proven it to be right..

You suffer toast babe.. yahoo boy or sugar daddy go come collect am..

No love in the city just make money, bang pussy, smoke weed and pray for long life

JaneYave:
Hahaha, I laugh! Men have changed methods. If you like yourself Sis, learn to develop good friendship and always be sincere

that 12th breakup.. lol

We are always on the move now. If you hoard your pussy, we move to the next available one. No time to waste time.

when better sexy olosho na 5k or less if you dey egbeda or igando.
With 50k you can Bleep 10 sexy beautiful oloshos each for 10 straight weekends. good on bed, with no calling\nagging issue or menstrual issue, all you just have to do is safeguard your properties and be smart.
In 10 weeks your girlfriend would have billed you more than 100k and she might not even be good on bed or as beautiful as the oloshos we have outside now. Plus nagging and menstrual issues and she will definitely have sugar daddies and side dudes,besties, pastors (hmmm)
I hate hearing that menstrual pain complains

Why waste tym toasting a babe dat U will end up spending ur money on.

gentlestdude:
when better sexy olosho na 5k or less if you dey egbeda or igando

Men don't have that kinda time anymore. Our economy is in chaos.
We can't be chasing money and puss.y at the same fuckin time biiii

These bitches runnin' but the money that we chasing.

Persuasive? Plenty of guys are tired of pursuing. Please help yourself by negotiating your marriage or relationship. Humble yourself and accept if you are okay with the person. "The world is now in a hurry"...By the time you are still trying to prove your worth or how virtuous or how expensive you are, another easy-going lady might have taken over. The next thing you may see is wedding card after some months, then her pregnancy with two baby bouncing girls as twins...

I wish all those girls on nairaland that are always claiming feminist will see this ... Men can't waste the time they should have used in chasing money to be chasing you .

Especially guys that trade crypto

Men has been on the loosing side since the invention of time and creation of women , so I guess we cutting our chances now . And waiting on the bible manifestation to come to .

She Who is Hard To Want, Should Not Play Hard To Get

There are plenty of fish in the ocean now

And it will only get worse.

The kind of men that persistently chase women are those without any kind of goal or purpose. How can I persuade a woman to come and enjoy herself? What kind of foolishness is that ?

For me it's simple, it's "oya come let go", and if she ain't coming, her loss. New girls turn 18 everyday.

No time to check time

I can authoritatively say that Marriage is a life time of sacrifice yet ladies want the brothers to start sacrificing just to get a Yes for a relationship that may not work out eventually. You are not serious yet.

It's not a case of 'nowadays' for me. It has always been so.

Even before a No, once I sense a girl is not receptive to my advances, I move on. Persuade? Nah

A

Courtesy of
STINGY MEN ASSOCIATION
and I'm proud to be one of Dem till tomorrow

Come...
Let’s do..
I no do..
Ok..

E no that oo..

IvarDboneless:
Shared by a lady on Twitter, according to her, Before winning a lady over, chances are high she would probably have other men asking her out or wanting to get her attention. And when this happen, there's that high ego that usually come from a lady who have lots of guys drooling over her and would want you to be more persuasive. In as much as some ladies enjoy this, others don't as we have what works for everyone while sorting for a partner.

A lady who has become worried with this situation has taken to Twitter to lament that most men are no longer persuasive once they ask them out and you say no, Instead of them to keep applying pressure as it often termed while in the talking stage of a relationship, its case closed for them. Checkout her post below:



https://mobile.twitter.com/DeeBeeVilla/status/1389852426468007936

No time to dey waste time